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Help! My Dad has poisoned our name......

83 replies

ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 21:55

I need a new middle name. We had the first name Ava, middle name Florence. We both loved the name Ava Florence. I committed the cardinal sin, and told my parents our girls name. My Dad said Ava Flo, followed by Over-Flow. Dad has spoilt the name for me. My husband would still use the name, as he does not think middle names are ever used, and nobody else would come up with Over-Flow. I?m not taking the risk, the name has been tarnished.

It?s 35 weeks and we?re back to the drawing board. I should mention it took us 30 weeks to finally decide on Ava Florence, and I?m particularly difficult when it comes to names.

I have a few rules when it comes to the middle name:

  • It must not end in an - a (Ava ends in an a)
  • It must not end in an ?ie or ?y. I don?t like ie or y names.
  • It must not start with a vowel, a G, or a T.
  • It must be more than two syllables. Ideally I?d like a longer middle name, as we have chosen a short first name.

My husband is an inverted snob, and his rules are:

  • It must not be posh or pretentious (it took me ages to convince him that Florence is a common name)
  • It must not be more than three syllables

So far, we have ruled out the following names:

Ava Juliet
Ava Primrose
Ava Delphine
Ava Seraphine
Ava Constance
Ava Clarice

Your help would be hugely appreciated.

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MaggieMaggieMaggieMcGill · 14/01/2013 01:05

Ava Margot?
Ava Francine?
Ava Petra?
Ava Georgina?

chroniclackofimagination · 14/01/2013 01:00

I love Ava Elizabeth. That would have been DS2's name had he been a girl..

amck5700 · 14/01/2013 00:16

I know it doesn't fit any of your criteria, but Ava Jane sounds lovely

RedLentil · 13/01/2013 23:51

Ava Florence is a lovely name. Smile

The first time my mum met my dh he mentioned he had been called 'timburke-too' at school, and she said. 'God! And all those people shouting 'timber!' at you like you we're a lumberjack.'

After a long pause dh confessed that she was the first and only person to think of that version of his name. Grin

I suspect your dad may be similarly on his own with his theory ...

BlueBowTie · 13/01/2013 23:37

Ava Frances,
Ava Lily,
Ava May,
Ava Calypso,
Ava Cleo,
Ava Kate,
Ava Rosalind?

mumsywoo78 · 13/01/2013 23:15

Ava june
Ava rose
or maybe even give her your name as her middle name u never know it may even start a new trend! Smile

MmeLindor · 13/01/2013 22:28

I have been so confused by your list of rules, that I can't think of a decent suggestion.

Why don't you just try out some names, and see if you like them, rather than sticking to the rules? Doesn't that make it awfully complicated.

at Ava Banana

AntoinetteCosway · 13/01/2013 22:28

Ava Elizabeth sounds lovely.

cosykins · 13/01/2013 22:27

Ava Felicity?

TheHouseofMirth · 13/01/2013 22:24

Ava Frances
Ava Beatrice
Ava Harriet
Ava Genevieve
Ava Camille
Ava Imogen
Ava Merle
Ava Claudette
Ava Rosamund

SoggySummer · 13/01/2013 22:22

Ava Frances?

NonnoMum · 13/01/2013 22:21

I think Ava Florence is lovely.

NonnoMum · 13/01/2013 22:20

'Ava Banana?

That didn't help much, did it?

ravenAK · 13/01/2013 22:19

Ava Mathilde?

NotInMyDay · 13/01/2013 22:17

Wow Zen get out of my head. I think Ava Colette is beautiful.

VBisme · 13/01/2013 22:17

Ava Frances?

I think Ava Florence is lovely, but if you're really against it I think Frances is a lovely name for a girl, (and not posh).

NotInMyDay · 13/01/2013 22:16

Ava Colette

Ava Catherine

Ava Elizabeth

Ava Tèrese

ZenNudist · 13/01/2013 22:16

Ava Marie? Classic.

Liked Ava nicole from list above

Ava Colette?

Think anything too long with short name is odd.

ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 22:13

I'm off to bed now, but given me something to chat over with DH. Will log on again tomorrow morning.

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ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 22:12

I love Ava Madeleine, but I don't think I could use Madeleine without Madeleine McCann coming to my mine.

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nbee84 · 13/01/2013 22:12

Ava Virginnia
Ava Heather
Ava Beatrice
Ava Gwennan

forgetmenots · 13/01/2013 22:11

Love Ava Caroline sminko, I imagine that to be the name of a new princess in Monaco or something. Beautiful.

ineedanewmiddlename · 13/01/2013 22:11

The names were too posh, apart from Clarice, which DH likes, but I don't. I tend to prefer the names DH would describe as posh.

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SminkoPinko · 13/01/2013 22:10

Ava Marianne
Ava Elizabeth
Ava Katherine
Ava Caroline
Ava Eleanor
Ava Josephine

PelvicFloorClenchReminder · 13/01/2013 22:10

Ah.

Ava Madeleine/Madeline?