Do you really think that you just know when you see your baby?

I think babies grow into their names, after all I have never met an adult and thought that their name didn't suit them.

I wanted dd to have a strong name that would suit a girl and an adult woman. if I had given her a name which suited her as a newborn she would have been called squishybum or jigglepops.

With DS I just knew.

With DD I wasn't sure (we didn't have a name picked already) I'm still not convinced we gave her the best name for her.

with dd we had 2 first names in mind and two middle names but picked once she was born. she ended up with both the first names, one as first and one as middle because they really suited her.

with ds we had more trouble choosing a name. I startedcchanging my mind after he was born and then we ended up deciding on the one we had picked when I was pregnant. I think he was about ten days old before I made up my mind.

We had two names lined up for DD before she was born and she has neither of those names. We went with a name we had discussed and liked but wasn't actually on the short list because it seemed to suit her best.

It took us weeks to name DS so he was just 'baby' for quite a while, we couldn't decide on a name we liked. We had girls' names lined up but nothing for a boy. Good job you can't give a baby a complex by not naming him. In the end we stuck a dozen names into a hat and pulled one out!

We had two names and as soon as we saw DS we knew which name he was. He has lived up to that name ever since but maybe that's the way we perceive it. If we'd chosen the other name then maybe we'd have had the same view. Everyone who has ever met him though has said that he couldn't be anything but his name although that could be for the wrong reasons!

God no, it took 3 weeks!

I had hoped so, we went in with a shortlist of six but he didn't look like any of them! In fact he looked so much like one of my brothers that the only name I could think of was that brother's name, which was out of the question. Four days later we gave him a name not on our original list at all and it definitely suits him, though I think several others would have suited him too.

We had decided a name before ds2 was born. We were both totally agreed and we both loved it. Yet I took one look at him the second he was born, and it was just there in my head: "Well you're certainly not an X!" Swiftly followed by "What the hell are we going to call you then?!"

So we talked and talked and talked some more and three weeks later eventually settled on my next choice.

Another no here!

You will definitely know if it's the wrong name. Ds1 did not suit his chosen name at all. Wrong colour hair for it ! I know it's sounds silly. Don't be in any rush tp pick baby names you have weeks before you have to decide. I 'tried out' several names on DD1 before deciding on something I would never have considered during pregnancy.

If I had waited until birth to name my DDs, they'd be called 'Winston' and 'Churchill'

We used our chosen names for both and both have grown into them like Blue says. DH and I are very tall so we didn't chose delicate fairylike names - I think that would have been a deal-breaker for our big, chubby babies.

We didn't. It took a week before we decided. He was just 'the baby' til then.

No here too! Had a name in mind before dc1 arrived but were very undecided when she was born and afterwards. Never been quite sure stil tbh!

No. DS1 was named at birth but DS2 &3 took 2 weeks and 5 weeks to decide!

With DD we took this approach but didn't find picking a name any easier once she'd arrived! We also found that all the possibilities we'd picked out didn't suit her and picked a completely different name in the end. The name we eventually chose was one we'd hated during the pregnancy but it just suits her.

I didn't.

We had a choice of two names.

We asked the midwife to choose

I guess some people must as a lot of people seem to say it! We had a definite name before having DS as we're very indecisive and knew we'd take ages otherwise. I think certain names make me think of certain features like hair colour for example, but on the whole I don't go in for "knowing when you see them" - I think babies grow to look like whatever name you give them.