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Would you use a name with a 'bad' meaning?

36 replies

Natnat29 · 07/09/2012 12:19

Hi me and OH like Jonah and although it means Dove there are some bad connatations to the name- see Wiki post:

A long-established expression among sailors uses the term "a Jonah" as meaning a person (either a sailor or a passenger) whose presence on board brings bad luck and endangers the ship.[17] Later on, this meaning was extended to "a Jonah" referring to "a person who carries a jinx, one who will bring bad luck to any enterprise

think this might be a well known expression dont want people to instantly think of bad luck when they think of his name?!

Has anyone heard this? Or picked a name for their child even thought they didnt like the meaning?
Thanks :)

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cashmere · 10/09/2012 17:19

I wouldn't and have been put off Seth for that reason. I wouldn't want a name with such a meaning myself and there are lots of trinkets for kids/teens with name meanings on so it would come up.

How about Josiah, Joel, Elijah or Isaac? - I've not looked up meanings!

Littleplasticpeople · 09/09/2012 19:32

Dh and I were discussing that very name (jonah) today. I think the fact that the meaning is so well known puts me off tbh. Annoying as I really like the name.

Psammead · 09/09/2012 19:25

I wouldn't because I think that the child would be interested at some point in the meaning of the name, and might feel a bit weird or sad that we picked one that meant something bad.

BillyBollyBandy · 09/09/2012 18:29

I have a Claudia
I have an Amelia - which means something about missing limbs (I found out on MN)
I would like Cassandra for DC3 Grin

My name means Princess - still bloody skint and chubby though with a distinct lack of jewels.

janey68 · 09/09/2012 10:09

I wouldn't, because to me a name is about more than just how it sounds or looks. The history of it, how it came about and what it means is fundamental. We rejected a few names we otherwise liked because of negative meanings (eg Rebecca- sounds beautiful but means 'a noose', Jacob - 'supplanter')

If the meaning really doesn't bother you at all, then fine, but for me, where a name comes from and what it means does matter

aufaniae · 09/09/2012 08:43

It would put me off tbh. I would be worried that in darker moments my DS might feel that he was a bringer of bad luck!

OTOH, my name (which is fairly common) means "noose" or "heifer"!! I wasn't best pleased when I found that out when I was little, but it hasn't made me totally hate my name!

It helps that I know my parents named me that name after historical Welsh riots so I ignore the traditional meaning of the name.

(Points for those of you who now know what my name is! Grin)

Selky · 09/09/2012 08:35

I would use Jonah, I would give Judas a body swerve though. Likewise Jezebel.

CheerfulYank · 09/09/2012 08:33

I wouldn't use Damian, Cain, or Judas, but I think Jonah would be fine. :)

seeker · 09/09/2012 08:27

I don't understand why people do this, when there are so many lovely names about.

I am constantly baffled by people call their children Cain, for example.

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ScumbagCollegeDropout · 09/09/2012 08:20

Doesn't seem to have brought Jonah Hill any harm.

Arabellasmella · 09/09/2012 07:41

No I wouldn't use it. Its a nice name and I didn't know, but other people obviously do so no I wouldn;t saddle him with that.

BikeRunSki · 09/09/2012 07:36

Names don't apply their meaning to the bearer!

I have a friend called Claudia who cycles 20 miles to work each way and mountain bikes at weekends - anything but lame!

My name means 'noble and trustworthy' . I'd like to think that I am, but to do with mu upbringing, which would not have been different if I'd another name.

And I know a very ungraceful Grace!

Jonah is a nice name, I'd use it if I were you. I heard one in the playground yesterday, with brothers Moses and Noah! Grin

flopsy1974 · 09/09/2012 07:10

I think Jonah is a great name and the superstition around it wouldn't bother me. If you like it then go for it Smile

nooka · 09/09/2012 06:48

My immediate thought on hearing Jonah is bad luck, but I was brought up in quite a religious family.

I'm not particularly concerned with the etymological meaning of names, but some have very very strong associations that I'd find it hard not to think of. I wouldn't chose Pandora or Jezebel for example.

sashh · 09/09/2012 06:34

The sailor / ship association is from the Bible, Jonah was swallowed by a whale and that's what I would think. And I'm a confirmed atheist.

Anonymumous · 08/09/2012 21:27

Nope. It's the surest way to cut down a huge list of possible names - take out all the ones with bad or odd meanings and see what's left!

Having said that, I like Jonah and have never heard of the bad-luck associations before. 'Dove' is not a bad meaning - I would associate that with a peaceful child.

botandhothered · 08/09/2012 20:22

This may reassure you, joinscotland. Triste does mean sad in Spanish, but I have a friend who lives in spain with her Spanish husband and their son is named Tristan, and no one thinks negatively about it.

JoInScotland · 08/09/2012 20:01

I have heard that "Tristan" comes from the word "triste" which means sad. We named our son that anyway. Everyone who knows him says he is the happiest child they know. A child isn't a name - a name is only part of who they are, and become.

HiHowAreYou · 08/09/2012 12:28

It wouldn't put me off.

SilkStalkings · 08/09/2012 12:19

Yes I would, Claudia for instance.

AgathaTrunchbull · 07/09/2012 21:40

To me, meaning is very important, regardless of whether others know what the name means or not. The only exception to this is when you're honouring family members or other people.

In the case of Jonah, if you are happy with the biblical connection, then it's fine. If he's likely to come into contact with lots of sailors, it might be less suitable, but otherwise I think you could probably get away without comment.

xmasevebundle · 07/09/2012 21:31

Oh my. I like it, but i also like judas but i cant use that for obvious reasons.

I would not use that, so many other names you will like but now you have seen it. Its put you off a bit?

StormGlass · 07/09/2012 20:46

Jonah being associated with bad luck would put me off.

I actively avoided names that had negative associations / meanings, such as Jonah, Cain, Hector when choosing a name for DS.

TheMightyMojoceratops · 07/09/2012 17:42

I'd use Jonah, as it's just superstition attached to the name and not the actual name meaning itself... and as HerRoyalNotness says, the story turns out fine for Jonah himself. That said, I really like Tristan but vetoed that as it means sorrowful.

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