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DS2 is 13mo old and I still cant get used to his name ...

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dimplebum · 19/01/2012 22:32

I was really dubious about naming ds the name we chose, I was more anxious about what others would think. But DH loves the name, and it was his turn to pick the DSs name and to be honest I do love the name too.

So we went ahead with it, BUT 13 months later, Im still not used to it. It doesnt seem to roll off the tongue like DS1s name does. I think its due to the fact that its not a popular well known name e.g. not it the top 100 names. Also other peoples reactions to his name dont really help e.g. He's called what?!

Anyone else found themselves in a similar sitaution

His name is Roman by the way

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SLVC · 24/01/2012 21:21

Thanks glamourmama. I know one other, and know of another. It seems to be popular on some threads on here too, so I was under the impression it was more common a name than it would appear from some people's reactions!

We all still love it though, which is all that counts.

feels slightly guilty for hijacking OP's thread

glamourmama · 24/01/2012 21:06

Arlo is a lovely name! I don't think iv ever heard it but we don't get many unusual names round here!

SLVC · 24/01/2012 16:12

I know a 30 something Roman and have always loved his name. As far as I know he only gets people complimenting him. I get "what?" and "oh hat's intersting" a lot as a reaction to Arlo so I know how you feel. In a reversal of what seems to be the usual MN wont, I am keeping fingers crossed for a few more Arlos to be born around here so people will realise it is actually a popular and valid name!

birdofthenorth · 24/01/2012 11:32

common, even, sorry

birdofthenorth · 24/01/2012 11:31

Lovely name. Lots of nickname potential if the full version doesn't always roll off the tongue well -Romy, Rolly, Manny, RoRo...

He will grow into it, and probably thank you when he is the only one in his class.

DD's name always gets mistaken for something similar but more comman like your Roman/ Rowan example. Stuff them, they will learn!

miaowmix · 22/01/2012 20:13

That is one of the nicest boys names ever. I love it.

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 22/01/2012 20:10

Roman is a gorgeous name, strong, not hard to pronounce and not one your DS will grow out of like some names.

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dimplebum · 22/01/2012 00:47

Thank you everyone for your lovely comments, I will def stick with his name Grin

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glamourmama · 22/01/2012 00:45

I like it, similar to my ds name, he is Romay (pronounced Ro-May. We liked Rome and Roman and Remy and Romelle but jus decided on Romay in hospital. When I sounded out to people whilst pregnant I got a few negative responses so I stopped telling people and said it was goin to be a surprise! I was apprehensive about tellin some family (I know my mum does not like it and always pronounces it wrong!) But its your childs name so be proud I think unusual names are better than common. He will thank you for it one day I'm sure.

Chaotica · 22/01/2012 00:25

Great name.

MrsJoeDuffy · 22/01/2012 00:23

love it.

LaFilleSurLePont · 20/01/2012 17:46

Roman is gorgeous. It works well at any age imho. If you love then I'd stick with it.

3boysgirlontheway · 20/01/2012 15:08

Oh and for what it is worth my neighbour had a little boy before Christmas and he is called Roman, I love it!

3boysgirlontheway · 20/01/2012 15:08

I haven't even had my daughter yet and I know I am going to feel like this about her name. It isn't that unusual on here, but, I haven't ever met one where we live and I know people will think we are being totally pretentious. However it is her name already, and it is pretty and I am just going to suck it up and get used to it being her and let everyone else think what they like.

Likesshinythings · 20/01/2012 10:20

Lovely, lovely name. It feels quite grown up for me though, so maybe he just needs some time to expand into it? Maybe come up with a nn for the time being?
My DS is Gabriel, and is rarely called that, I think for the same reason that it's a bit big for him as yet. He insists on being called Gaby (to rhyme with baby).

Fo0ffyShmo0ffer · 20/01/2012 10:15

It's a lovely name.

I have a Rohan and although I loved it from the start I have had my fair share of "What?. Ron?. Roland?. Owen??.
I have taught DS to very firmly and clearly correct the mistakes and then let it go.
My DS loves his name and is very proud of it. I have a feeling yours will too. Grin

belgo · 20/01/2012 10:07

Roman is a great name. I know a couple here in Belgium.

Bonsoir · 20/01/2012 10:06

Roman is a lovely name!

TinkerMaloo · 20/01/2012 10:04

*suits

TinkerMaloo · 20/01/2012 10:04

Roman is a lovely name for a little boy! there is a little Roman lives in our street and he is a lovely happy handsome little chap and he suite his name :)

OriginalJamie · 20/01/2012 04:18

I also have 2 boys and I wonder if part the problem is, that you feel you've "used up" your favourite name for the first, so the second will always be a bit "second best". Boys' names are more difficult, as well, IMO.

I actually wish I'd used DS2s second name instead. My problem is the reverse of your - the name is too popular. But it does really suit him and Roman suits your little fella.

I really like Roman, BTW.

SubordinateClaws · 20/01/2012 04:07

Polanski!

cece · 19/01/2012 23:47

Not odd at all, I know a couple. Think it is gaining in popularity tbh.

I had the same thing with DD. Her name was so unusual when we named her I got asked by several people if we had made it up Hmm

10 years later it is now in the Top 100 girls names for 2011. Smile Now no one blinks an eye at it.

fluffygal · 19/01/2012 23:43

I know how you feel,I am just starting to get confident about my 16 month old DD's name.OH and I love it,but I worry about other peoples reactions too much.I used to get embarrassed when people asked me her name but now I am starting to say it more confidently as she just wouldn't suit any other name! My DD is called Zanna. By the way I think Roman is a lovely name and don't think its an odd one at all. Like you say its a strong,cool name. Possibly belongs on that hip londoners baby names thread.

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