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Son's name :o)

62 replies

amck5700 · 13/06/2012 18:43

My son's name didn't exist on the baby name finder here so i added it yesterday and it appears as the name of the day today !!

We have sort of made it up but not really.....I liked Keir or Kerr, OH liked Ciaran. Ciaran means the little dark one and we didn't think he would be little so we took the "an" bit which is the "little" bit and kept the Ciar - pronounced exactly the same way as Keir so everybody happy. :o)

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lisaro · 13/06/2012 23:23

No you don't know, three and that's a very large leap.

threeleftfeet · 13/06/2012 23:17

What a lovely name :)

My DS also has a Celtic name (our roots include Scottish, Welsh and Irish!)

I think some English people's absolute hatred of non-English names is spectacularly ignorant.

No idea if certain posters here fall into that category, but they certainly have no manners! I hope they haven't upset you.

amck5700 · 13/06/2012 23:10

Thanks GnomeDePlume, people rarely spell it right but he doesn't get any bother at school and as i said, the name itself isn't that uncommon here - there is another one in his school of 220 but spelled the other way.

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amck5700 · 13/06/2012 23:07

thanks all - and xmas, he is nearly 11, 5' 2 & 8 and half stone - but he is still my baby and still beautiful :)

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GnomeDePlume · 13/06/2012 23:06

Congratulations on your DS OP.

As someone who gave their DS an unusual name (8 in the UK since DS was born 13 years ago) I can honestly say that it has never turned him into a laughing stock, victim of bullies or all the other daftness you will hear.

I wish you joy of your son!

Xmasbaby11 · 13/06/2012 23:02

Well done OP, that's lovely! Enjoy your beautiful baby.

amck5700 · 13/06/2012 22:59

...and I am Scottish and OH has an Irish background......way, way back!!

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amck5700 · 13/06/2012 22:58

You are right GOML. But it just amazes me that some cowards are happy to say anything to anyone because of the anonymity that sitting on a computer gives them when i am damned sure that they wouldn't say the same when face to face with someone. This case going through court about the internet trolls is making for some interesting reading and may make the wisest amongst a certain group of Internet society think a little differently about their behaviour.

I have no objection to people having a different opinion to me as i don't believe I am perfect - well not quite :)

I know that I have brought my children up to look for the best in people and to be kind, good, honest citizens - i wonder how the children (however plainly named) of some other posters are being brought up when you see the behaviour that they themselves exhibit.

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LRDtheFeministDragon · 13/06/2012 22:56

I think it's a nice name. Smile

But I am a sucker for Gaelic.

DashingRedhead · 13/06/2012 22:51

Well, as I'm still fuming about 'Rosheen' and 'Neeve' I think Ciar is fine. Not my cup of tea but that's not the point. Feel the same way about somebody fearfully English sounding posh who chose a really Celtic name. They all sounded a bit silly but they liked it.

GetOrfMoiiLand · 13/06/2012 22:44

amck - plenty of us think it is a lovely name, and in any case, you don't have to explain yourself to us!

amck5700 · 13/06/2012 22:26

Jeez you lot are hard work (well some of you are!) - beginning to think it might not be worth the bother, yes it is the original gaelic spelling but isn't commonly used as most people go for Keir, which incidentally is a completely different strain of the name and not just the anglised spelling.

Yes, what i meant was that i had added the name to the name finder on here as it wasn't on and then magically the next day it was on as "name of the day"......that's what the post was about - didn't realise that I had to be asking something - next I'll have the grammar gestapo and the apostrophe police on my back!!!

I honestly couldn't give a massive smelly poo whether people like the name or not - and my "baby" is actually nearly 11. I joined the site as I came across a post relating to something local to me and I thought i could help out. Stayed for a wee while and joined in a bit.

I was always taught if you can't say something nice then keep your gob shut - obviously doesn't seem to apply to some people.

my post back to the first person was not nasty i think - it was a bit of an odd response form them i thought

Anyhoo, I would rather be able to shout my child's name and have only one child turn round rather than half the playground but I know some people like their kids to have a popular name as it maybe helps them to fit in better, i don't know, everyone makes their own choices for their own reasons. However, Gaelic spelling or usual spelling, that name is actually quite popular in the area that we now live but wasn't where we lived when he was born, if that makes sense!

On that note, i'm off to get organised for tomorrow so feel free to be as nasty as you like and I'll have a good read tomorrow.........NOT!!!

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GetOrfMoiiLand · 13/06/2012 21:25

I didn't see anywhere where the OP was snotty.

Strange old thread.

GetOrfMoiiLand · 13/06/2012 21:23

Ciar is a really nice name I think - I like that and Keir.

I think it's one thing to take the piss out of someone's list of names when it is in the abstract (and the person is still undecided) but to say a name is horrible when a new mother has just named her newborn baby that is bloody awful, frankly.

ladydepp · 13/06/2012 21:22

Well I don't see the OP begging for "approbation".....

OP, tis a lovely name and at least you won't have 3 others in his reception class !! Grin

rachel234 · 13/06/2012 21:19

Every name has been 'made up' and names are constantly evolving.

cakeismysaviour · 13/06/2012 21:19

Congratulations on the baby, OP. :)

The name isn't 'up my street', but I am pleased that you and your OH have found something you like so much.

I am have had lots of Hmm looks when telling people that I love the name Bruno...

SoftSheen · 13/06/2012 21:17

IIRC 'Ciar' is the original gaelic spelling of 'Keir', and so not made up at all- quite a nice, and unusual choice, IMO. It would be boring if all little boys were named Archie or Stanley or Wilfred.

rachel234 · 13/06/2012 21:17

Lisaro, the OP has NOT asked for your opinion and I don't think anyone (including the OP) would expect everyone to love one's choices! The OP merely seems excited that 'her' name has been made 'name of the day'.

No need to make nasty comments about her son's name imo. And, how dull if we all chose the same names. What are your children called?

lisaro · 13/06/2012 21:16

My children have normal non made up names. I don't wish them to be a laughing stock. Obviously I'm not advertising them on here as I don't need approbation for being 'creative'.

UrsulaBuffay · 13/06/2012 21:15

Still a boatload of bitches here I see.

Very good.

mathanxiety · 13/06/2012 21:15

Love it. I knew a Ciar a long time ago and always wondered why it wasn't used more.

MerryMarigold · 13/06/2012 21:15

She's just celebrating, that's all. Well done OP!

ladydepp · 13/06/2012 21:12

crikey lisaro what are your dc's called? I do hope their names are PERFECT

lisaro · 13/06/2012 21:11

yesterday it's not nasty at all. The op posted an odd opener that seemed as if she expected everyone to love it. She was off with another poster. And the 'name IS bloody awful.