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Baby boy a week old and we're struggling to agree. Alex something, Hugh Alexander or Johnny Leon

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HMSwater · 15/05/2012 03:34

Our first boy was born last week (a fab homebirth) and my husband and I cannot get close to agreeing! He really likes Alex but, while I lover Alexander for a middle name, I don't like that it's not clear if it's a boy or girls name. To me, it sounds like a girls name...

I love Hugh Alexander but would be happy to name him after my husband's Uncle John if we use my grandfather's name Leon as a middle name...which my husband does not like at all.

He thinks that Hugh would get teased about his name and that it sounds pompous. I think it sounds like a man's name. Solid, known but not well used.

He's a little brother to Bianca and Eloise (though I gave up the name i love, Sylvie, for our Eloise and have some regrets at capitulating so easily).

Shall I just dig my heels in and wait him out? Any new suggestions we could consider to break the deadlock?

Thanks for your help!

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StellaNova · 17/05/2012 15:23

My son is Alexander, and while I like it it took me ages to connect him to his name, he just didn't seem like either an Alexander or an Alex - I had wanted Sam or Edward/Teddy.

I also liked and considered Hugh as a name (possibly due to my teen crush on Hugh Laurie), I don't think it is teaseworthy. However Scottish DH informed me the Scottish nickname was Shug, whihc I wasn't keen on - he could well have been making it up though.

nocluenoclueatall · 17/05/2012 15:01

Johnny Leon? I LOVE this name. Really hope you use it!

forevergreek · 17/05/2012 09:01

Rory Alexander

bananaramma · 16/05/2012 11:25

Another vote for Hugh. Alex(ander) is a so widely used already and a little dull in comparison. Love your girls' names too!

GoPoldark · 16/05/2012 10:10

The other thing is, your girls names are recognisable, pronouncable, but slightly unusual, as in just less well used - both interesting but not CRAZY names. Hugh fits that.

Alexander on the other hand is a great name, but totally run of the mill - they are everywhere. So I would say Hugh is the better choice on that score too.

Glad you are enjoying your lovely baby :)

sashh · 16/05/2012 04:47

I would not think Alexander was a girl, I would expect a boy.

CarriMarie · 15/05/2012 21:50

What about Jonathan Hugh or Leon Alexander, both have a nice flow.

rainbow2000 · 15/05/2012 14:07

Dylan Alexander or Zak Alexander

HMSwater · 15/05/2012 13:48

All great input, thanks so much! It's given me more resolve to stick it out for Hugh. Heath, Rory also firm favourites. Johnny / John would always be my compromise.

I was at an all girls school with a couple of Alex's. One lovely, one not so. Also, Al works as a NN but we already have an Eli (Eloise) and our surname starts with S.

He's so gorgeous! Totally unbiased opinion of course :) My girlfriends are spoiling me with a coordinated food roster for 2 weeks!

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bigbluebump · 15/05/2012 13:37

I think Hugh Alexander sounds lovely. Alex is ok but I do know both girls and boys named this so understand your 'unisex' issue. It is also much more popular than Hugh, whereas your girls' names are less common (and lovely!).

I also like Quentin (we have one, so biased Smile), Eric, Theo, Victor, Rory and Quinn. How about using Alexander as a middle name?

PercyFilth · 15/05/2012 13:04

Not really seeing your problem with Alex, but if you don't like that shortening for a boy, you could call him Alec which is unambiguous.

Otherwise I think that Hugh, Leon, Alexander and John are all splendid names and work well in lots of combinations. (Not Johnny though!)

spiderlight · 15/05/2012 11:55

I love Leon! Also like Rory, Finn and Theo from your list.

My friend has a little Huw (we're in Wales) and it suits him down to the ground. I much prefer it to Hugo.

Longdistance · 15/05/2012 11:51

Have you got a picture of him? As this usually helps. When we had dd1, we had a list of 5 names, and then chose the one she suited the best.

GoPoldark · 15/05/2012 11:51

Johnny Leon sounds like a French popster.

Not good!!!

Hugh is great, suggest Hugo instead? I can't at all understand his position on Hugh: why would he get teased? There is a Hugh at my DD's nursery - perfectly normal, and a little bit different - really good choice actually.

You gave up on your first choice last time, I would dig my heels in here, because you have the better choices by far.

(If it were me though he'd be Heath Alexander.)

girlgonemild · 15/05/2012 11:46

DS is called Hugh (Huey as nn) and I love it. It's a name everyone knows but not met another child with the same name yet.

Hugh Alexander is a great combination.

We also liked Hamish, Fergus, Benedict and Arthur... might they be useful?

iseenodust · 15/05/2012 11:43

Johnny Leon is just not fab.

Hugh Alexander sounds like a man with backbone.

Janoschi · 15/05/2012 11:40

I love Johnny Leon. it's just fab.

dreamingofsun · 15/05/2012 11:39

i have a close relative called Hugh - teenager and he's never been teased about his name. He loves it. I think Hugo sounds a bit lardy da myself but not Hugh. its the sort of name that works well in any environment.

flowers123 · 15/05/2012 11:12

My son is named Alexander and has several male friends of the same name. There does tend to me a lot of boy alexanders here and no so many girls.

mopsyflopsy · 15/05/2012 10:26

Hugh is lovely and goes well with your girls' names. Don't see what would teaseworthy about that at all... I don't really like Leon or Jonny . Alex is ok but a little bland, but you could shorten to Xander. I do like Alexander as a middle name e.g. Hugh Alexander.

Also like Gus, Theo, Quentin, Rory, Victor from your other suggestions.

SneakyBiscuitEater · 15/05/2012 09:58

I have always liked James Alexander as a classic solid name, I don't know if this is close enough to John for you?

rachel234 · 15/05/2012 09:50

Congratulations! I can't see anything teaseworthy about Hugh Confused and agree it's a great underused classic. Also like John/Johnny, Eric, Vincent, Theodore and Quentin/Quinn and think that they go well with Bianca and Eloise. Alex is a little dull (and unisex) in comparison but I agree that Alexander would be a lovely middle name!

sonniebonnie · 15/05/2012 09:42

I agree that Alex sounds a little unisex (perhaps because dd's best friend is an Alexandra, known as Alex). There are also quite a lot of Alex's out there already.

I like very much Hugh - classic, underused non-trendy name - great! Hugh Alexander sounds lovely.

But my favourite combo would be Quentin Alexander (which you could shorten to Quinn) - love it!

zxcv123 · 15/05/2012 09:41

I don't think that Hugh would get teased about his name - sounds similar to Bianca and Eloise to me.

I love the name Alexander and think Alex is more of a boy's name than a girl's. There are definitely many more male Alexes than female round here. But if you are uncertain about the nn Alex you could always use Al, Xander, Xan or Ali (although the last one can also be used for a girl.)

Stellan · 15/05/2012 09:15

Just to add - Hugh could be Huey as a boy if your husband thinks it needs adapting for a child.

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