Hi all.
Im 34+5 and haven't been with babies daddy since the beginning, although he has been to scans but that's about it. He very rarely asks anything about the pregnancy, and has had fun enjoying his life to the full every weekend while i'm going through all this on my own. He even went a "lads" holiday for a fortnight in June. I hate to constantly moan about him as he is no longer anything to do with me therefore i cannot dictate how he lives his life but i can't help it! This was an unplanned pregnancy( as you can probably tell ) , and i have huge trust issues with him and his family.
Problem is, i really don't feel comfortable with the baby having his families name. After all, she will be living with me and i don't feel like he has earned it? Am i being silly? His second name is Higgins, and mine is Hamilton.. So i was thinking about having Higgins-Hamilton?
I hate confrontation, and his family are known for being very confrontational and i see them causing me a lot of problems in the future. To be fair, i have said from the beginning that she can have his second name, so i now feel as though i can't go back on this but it really does upset me as i have gave up everything for my daughter and he hasn't gave up a thing.
What do you all think i should do?