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Alexander nn Xander ?

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WillowTheWitch · 14/07/2012 19:21

Ok I am now obsessed . I need help . :)

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sparrowfart · 19/07/2012 22:56

I have an Alexander... and his nn is Fluffball.

nickelbarapasaurus · 19/07/2012 17:04

yup! Grin

Kittenkatzen · 19/07/2012 15:50

nickel willing to bet that you're northern then?! (I'm southern!) :o

birdofthenorth · 19/07/2012 13:15

Lovely and Xander (or Xandy when toddly) is my favourite diminutive

Shodan · 19/07/2012 13:06

I agree with all those who have said that Alexander is used by all the best parents Grin

I loved Sasha as a nn and DH loved Xander, but when it came down to it ds2 just naturally became an Alex. I only call him by his full name when he's been ignoring me...

nickelbarapasaurus · 19/07/2012 12:50

Kitten - i was just thinking the other way round Grin

ForkInTheForeheid · 19/07/2012 11:34

I have a 4.5 yo Alexander who is still Alexander to everyone ( not Alex) but I can see this changing as it's a bloody difficult name when you're just learning to write and he's started shortening it himself purely for writing purposes. We'll see what happens when he starts primary school.

TeWiDoesTheHulaInHawaii · 19/07/2012 11:29

Arf @Willow and baby Xander!

Kittenkatzen · 19/07/2012 11:20

I know an Alexander who is nn Xander, love love love it!

Do think it only really works with a southern accent though as in "Zaarrnder" (long "a")...doesn't quite sound as nice with a more clipped/northern-type "a" as in to rhyme with "can/pan/tan"

nickelbarapasaurus · 19/07/2012 11:17

i love xander.

i know someone who called their child xander rather than alexander.

I would also prefer alexander to be nn xander than alex. i don't think i like alex.

Stateofplay · 19/07/2012 11:15

Thanks anyway, and I do get the gist!

Primafacie · 18/07/2012 17:45

Doh! There is no x in Fitzpatrick! I'm totally embarrassed Blush.

Anyway, you get the gist of it!

Puremince · 18/07/2012 17:37

Yes, it depends on the surname.

Alexander Baxter; Alex Baxter -fine.
Alexander Axminster; Alex Axminster - maybe not. But that's because of the A and the x, not the x alone.

The politician Derry Irvine is an Alexander, so Derry is another option for a nn.

Primafacie · 18/07/2012 15:12

Depends.

Alexander Xander: No. :)
Alexander Marx: At a push, but still very alliterative.
Alexander Fitzpatrick: Yes. Sounds gorgeous. considers changing own surname

Are there any Is or Ys in the surname? If so, I would say probably.

But feel free to ignore me - DD's first name and surname rhyme, which many people hate!

Stateofplay · 18/07/2012 14:54

Would Alexander work if you have an 'X' in your surname, do you think?

please don't say no, please don't say no, please don't say no...

sparkle12mar08 · 18/07/2012 10:46

We have an Alexander called Xander too! Or "Darnder" to his little brother who struggled pronouncing it when he started to talk and now it's stuck Smile

Primafacie · 18/07/2012 10:36

DH is trying too hard to NN our boy "Big Al"! I think it's meant to be sarcastic (he was a preemie and is still quite little). I'm just ignoring and hoping it (the NN) will die of natural causes...

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mumzy · 17/07/2012 22:24

Another nn is Zander

lakeofshiningwaters · 16/07/2012 17:26

puremince you are absolutely right and anyone who doesn't agree is just stoopid Grin

My Alexander is usually an Alex, though I did try Lex for a while but came to the conclusion that I'm just not cool enough Smile. Since his little sister started talking, he also gets called Ix (all she can manage!) so if you want a less popular nn you may have that!

Primafacie · 16/07/2012 17:22

Puremince I couldn't agree more ;)

I really like Sasha (Russian NN for Alexander) but it's very difficult to avoid the NN Alex when they are little.

Puremince · 16/07/2012 17:13

Alexander is the best boys name ever, and used by all the best parents. Wink

One of the great things about it is that it does give the child a bit of flexibility re nick names when he's older. Xander is great. I'd be quite happy if our one ended up as Xander, though at the moment he's Alex or Sandy.

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WillowTheWitch · 15/07/2012 20:50

I like sandy and lex but I really don't like alex . Around here it almost always gets pronounces "Alec" which I really hate .

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scrablet · 15/07/2012 20:32

Sandy?

Bearcrumble · 15/07/2012 20:29

I have an Alexander. His nickname turned out to be Teppin which is nothing to do with his given name...