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Maria Theresa

120 replies

chickenfactory · 13/06/2013 12:52

Too holy sounding?
Can't decide on a middle name for our 2day old, any other suggestions?

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MurderOfCrows · 17/06/2013 10:09

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TheBirdsFellDownToDingADong · 17/06/2013 10:01

I like Maria Elena (as suggested upthread) as well. They sound lovely together.

TheBirdsFellDownToDingADong · 17/06/2013 10:00

I know! Call he Maria-Maddison or Maria-Chardonnay (don't forget the hypen!!!! Tres important!) Then she'll fit in everywhere.

I think that as the OP has also said her baby is already called Maria and that she is looking for a middle name, we could perhaps leave the obnoxious comments about her choice out of it, no?

MurderOfCrows · 17/06/2013 09:50

Forget the bullying, it's simply an uninspired, boring name.

pinkje · 17/06/2013 09:50

Maria Grace (as suggested up thread) is beautiful.

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kelda · 17/06/2013 09:46

Exactly Elquota. It is a Catholic name. And no-one should be scared of using it just because it is Catholic.

Elquota · 17/06/2013 09:42

Saying the name "sounds Catholic" definitely isn't a judgement either way, it's just an observation.

HahaHarrie · 17/06/2013 09:42

Goodness RaRaZ, how depressing you live in an area that is so prejudice, ignorant, unaccepting of others and limited! Not doubt it is the parents attitude that the children are picking up on? Woe betide anyone being different by the sounds of things.

"I've also stated that, in my area, it would likely inspire bullying. Yes, so might a million other things, like having red hair or speaking 'posh', but personally I wouldn't choose a name I thought my child would be picked on for. "

bridgetsmum · 17/06/2013 09:38

P.s. I'm Irish Catholic too, but don't use my middle name in everyday so I'm just known as Maria

kelda · 17/06/2013 09:37

I don't think it is particularly relevant where the OP lives. Unless you live on the moon, we live in a multicultural society with many different names.

Parents from all over the world use their cultural heritage and religion as influences for their children's names.

In my son's class there a Maria and a Moses. Side by side. I really hope that no-one will ever think it is acceptable for either child to be bullied because of their name.

RaRaZ · 17/06/2013 09:35

TheBirds : Did she? Sorry, I must've missed that. So yes, fair point: she's likely to be attending a school where that won't be a problem.

However, if the OP asks for an opinion on whether it's too saintly, what's wrong with giving an opinion? I think it is; you may not.

bridgetsmum · 17/06/2013 09:35

I love it, probably cos that's my name, Grin
But I'm Maria Teresa, no 'h'

I was named after Maria in West Side Story, don't know where the Teresa came from!
Mx

RaRaZ · 17/06/2013 09:33

No, I don't. Nor do I have a problem with Catholic names. I think you're missing the point somewhat. The OP asked if it too saintly sounding. Several of us replied that we thought it was. I couldn't give a monkey's about the origin of the name, but I do think it sounds too much like a nun and therefore, for me, it's not the right name. I've also stated that, in my area, it would likely inspire bullying. Yes, so might a million other things, like having red hair or speaking 'posh', but personally I wouldn't choose a name I thought my child would be picked on for. I'm not saying I'm right, but the OP asked for opinions and that was mine. I really don't see your problem.

TheBirdsFellDownToDingADong · 17/06/2013 09:32

RaRaZ As the OP has said she is Catholic I think we can presume her acquaintances would have no problem with her child being called Maria.

I have a huge problem with chavvy/surname/made up/uniquely spelled names but to presume a child would be bullied because of having a name which has been around for millennia is frankly a little bit mental.

kelda · 17/06/2013 09:27

What exactly is the problem with a Catholic name? Do you also have a problem with Islamic/Jewish names?

RaRaZ · 17/06/2013 09:24

Lol. There's a big difference between thinking a name sounds 'holier than THOU' and actually picking on someone because of it - I hope you realise that.

It may be ok where you live and where you send your child/ren to school, and I think there'd be a big difference between state and private and RC and non-RC schools too, but I certainly wouldn't give any of my children a 'saintly' sounding name because I know that around here it would set them up to be picked on, especially in their teenage years. Doesn't really matter what would happen where I live or where you live though - it's where the OP lives that matters here.

kelda · 17/06/2013 09:21

But then if there are people on mumsent calling the name 'holier then thoguh' then I am not surprised if their children do turn out to be bullies because of a child's name.

kelda · 17/06/2013 09:19

Really? Bullied for having the name Maria Theresa?

RaRaZ · 17/06/2013 09:18

...except she'd probably get bullied at school, Kelda , and might be a little too keen to shed her holier-than-though persona when she hits the age of 13...

kelda · 17/06/2013 08:37

Nothing wrong with being reminded of a nun.

Maria is typically a Catholic name, with a strong traditional in Spanish speaking countries, the Low countries and Ireland etc.

My dd1 has Maria as a second name.
I know loads of people with Maria in their name -
Maria-Sophia
Marie-Louisa
Anna-Marie
Maria-Elena
Rose-Maria (Rosemie as a nickname)

Mia /Mieke are traditional nicknames.

sashh · 17/06/2013 07:53

Makes me think of a nun, sorry.

Eastpoint · 17/06/2013 05:39

What about Maria Scarlett? Is there a non-traditional name you like? Do either of you have any different cultural reference points you can pull in? Eg if any Spanish Ines, Gwenyth & Wales, Danish Astrid

What about Maria Maude?

ZZZenagain · 17/06/2013 05:35

Theresa is just the middle name. She'd be Maria to everyone. I like it.

chickenfactory · 17/06/2013 05:11

I like emily actually, forgot it was one if my options for a first name.
Theresa is a name of both sides of the family but neither person is bothered if we use it, they don't really like it themselves. Hence the question if we lumber her with the same!
We are catholic if that makes a difference.

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