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Avoiding a nickname...

28 replies

Smerlin · 08/07/2013 19:16

Think we have decided on Alexandra Rose for our baby girl's name but am keen to avoid her being nicknamed 'Alex' by family.

We are happy to call her by her full name, also really like Alexa as a shortening but for me Alex just sounds too boyish and don't like the way people pronounce it 'Aliks'

Do you think we can avoid people shortening it to Alex? I don't mind pretty much any other shortening- Alexa, Zandra, Sasha etc and I like the fact it gives her a lot of freedom to choose when she is older (even if she wants to choose Alex!) but just don't want PIL/friends etc assuming they can call her Alex!

Is it inevitable??

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language · 08/07/2013 20:43

We have an Alexandra and same here - we dislike the surname Alex. Generally, introduce her as Alexandra or Alexa and people call her so. If someone calls her "Alex", I just day "we normallu call her Alexa" and people follow this.

Blanketsandpillows · 08/07/2013 20:35

I think it's very difficult to avoid...but might it be impossible.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 08/07/2013 19:21

Nope, you can't avoid it. We named dd2 with my proviso that her nn would be X and not Y. It was Y from as soon as she learned her own name, and she has insisted on Y ever since. I am the only person who ever calls her X (and she hates it!).

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