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Unusual Girls name shortlist.. Honest comments please. Not long to go.

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bagladywilts · 15/08/2012 07:56

We are expecting a dd in the next few weeks but we just need to get the name sorted... stress of name is enough to bring on labour in itself. We like unusual names but they can be a bit marmity and we don't want to burden the poor little thing. Ideally something timeless, not obviously shortened, elegant. Which do you like or hate of..?

Romily
Verity
Serena
Selina
Xanthe
Nancy
Lydia
Beatrice
Cynthia
Fleur
Rowena

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Arabellasmella · 16/08/2012 10:58

How about Delphine? I think it sounds nicely with Cecelia, really sorry to hear baout your loss

ThisIsMummyPig · 16/08/2012 04:35

Lydia and Beatrice (but she will be Bee) Also like Verity.

Not keen on Nancy, and don't like anything that's more than but if you don't want names that can be shortened, you need to aviod anything with 3 or more sylables.

FreelanceMama · 16/08/2012 04:30

Just caught up with your post about you 1st daughter. I'm so sorry. Forget Delia/Cordelia then. I think it's a good shortlist - if you need more it sounds like Shakespeare's a good source for you.

mrsmangelsneck · 16/08/2012 04:27

Just choose your favourite, none of those are bizarre or likely to be burdensome - depending on where you live they probably range from "haven't heard that before" to "oh I know another little ???".

Enjoy her whatever you decide to name her, she will be gorgeous!

FreelanceMama · 16/08/2012 04:22

And Romilly makes me think of Romulan! Sorry - geeky partner.

FreelanceMama · 16/08/2012 04:20

great list. To be picky...

Verity may get shortened to Very or Rita and is on the increase.
Definitely avoid any Harry Potter names for a while
Xanthe is lovely to hear, but could be a pain to spell/pronounce
Rowena/Rowan is nice - could get shortened to Row

Lydia, love it.

Others similar are:
Aria
Sorrel
Erica
Delia/Cordelia

MelanieSminge · 16/08/2012 03:01

also Fleur just reminds me of Cilla Black's accent iykwim

lisaro · 16/08/2012 02:59

Fleur is slightly pretentious, xanthe more do. Apart from that you've ranged from inoffensive (not meant in a bitchy way, just mean not a fave) to the lovely. I'm not specifying which, cos it's maybe a taste/regional/family thing for me. But any of the others would be fine. Sorry I've put all this badly but hopefully you'll get my drift.

MelanieSminge · 16/08/2012 02:40

Xanthe, Rowan or Romilly are lovely.
some of the others sound too dated, like Lydia or Cynthia or Verity.

youonlysingwhenyourewinning · 16/08/2012 02:04

So sorry to hear about Celia Sad

Romilly is lovely. As are Nancy and Beatrice. I love Fleur and prefer Rowan to Rowena - it's simpler, and more sassy IMO.

I'm not keen on Verity, Serena (although I do like Seren), Selina or Cynthia. Lydia is a name that I know others love but I really really can't bring myself to like it. I have no idea why.

How do you pronounce Xanthe?

My favourites are Romilly, Fleur and Beatrice.

Good luck.

Frikadellen · 16/08/2012 01:19

out of the list I would take out

Verity, Serena, Nancy, Lydia, Beatrice and Selina

If you specifically wish unusual as they are all names people come across semi - regularly (all pretty names but nothing I think (ohh unusual over)

Out of the last 5
Romily I agree with other poster who said this will likely rise.
Xanthe Love this
Cynthia not my style
Fleur pretty
Rowena adore it it was on our short list for dd3

Some suggestions
Ilona, Talia, Farah, Nia, Tansy, Sylvia/Silvia

iheartmycat · 16/08/2012 00:35

So sorry to hear about your Cecilia.

I personally don't think that Xanthe IS too pretentious (and I'm normally totally against any names I think are remotely 'out there'), as it's such a pretty name. Serena is also very pretty and wouldn't obviously be shortened.

Adelphie has a similar kind of sound to it as Xanthe, so I would maybe go for Serena Adelphie (Adelphie meaning 'sibling', so acknowledging the relationship between both of your daughters).

bagladywilts · 15/08/2012 23:30

I'm not sure about iolanthe because it is getting a bit long at 4 syllables and therefore likely to be shortened. I know an iona who is always io which I think is a shame as it sounds a bit harsh to me.

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Thumbwitch · 15/08/2012 23:13

Very sorry to hear about your Celia :(.
I would actually discount Cynthia then, as being just that bit too similar but of course it's up to you.

You're not so keen on Iolanthe then?

winkle2 · 15/08/2012 22:25

I like nancy out of your list but if you love Xanthe then you should go for it.

Sorry to hear about your Celia x

Dollydowser · 15/08/2012 22:06

Love Romily, like Fleur, dislike the others especially Verity which I detest.

Bluestocking · 15/08/2012 22:05

I'm so sorry to hear about your Celia. Such a pretty name and I'm sure she was the light of your life.
From your list, my absolute favourite is Xanthe - I've only ever known one and she was lovely, beautiful and dignified even at fifteen when most of us are a bit iffy! Serena is very pretty too but, for me, just not quite as special as Xanthe. The other name I really love, and which vied with Xanthe for top of my list of names for girls, is Celeste.

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 15/08/2012 21:54

Sorry about your DD.
I like all the names you have chosen so not much help! :)
I met a little girl called Serin today.i thought that was lovely.

Indith · 15/08/2012 21:45

So sorry about your dd.

You have a great shortlist and some names you love. Why not wait until she is born to decide? It may help you to stop comparing all the names to Celia as you get to know your baby a little and she shows you how much of her own little person she is.

baskingseals · 15/08/2012 20:39

i am so sorry about your Celia.

from your short list l like Xanthe and Lydia. be brave and call her Xanthe. i think it is lovely and not pretentious.

hatebeak · 15/08/2012 20:30

I was slow posting there and missed your reply - I am so sorry about your Celia. It is a beautiful name.

hatebeak · 15/08/2012 20:27

Sorry if this sounds rude, but to me, Xanthe is a bit pretentious, not because it's so weird and out there, but because it looks like it's trying to be weird and out there, if that makes sense. Maybe it's just the X, which I know is unfair, but it does just seem to be a bit much. It is pretty, though.
Cynthia, Lydia and Beatrice are really lovely (Romilly just makes me think of Rommel) and Nancy is a pretty good child-to-adult name. Serena's fine, but you have some other good choices there...

foolserrand · 15/08/2012 20:19

Love Verity, Lydia and Rowena. The others are all nice too. Smile

Good luck!

bagladywilts · 15/08/2012 20:15

Funny a few of you mentioned celia and cecelia,.. That was the name of our dd1 who died tragically a year ago aged 3. I think that has made the name thing even harder as we compare every name to celia who we loved so much and of course seems like the "perfect" name. I'm glad so many of you like our shortlist though and we have managed to choose names in the same area.

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bagladywilts · 15/08/2012 20:07

Thank you all. That is super helpful. I think serena is our safe choice but xanthe I have always loved but not sure if i can convince dh or if we are brave enough. Is it too pretentious? Too annoying to spell? Too weird for a lot of people? We don't want to burden the poor girl with forever having to explain her name to people. What do you think?

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