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Too quaint/old fashioned??

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YummyMummybee · 04/01/2012 21:35

My husband and I want to name our first girl after my mother Mary, I love both Molly & Maisy which are pet forms of Mary but feel they are too popular at the moment.
I did a bit of research on the web and came accross Marybella or alternativly spelt Maribella and I have to say I love it. To me its very girly, uncommon and quite prim & proper which I love.
Please give me your honest opinion on Marybella! The second name would be Catherine after my nana.
Molly Catherine
Marybella Catherine
Thanks in advance!

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YummyMummybee · 05/01/2012 18:49

He he thats it PercyFilth its due to the Indian Ocean-we always said we loved India!!! Never liked Maura due to one in my class in primary school...
What do you think of India Mary?

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PercyFilth · 05/01/2012 18:47

Mauritius has nothing to do with India though Hmm it's an independent country. It is in the Indian Ocean, but is considered part of the continent of Africa.

But if you want to make a link with your honeymoon .... you could go for Maura, which is a form of Mary :o

WhatstheScenario · 05/01/2012 18:46

Mary and Maria and Mariana and Marianne are all gorgeous names.

Marybella sounds like a sexually transmitted disease or a transvestite porn star. NO!

YummyMummybee · 05/01/2012 18:42

Thanks a million-as I said we are Irish & we live here too so we really don't know whats common uncommon accross the water. Thats interesting re India did it go through a phase like Ava,Olivia etc? Georgia would be after hubbys mom so thats why we would have chosen this.
Thanks a million for the post-it never struck me that India was very in vogue ever-the only India I ever knew of was the designer India Hicks x

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SlinkingOutsideInSocks · 05/01/2012 18:37

I'm not in the UK anymore (only left last year though), but I'd venture that India is a bit passé there. Sort of had its day, IYKWIM. Georgia way more so.

In fact, your India and Georgia choices seem very, um, surprising in light of your revelation that you move in 'trendy' circles. I would consider both to be very un-trendy (for desperate want of a better word).

Of course, this shouldn't matter if you love the names, but it seems just loving a name isn't your priority. Wink

YummyMummybee · 05/01/2012 18:25

Being honest I'm not really a fan of Mary - Kate our any of the double names as we have a hyphanated sirname so would just like a second name to honour my nana and Mam tpp but thanks for the suggestion Mary-Kate would have covered bothmy mam and nana x
So now we are at
-Molly Catherine
-Maribel Catherine
-India Mary Catherine(very long could leave out Catherine)

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Becaroooo · 05/01/2012 18:06

Mary-Kate?

YummyMummybee · 05/01/2012 18:00

Thanks a million PercyFilth-Mary is still quite common is good old Ireland and your right even though its sweet, timeless(and every Mary I know is quite successful) it is well within the top 100 and doesnt shope any signs of falling out:( Also Molly is well up there too... Thanks so much for posting this-as you can see the Irish & U.K top 100 differ greatly
Thanks also for all the suggestions of Maribel-it is very cute:)
Only other thing we could do is go with our second choice India-we went to Mauritius on honeymoon so would have a reason to have a little India & go with India Mary....
How do you feel about India in the uk, is it common? In Ireland it would be extremely uncommon.

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PercyFilth · 05/01/2012 14:39

Have a look here
www.cso.ie/px/pxeirestat/Statire/SelectVarVal/Define.asp?maintable=VSA11

and you'll see that in Ireland,while the popularity of the name Mary is falling, it's still well within the top 100, gradually sliding from 34 in 1998 to 60 in 2010. I would also hazard a guess that it appears frequently as a second or third forename too. So trendy types would probably see it as 'old hat' rather than 'retro'. Am I right, OP?

musttidyupmusttidyup · 05/01/2012 13:07

The Mary Belle thing would put me right offSad

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TheCrunchUnderfoot · 05/01/2012 13:05

Mary is retro cool!

If not that, Marianne is classic and timeless, and Marissa is beautiful - very elegant.

Marybella sounds like one of the Beverley Hillbillies...

PercyFilth · 05/01/2012 13:02

I know a Maura and it's More-uh.

lljkk · 05/01/2012 13:00

I know someone with Maura on her birth certificate which I was told is the Irish for Mary, nn=Molly. I never know how to say it, though (More-uh? Mow-ra?).

PercyFilth · 05/01/2012 12:57

I think some of you may have missed the info that the OP is in Ireland.

I may be wrong, but Mary is probably not as underused or 'retro' as it is in GB.

WineOhWhy · 05/01/2012 11:52

I know of a little Mariella with nn Milly. Also know a Marissa.
What about something like Rosemary with the Mary at the end. NN could be Rose or Rosie which is sweet.

Mayvis · 05/01/2012 11:39

What about Mariette/Marietta?

redstormrising · 05/01/2012 08:31

Mary is a lovely name and you should have the courage of your convictions!!! Also, it is classic, and very under-used so your Mary would be the only one around. I would not say we move in trendy circles, but everyone around us have Jagos and Hugos and Olivias and - yes - Arabellas, so when we named our DS a very boring old fashioned and out of fashion name (after my father) everyone kind of grimaced, but we have never come across another one, and he will definitely be the only one in his class!

frankie76 · 05/01/2012 08:31

Maribel is popular in Spain my cousin is called it

Gapants · 05/01/2012 08:22

I think mary is quite cool , and would be considered quite forward in your circles. Not that that should matter!

I veto Mariah!

SlinkingOutsideInSocks · 05/01/2012 04:20

No to Marybella. It is awfully unwieldy and clunky. Not pretty at all, and certainly no Arabella (if you're into that sort of name, which I'm not, although I can definitely see its appeal if you're that way inclined). Odd that it's not pretty (to me) as Mary and Belle/a are lovely names on their own.

What about Maria, pronounced Mariah? Maria Lucas from Pride and Prejudice was pronounced this way.

Otherwise Marianne is so lovely - elegant and timeless (I promise I'm not some mad Austen devotee Grin).

If it helps, I think Mary has a similar retro feel to Betty, but has the added bonus of actually being a lovely, timeless name (Betty is not IMO). Can you sell it on its retro credentials to your friends?

Your 20-something Mary will sooo have the edge over her Jasper and Florence peers, when their names will sound ever so dated by then.

yellowraincoat · 05/01/2012 02:48

Sounds like a seaside resort in Spain.

Mary is fine. It's a lovely name.

PercyFilth · 05/01/2012 02:42

In England Mary has not been fashionable for quite some time and would probably be quite trendsetting now! Of course it has always been very popular in Ireland, so I can see how it would be seen as conservative.

Another name derived from Mary is the French/Italian Marielle/Mariella. And there is the Hebrew version Miriam. I have met an Irish Miriam, and a French Myriam.

LineRunner · 05/01/2012 02:33

Sure, but Mary Bell was a long time ago and she's only still really remembered in the north-east of England where it happened.

But I would still go for Mary. Lovely name.

nooka · 05/01/2012 02:27

I don't like Marybella that much, but I do think that Maribelle is pretty (and apparently means 'wonderful'). I think that you should go for Mary though, it seems a bit daft to reject a name you like just because your social circle has slightly different taste. Personally I think that Mary is rather more interesting than India or Georgia right now, plus it has the potential for plenty of nns, so you can call her a more 'interesting' name when you introduce her to your friends if you feel the need :)