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Help! My Dad has poisoned our name......

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ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 21:55

I need a new middle name. We had the first name Ava, middle name Florence. We both loved the name Ava Florence. I committed the cardinal sin, and told my parents our girls name. My Dad said Ava Flo, followed by Over-Flow. Dad has spoilt the name for me. My husband would still use the name, as he does not think middle names are ever used, and nobody else would come up with Over-Flow. I?m not taking the risk, the name has been tarnished.

It?s 35 weeks and we?re back to the drawing board. I should mention it took us 30 weeks to finally decide on Ava Florence, and I?m particularly difficult when it comes to names.

I have a few rules when it comes to the middle name:

  • It must not end in an - a (Ava ends in an a)
  • It must not end in an ?ie or ?y. I don?t like ie or y names.
  • It must not start with a vowel, a G, or a T.
  • It must be more than two syllables. Ideally I?d like a longer middle name, as we have chosen a short first name.

My husband is an inverted snob, and his rules are:

  • It must not be posh or pretentious (it took me ages to convince him that Florence is a common name)
  • It must not be more than three syllables

So far, we have ruled out the following names:

Ava Juliet
Ava Primrose
Ava Delphine
Ava Seraphine
Ava Constance
Ava Clarice

Your help would be hugely appreciated.

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BehindLockNumberNine · 13/01/2013 22:08

Ava Cecile?

ratbagcatbag · 13/01/2013 22:07

Ava savannah (ok slightly a sounding end)
Ava Charlotte
Ava brogan
Ava Sophia

ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 22:07

No, we both love the name Ava. I know it's popular, but don't mind. It sounds fab with our surname too.

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forgetmenots · 13/01/2013 22:07

Here are a few for a start OP, although I really would pay your dad no heed. Ava Florence is lovely. Can I ask, have you ruled out some of your list because DH thinks they are posh? Might help other posters!

Ava Beatrice
Ava Catherine
Ava Charlotte
Ava Francine
Ava Helene
Ava Hermione (may be breaking an ending rule, and posh rule!)
Ava Jasmine
Ava Juniper
Ava Jacqueline
Ava Janine
Ava Katrine
Ava Kirsten
Ava Louise
Ava Lauren (very 50s film star to me!)
Ava Linden
Ava Marcheline
Ava Martine
Ava Margaret
Ava Michelle
Ava Nadine
Ava Nicole
Ava Pauline
Ava Penelope
Ava Rachel
Ava Rosaline
Ava Roxanne
Ava Seren
Ava Sandrine
Ava Susanne
Ava Vivienne

PelvicFloorClenchReminder · 13/01/2013 22:04

Could you have Florence Ava instead?

ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 22:03

I agree middle names are not used, but I still want a pretty middle name, that flows with our other names. It matters to me.

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ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 22:02

Thanks, but the list of names are ones that we have ruled out. DH does not like any of them except for Clarice, and I'm not keen on Clarice.

I cannot get past Over-Flow, so Ava Florence, is now a no no. I loved it prior to my Dad's comment.

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ripsishere · 13/01/2013 21:59

TBH, I agree with your DH. Middle names just aren't used except on forms. I've certainly never called my DD XX, rather than just X.
If you are absolutely set on changing your choice, I like all of them except Primrose and Delphine.
Good luck OP.