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Opinions needed on our possible girl's name - do your worst!

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MissMummy1 · 11/08/2012 22:03

DH and I are team yellow. We've had a definite boy's name agreed almost from day 1 (Aulay Nathan Angus) -Nathan after his dad and Angus after my grandad and the area of scotland we had our first home in.

BUT we've been racking our brains for weeks and months trying to think of a girl's name that suited us. DH is an ulsterman and I'm a scot so would ideally love an ulsterscots name that reflects us, and DH came up with one tonight that I think I love, so here goes:

Caley-Rose Luna

Caley as in Caledonia, Rose after his late mum and Luna short for Lunanhead (town in Angus we had our cottage) and after the moon which plays a huge role in both of our lives being sailors.

Do your worst with opinions (on both biys and girls names) and any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

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mrstowers · 14/08/2012 14:27

First thought was that it was pronounced Kayleigh which I don't particularly like. However, now upon reading how Caley is going to be pronounced it just reminds me of that teenage lottery winner who blew her £2million on cocaine. Also, I really don't like hyphenated names and ones that particularly include May/Rose etc as there are so many of them around. And I'd put Luna in the same mould as Lola/Lexi etc.

I do like Rose as a first name though. Grin

RibenaHasLeftTheBuilding · 12/08/2012 21:44

Maybe - although I can hear it in lots of other similar words. Can't think of any off the top of my head, but words that sound the same in my accent and very distinct in my MILs, or vice versa.

Anyway, sorry for sidetracking your thread OP.

badtime · 12/08/2012 21:37

Perhaps you genuinely can't hear the difference - some people can't.
No-one would pronounce 'cah' with an 'r', so it can't be that.

There is a very big difference though - it's like the way Americans pronounce 'r' at the end of a syllable. Read about rhoticity here:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhotic_and_non-rhotic_accents

RibenaHasLeftTheBuilding · 12/08/2012 20:49

I still disagree actually. I do know how 'car' would sound. Maybe it is to do with a differing interpretation on how we think cah-lee would sound. But it's obviously not worth arguing over since it's not even the pronunciation the OP wants.

I said 'the relevant accents' because I didn't want to detail too much personal information about what accents we all have. Smile

badtime · 12/08/2012 20:16

Ribena, if you know people with 'the relevant accents', you must have noticed that 'cah-lee' and 'car-lee' (say) would sound very different. The letter 'r' is pronounced at the end of syllables in most Scottish and Ulster accents, in contrast to most English accents.

NarkedRaspberry · 12/08/2012 16:21

I agree about losing the hyphen and going for a less ambiguous spelling. Your boys name come across as solid and traditional (and nice). Your girls name comes across very differently. Are you sure about Luna?

lurcherlover · 12/08/2012 15:00

Team yellow means you don't know the sex of the baby (so you're not in team pink or team blue...)

RibenaHasLeftTheBuilding · 12/08/2012 14:38

Badtime - Did you mean me? I think I am the only person who mentioned Carly. And I did so in the context of the pronunciation Cah-Lee. I wasn't suggesting that would ever be the right pronunciation for a Cally pronunciation. And a good chunk of mine and my husband's families have the relevant accents.

threeleftfeet · 12/08/2012 11:51

Great name without the hyphen, but terrible with it!

Also prefer Callie.

starrynightskies · 12/08/2012 11:46

The girl in the Noughts and Crosses series by Malorie Blackman is called Callie Rose.

I would also spell it Callie as I would think Caley was pronounced Kayleigh, and it is a PITA having to correct people on how to pronounce your name all the time.

TigerFeet · 12/08/2012 11:34

I would have pronounced Caley as Kayleigh. I'd go with Callie Rose Luna, no hyphen. Callie is lovely :)

Also wondering what team yellow is

QuickQuickSloe · 12/08/2012 11:30

Dropping the horn???

hyphen

Stupid iPad!

QuickQuickSloe · 12/08/2012 11:29

What does team yellow mean?

I think both your names are lovely but agree with you that dropping the horn would let her choose for herself.

Auley is adorable but also a good grown up name.

badtime · 12/08/2012 11:19

I think spelling 'Caley' with a double-l will make the pronunciation clearer, so Cally, Calley or Callie (I prefer Callie of these). I also think that it would look better without the hyphen - you can still call her 'Callie Rose'.

Also whoever said 'Carly' was pronounced the right way, have a wee think about how Scottish and Northern Irish people pronounce the letter 'r'. Hmm

twizzlestix · 12/08/2012 11:08

I love that your names hold so much meaning to you as a couple and think that your child will love being told (probably over and over) how you chose them and why. It's so much better than being told 'it sounded nice' etc.

Go for it!

LynetteScavo · 12/08/2012 10:37

All the names are lovely, but don't hyphenate.

LarkinSky · 12/08/2012 10:34

Aulay and Callie with Nathan Angus and Rose Luna as middle names sound lovely; unusual but not off the wall and completely pronounceable the world over. (You said Aulay sounds a little like Ollie, depending on the accent of the person saying it?)

I'm envious of you for finding names that resonate with meaning to your family and history, and also sound nice!

I like Luna very much; I presume J K Rowling chose it for a character in Harry Potter as she too lives in Scotland? Nevertheless, Luna is a minor character - and a positive one - so I wouldn't worry about that.

Luna is also Greek, isn't it, or Latin? Either way, very classical, and a great reference to yours and your DH's livelihoods on the sea.

HolyOlympicNamechangeBatman · 11/08/2012 22:44

I really like Callie-Rose actually, but it's been kind of ruined by the fact that hyphenated names have become so popular and often with a ridiculous/made up first name (I'm thinking Daizee-Lee, Milleey-Roze, Charley-Soo etc.)

I don't personally like Luna, it's a bit slebby I think.

I think you should use it though because it something you and DH love and it has meaning for you.

Aulay looks great written down but I don't like the sound, but that may be my accent, it's probably really nice in your accent. As long as you don't plan to move to London, I think use it.

TiggerWearsATriteSmile · 11/08/2012 22:27

Callie is better.
Not the rose part, hyphens are a pain in the arse.

Three names is too much forgone child.

Save some names for the next child/goldfish/gerbil/tarantula.

Aulay is lovely, new on me.

HandMadeTail · 11/08/2012 22:27

Could you not use Caledonia as the name? (A bit like India)

I like Rose and Luna, but not the first name.

upsandowns · 11/08/2012 22:21

Sorry meant odd not off

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 11/08/2012 22:21

Yes, Callie is probably a better spelling. Still don't like Aulay, sorry.

RibenaHasLeftTheBuilding · 11/08/2012 22:21

Aulay is lovely in that case Smile.

Good call on the hyphen. If it is between Calley and Caley I would probably go with Cally just because of the lack of ambiguity on the pronunciation (although I think Caley actually looks prettier written down).

upsandowns · 11/08/2012 22:20

Love it but not sure about Luna. Isn't there a slightly off Harry potter character with that name?

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