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Help me fall in love again with Amelie

90 replies

RaeOfLight · 28/08/2012 19:29

We called our daughter Amelie and at the time I loved it. It was also the only name my husband liked so I really didn't give it enough thought.

Now 2 and a half years later I loathe it :-( Mostly because of the things I have read on here (why oh why didn't I discover this place beforehand?!!)

So PLEASE can you post some things to help me like it again? (please only post nice things tho - am sure this is total misuse of this board but I can't change her name now so need to find the love for it again!!)

Thank you!!

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RaeOfLight · 30/08/2012 16:25

Thats a good idea Yika to get her used to it...

Thanks again for the positive comments - I am definitely liking it more over the last few days.

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Yika · 30/08/2012 11:30

Mimi is lovely as a nn, also like Amy as suggested by Viviennemary. You could call her Amelie-Mimi till she gets used the nickname, then just use one or the other as the mood strikes you!

NoComet · 30/08/2012 11:14

It's a beautiful name, it is as others have said, 2.5 that's the problem.

At that age DD1 climbed, fiddled with every non toy item in the entire world and ran off constantly. Her name got completely worn out and it doesn't have an obvious NN.

winkle2 · 30/08/2012 11:02

Also FWIW (again!) I hate the names most MNers love, like Beatrice, etc - so old fashioned!

LOVE AMELIE!

winkle2 · 30/08/2012 11:01

I totally agree with wildspinning.

FWIW I think it's a beautiful name and is number one on my list, with the nickname Mimi :)

RaeOfLight · 29/08/2012 13:02

He might Pedalling ... Although he loves her name - this is all his fault after all!

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RaeOfLight · 29/08/2012 12:57

:-D Jodie !! I did actually "LOL" at that!!

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PedallingSquares · 29/08/2012 12:52

I'd just start calling her Mimi if you love it. Will your DH use it too?

PedallingSquares · 29/08/2012 12:49

I think this need to find a name that is different is all a bit strange really.

I find unusual names all sort of jumble together in my head in a muddle labelled 'unusual names' and I can't remember them at all which I don't think what the parents had in mind.

But maybe that's just me.

Amelie on the other hand is gorgeous.

JodieHarsh · 29/08/2012 12:43

:) I love being called a daftie too. It makes me feel like the person saying is Mrs Doubtfire and is shaking his/her head with a wry but kindly smile!

Incidentally my middle name is Grace, and if I am ever lucky enough to have a little girl it will be her middle name too. And I have my faults, but no-one has ever accused me of being common, or lacking in imagination, so they can actually suck my dick.

RaeOfLight · 29/08/2012 12:36

Wow this is all very encouraging - thank you for replying.

LOVE the nn Mimi - how can I make it stick??!!!! And I love being called a daftie. :-) It's not very insulting and it made me smile... And you're probably right!

Tigers we pronounce it the same as you. No accent either. Upthread when I said some people say "Amma-Lee" I kind of meant that people say it as 2 names. A bit like saying Emma-Lee instead of Emily... Just to explain myself a better to Elah

And yes - she does have a middle name but as mentioned above thats one of the "too common, no imagination" types ;-)

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Viviennemary · 29/08/2012 12:07

Has she got a middle name you could use for a while. But there is nothing wrong with the name Amelie. Sometimes I think I wish I called DD a more unusual name rather than a boring everyday one. But she says she is happy with the boring name! What about Amy for short.

mummabug · 29/08/2012 12:03

My 3 yo DD is Amelie. I think its gorgeous and can't imagine another name for her. For the first six months I wasn't sure (we had such trouble finding a girls name we liked at all) but now I love it!

WHATEVER NAME YOU CHOOSE some stranger on a baby name forum will hate it for one reason or another. Who cares? If they knew your daughter they would soon change their opinion. How many people on here say "i know a little girl called ...... and she's so sweet...i love that name now".

I live on the coast in the south west, I've never met any other children with her name, let alone 'chavs'. It's beautiful.

Abra1d · 29/08/2012 12:01

It's a very pretty name. I love it.

Moominsarescary · 29/08/2012 11:58

I think I might add it to my baby name list too

Thingymajigs · 29/08/2012 11:42

I love it. Smile Added to my baby names list.

MrsJohnDeere · 29/08/2012 11:14

Despite its apparent popularity, I only know one Amelie and she is one of the loveliest, sweetest children I've met.

Fab film too.

tigersteatime · 29/08/2012 11:12

Rae have just tried to look on Mumsnet history for threads hating the name Amelie, most threads hate most other names too. The only one that I kind of agree with is that saying Amelie in a strong Scottish accent doesn't sound nice. I am not Scottish so not affected by that. We don't use any nicknames for Amelie, maybe Amm occasionally. We pronounce her name Amm-eh-lie. I know the French pronounce it differently, we didn't put an accent on her name. I think Mellie would work as a nickname for your dd. Hope it grows on you again.

YoullLaughAboutItOneDay · 29/08/2012 10:18

Rae - Have a search of the name threads if you don't know what is 'wrong' with Rose and Grace. You will see that they attract pretty intense venom from some quarters as middle names. Apparently they are far too common and show no imagination and are meh and bland. They are the Louise and Jane of their generation as middle names (which they are - every second girl has them, but for good reason. They are gorgeous and go with lots of names).

George, Isabella and Sophia are all knocked for being too common, will date badly, showing no imagination, blah blah.

See how bonkers that all sounds? The negatives on Amelie are just as bonkers, you just can't see it. Grin.

When I told DM Dd1's name, she said. "What?.... Oh?'. She had had a dream that I called her Emily Jane and was most confused it hadn't come true Confused. She loves it now though. Don't place too much weight on first reactions.

oreocrumbs · 29/08/2012 09:45

I love Amelie, and if there is a DD2 she will be Amelie.

I also love Sophia, Grace et al. Mind you I do have a Freya Rose so I can line up to be shot down with the others Grin.

JodieHarsh · 29/08/2012 09:36

My niece is called Amelie, and she is one of the sweetest, most loving, funny, warm, adorable, blue-eyed little darlings you ever did see. I wasn't sure about the name at first (because I am a triffic snob and thought naming a child after a film was a bit orf Grin) but I love the name now.

How can you hate your own child's name? Confused Don't you just associate it with your lovely daughter?

Anyway. It's lovely and you're being a daftie. So there.

Badgerina · 29/08/2012 09:32

I love the name Amelie! It's gorgeous. You could use the nickname Mimi? It's very French sounding too Smile

LouMacca · 29/08/2012 09:29

Oh I think Amelie is absolutely lovely - very classy and certainly not chavvy!!

RaeOfLight · 29/08/2012 09:13

Thank you all once again - it honestly is making me feel much better... I know I shouldn't care but sadly I am one of those people that do. It was met with "oh" when I told my family and that started the doubts.

YoullLaugh - you are absolutely right. I NEVER think about anyone else's name they just are "name". Very good point.

Sophia, Rose, Isabella & Grace are all beautiful names - and again prefer them to Amelie now. Why do people not like them??

And what's wrong with George??!!

Minstrels - "Remember that moment you first met her and she was "Amelie"...... That precious moment?" Yes I do - thank you... I need to get the magic back!

I do really like Millie to but my above mentioned friend Melanie has a Millie (born later than Amelie) and I know of about 5 in the playgroup we go to... see - I'm still trying to pick something "different"... what the hell's the matter with me???!!

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emmyloo2 · 29/08/2012 07:14

Chubfuddler - I have a George and it's fabulous! I haven't read anything negative about George on these boards though...but probably wouldn't care if I did!