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Worlds most popular name, but I like it!

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binkybonk · 07/02/2013 13:18

At 40 weeks (due date was yesterday!) so really need to get sorted! I think Harry is just a good solid name. DH doesn't like a) no long version/ no option to change/ adjust b) he read somewhere it was number 1 in UK last year and although I don't really mind this, I think he's let it colour his judgement.
If you have been lucky enough to avoid my other name posts, DS1 is Charlie (Charles) and his cousins are William, Oliver, Max, Sam and George x 2- all names we would have happily had but over a 3 year naming span it's a bit close!
To this naming malarkey. Feels so vital and life changing now and then once baby's out it seems pathetic to have worried!
Help!!

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rachel234 · 07/02/2013 15:26

"There is a reason that it's popular. Don't worry about it."

Yes, it is popular because it is used by lots and lots of people who all have the same idea at the same time. Why wouldn't one want to worry about this popularity? Having worked in schools and scouts, it can be a pain if several kids share the same name. Not the end of the world, but easily avoidable if we make a little more effort in choosing a name that is not already widely used. After all, why do we name things/people? Surely to identify them.

EuroShopperEnergyDrink · 07/02/2013 15:14

What about Hadley?

weegiemum · 07/02/2013 15:08

I was one of 4 in my class with the same name - hated it as it was so popular.

I teach pre-school storytelling and last year in a class of 16 I had 4 Lilys. Harry isn't popular where I am, but this year have 4 Calum/Callums. I'd really not wish that ubiquity on a child.

My dc all have solid, fairly timeless names. Harry is nice, popular, but very "now". Popular for a reason, people say. But it wasn't that popular 1 years ago. It's popular because it's popular!

Sirzy · 07/02/2013 15:08

Ds is the only Harry in his nursery.

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binkybonk · 07/02/2013 15:07

Haha, Booyhoo, I have no understanding of t'internet 'tone' and/ or the etiquette of forums in general and then in the last weeks of pregnancy I've been posting left right and centre and getting my knickers in a right old twist
Quite fun though

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Egusta · 07/02/2013 15:05

Love Henry and love Harry.

Nothing of use to add, sorry.

[congrats by the way!]

Booyhoo · 07/02/2013 15:03

doh!

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binkybonk · 07/02/2013 14:56

Sorry for the melodramatic title Booyhoo but people's responses have all involved it's popularity rather than the fact it's just a nice name

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JaneLane · 07/02/2013 14:55

I've got a Henry who goes by Harry most of the time (he is 5). He is one of two Harrys in his class - there are more Charlies, Olivers and Jacks.

If you like it then that is what matters!

SanityClause · 07/02/2013 14:54

I was one of 6 girls with variations of my name in one year at school. (A bit like Marianne, Mary-Anne, Mary-Ann.)

I hated my name, and still wish my parents had gone for the choice that they thought was "too unusual".

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binkybonk · 07/02/2013 14:53

Have looked quite extensively outside the top 100, but tbh I'm happy for my child to have a popular name- they'll make it theirs. But more to the point I couldn't find any I liked
I teach 4 year olds (200 in one year group!!) and we haven't had a Harry for 2 years and there's only 1 coming up next year. We have tons of Cosmos, Arlos, Tigers and Kits though. So I think the fact we are thousands of miles from the UK helps, but DH still worried about it as we are UK nationals although can't see us living there for at least 10 years .
Only name I prefer is Frederick (family name) and he would be Fred.

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Booyhoo · 07/02/2013 14:52

how is harry the world's most popular name?

eminemmerdale · 07/02/2013 14:49

When I was doing youth work around 12 years ago, I had a group of girls in one of my groups named thus: Kelly, Kylie, Kerry, Kacey and Kayleigh (x 2) I kid you not.

mamalovesmojitos · 07/02/2013 14:49

Harry is a lovely name. I have a very popular name. I still really like it .

Panzee · 07/02/2013 14:46

There is a reason that it's popular. Don't worry about it.

FranglaisMaman · 07/02/2013 14:43

Love Harry, it's top of our list for a boy too. I also considered putting Henry on the BC as someone suggested as the 'proper' name, but as MIL pointed out, this might be confusing for people when he's in school etc, who might not be aware that Harry is a pet name of Henry, because they're so similar & it might complicate things. I too am struggling with a 'proper' name for it though as I hate Harold! You could have Harrison nn Harry?

I say go for it, never mind that it's popular! These names are popular for a reason, because they are lovely. I would quite happily have had the uber-popular Jack if my SIL hadn't beat me to it

catladycourtney1 · 07/02/2013 14:11

I love it too but I can't get past the fact that it's so popular. And I'm having a girl anyway. But if you like it then go for it!

Startail · 07/02/2013 14:04

I was Star 1/4 in my year at senior.
DD1 is usually 1/2
And DD2 varies widely from 1/2 - 1/5 dependent on group.

DHs name is also stupidly common and I've had phone calls involving him and two colleagues of the same name which were fun.

Generally it causes very little confusion and it's actually useful, because people tend to make the effort to learn your surname, preferred NN and not mix you up.

I find Ellie, Élan, Evie, Elsie, Eve and Eleanor who doesn't shorten it, all together more confusing.

mummybare · 07/02/2013 14:02

He could be Harrison/Harris/Henry if you want a 'long' version.

Or, if you are after other suggestions, how about Edward, Jonathan, Max, Alexander or Benjamin?

Congratulations on your imminent arrival :)

thegreylady · 07/02/2013 13:58

Henry is Harry
I don't think you want a Harold do you?
How about Edward? Not too popular and lots of great nn's from Ed via Ted and Woody to Bear!

ZolaBuddleia · 07/02/2013 13:54

What about Thomas/Tom/Tommy?

rachel234 · 07/02/2013 13:50

"I have an unusual name and hated it at school as nobody knew how to spell it."

Sorry to hear that. But there are lots and lots of names that are easy to pronounce/spell and yet are outside the top 100, reducing the likelihood of having to share your name with potentially lots of others.

belleat40 · 07/02/2013 13:46

Year at school I mean, I'm sure other parents called their child the same name in 2009!

belleat40 · 07/02/2013 13:46

We chose a really popular name for dd2, she's the only one in her year so it doesn't necessarily mean Harry will be one of many. If you like it, use it.

AmandaPayne · 07/02/2013 13:42

Well, actually Harry is a nickname for Henry as per Prince Harry. So there is a 'formal' version - though I will grant you it is the same number of letters so no 'long' version .

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