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Is this name to American for living in the UK?

108 replies

Sprinklesomepixiedust · 15/03/2013 20:55

DH and I have decided on a name for soon to be born DD1. When we revealed the name to my parents they said it sounded ridiculous and far too 'American' for living in the UK. However DH is American and before you say anything, there are careful reasons why we chose this name.
The name is Savannah Dallas Kaitlynne
Savannah is one of our favourite names and always has been. Dallas may sound a little ridiculous but it is where DH originates from and was where she was conceived naturally after 3 unsuccessful rounds of IVF in the UK. It is also pretty much my favourite place in the world! And Kaitlynne was the name of DH's sister who sadly died last year so we thought it would be nice to include that.
DH's family love the name but I do worry it sounds very American for the UK(we dont live in a particularly multi-cultural area at all, I think DH is pretty much the only foreign person!) What are your opinions on the name?

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expatinscotland · 16/03/2013 20:49

She could be on Teen Mom with that name.

ErikNorseman · 16/03/2013 20:42

Savannah Kaitlynne surname is fine. Sure the spelling is very American but there is a very good reason...but Dallas in there too is too much. Naming kids after places, especially places they were conceived, is odd and unnecessary IMO. If I were you I would drop the Dallas.

TheSecondComing · 16/03/2013 19:29

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DPotter · 16/03/2013 18:51

Yes it sounds American and that's fine; however would suggest Savannah Kaitlynne Dallas as someone further up the post suggested. To me Savannah Dallas Kaitlynne has a geographical feel to it.

SpringlingSpaniel · 16/03/2013 18:50

Two middle names is a lot but if you're going to have two, surely have one to honour your DHs family/heritage and one for your family/heritage. I imagine your parents are feeling that your side of the family is being pushed out.

My two have one middle name each, and one is from DHs side, one is my maiden name.

Mummasmurf · 16/03/2013 18:45

Oh dear.

colditz · 16/03/2013 18:44

I will remind you that you specifically asked for opinions .....

It's absolutely awful. It's atrocious and it sounds like the sort of child who gets injected with Botox at three and dragged around the beauty pageant circuit to support Momma's slot machine habit. I would expect to see a child named Savannah Dallas Kaitlynne in fake tan and glittery high heeled shoes at five, a padded bra at nine, and two kids and an alcohol problem at seventeen.

It's so trailer trash it's comedic. Don't do it. At least, at the very least, drop Dallas. There is a well known porn film called Debbie Does Dallas, don't make your daughter gain that nickname at high school.

bigkidsdidit · 16/03/2013 18:36

well, you asked for opinions, and yes it is very American. I'd drop Dallas and go with Savannah Kaitlynne.

sparkle12mar08 · 16/03/2013 18:30

Seeing as you asked for oppinions, my own personal oppinion is that they're all bloody awful names. And in my, again asked for, oppinion, they do scream trailer trash/chav/illiterate etc. Because if people don't know you or your reasons for choosing them and only see the names written down or called out, then that's exactly what they're going to think, I promise you. MN can be very irght on at times but Joe Public? Not so much.

lljkk · 16/03/2013 17:07

I am the only foreign parent up at the school, hard to think of any other foreign adults locally. Savannah would be fine around here (fits with the little Zarannes & Sarayas...) & nobody but relatives would remember the middle names, anyway. That said...

Debbie does Dallas screams to mind, sorry.

I think where you touched a nerve is by not honouring both sides, nothing in the names seems to come from her British heritage. conservative with a small c, all that.

the spelling Kaitlynne drives me batty but I understand: am American too, and my dad/DS2 middle name is a similar bizarre spelling on an ordinary name, there's a whole funny story behind our strange spelling.

expatinscotland · 16/03/2013 17:01

I'd get rid of Dallas.

Branleuse · 16/03/2013 17:01

its your baby, and the name is fine.

flossy101 · 16/03/2013 16:53

Love the name savannah, and how special to have middle names that mean so much!

BabyRoger · 16/03/2013 16:35

I think it's quite a nice name. I do prefer Dallas on the end, though. Savannah. Kaitlynne Dallas.

Timetoask · 16/03/2013 16:23

I like Savannah!
Granted, she is a much wanted baby and was concieved in Dallas, BUT, do you really need to call her after the place? What if she would have been concieved during a holiday to Saudi Arabia or the falkland islands? Would you have called her that?
Personally, naming children after dead relatives is not my thing but I can understand why your DH wants to do so, and it is a lovely name.

IroningBoredDaily · 16/03/2013 16:18

^ damn auto correct

IroningBoredDaily · 16/03/2013 16:17

I like the name Savannah.

I like the name Caitlin, but not with the alternative spelling I'm afraid. I can understand using it to honour your late sil, but you have to think about how you will feel explaining the name to others as you have said it wouldn't be your personal first choice. Don't use a name you are not 100% sure about.

I wouldn't definitely not use 'Dallas'. There is no need.

AmandaPayneNeedsaHoliday · 16/03/2013 15:59

merry makes a good point actually. Have you thought about putting something from your family in there?

Littlefish · 16/03/2013 14:57

Sprinkle, you asked for people's opinions. Why bother? You're not going to change your mind. You were never going to change your mind. You don't care what people's opinions are. That's absolutely fine. You love the names, you want to call your dd those names.

MerryMarigold · 16/03/2013 12:59

I think: why not? The middle names will be important to no-one except her, and there's a lovely history there.

Just wonder though if your family's apparent bitteness is because there is nothing in her name to do with your family. If she is a long awaited baby, maybe they feel like it is all about your dh, is history and his family. Do they feel you are getting lost in him?

If I were you, I would dump the Dallas (which imo is the worst of the names) and put something in that has relevance to your history or your family, like your maiden name or your grandmother's name or whatever. That way you have something of you in there.

LinusVanPelt · 16/03/2013 12:53

Sorry, OP - I love when names have meaning behind them. I think your choices are lovely, particularly the part that's after your dh's sister.

It's a beautiful way to give your daughter a strong connection to her auntie.

LinusVanPelt · 16/03/2013 12:49

Yes, 'trailer trash' is offensive. Ridiculous that anyone should have to be told that.

Living in a trailer, probably because that's what he or she can afford, does not make a person 'trash'. Neither does being American. Neither does having a name that is not to your taste.

Grow up.

MrsSham · 16/03/2013 10:30

I would have Dallas at end rather than the middle. Savannah kaitlynne Dallas.

I do prefere this spelling rather than Caitlin.

FlatsInDagenham · 16/03/2013 10:13

I think it's beautiful. Especially having understood the reasons for your choices.

blueshoes · 16/03/2013 10:10

I would agree with toobreathless