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Bernadette

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barbalala · 27/11/2011 14:18

DP put this name forward for our next DD. He's foreign (non-English speaking country) and had a close family member with this name. Not sure how to react to his name choice Hmm.
I personally don't think we would do the LO a favour if we named her Bernadette...
Also, can't think of suitable nicknames other than Bernie, which I don't find particularly cute.
Please help, (how) should I persuade DH to drop it?

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NewsClippings · 27/11/2011 16:51

Did this close family member have a middle name?

NewsClippings · 27/11/2011 16:50

What about Lourdes (she became St Bernadette later)?

Bernita, Bernessa, Birdena, Bera are variants of Bernadette - any good?

Scorps · 27/11/2011 16:04

We write it as 'Bee' too.

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barbalala · 27/11/2011 16:04

sorry, no alternatives will do because of the family link.

i can't say it reminds me of Bernard, but i've never met a Baby Bernadette, plus it's soo pretentious don't you think?

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NewsClippings · 27/11/2011 15:51

I don't like it, sorry. It's so similar to the man's name Bernard.

How about Beatrice (Bea for short) or Isabella (Bella for short) or Bethany?

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barbalala · 27/11/2011 15:41

Hm, Bee ... I like

Do you also write it Bee or just 'B'?

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barbalala · 27/11/2011 15:37

Not sure if I can play the religion card as although we're not overly religious but DH and both our DC are catholic, so the name would fit.

He has come up with nns used in his country for Bernadette, none of which (I like or) would be easily acceptable here:
Betty, Detty, Nadi, etc...

He is really keen on it Sad, it's widely used in his country and not labelled old fashioned at all. Anyway, he says old names are making a comeback anyway....hmm, yes, but not this one!

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LoopyLoopsRootyFroots · 27/11/2011 15:24

I like it.

Scorps · 27/11/2011 15:23

We call my friend Bernadette 'Bee'.

Lonnie · 27/11/2011 15:22

I like it

Ettie or Dettie Ive heard as nns for Bernadette

Marinn · 27/11/2011 15:13

I can't say I like it, Bernie isn't a nice nickname and as scaevola says it is very Catholic and possible a strange choice if you're not.

Berenice a like though, I think a nicer alternative.

scaevola · 27/11/2011 15:10

You want to be put off:

a) It's a very Catholic name - does that match you religion and denomination.
b) Although not quite the same name (as she was just Bernard) it does make me think of Nursie in Blackadder, the insane old woman with an udder fixation.

CEDR · 27/11/2011 15:03

I think Bernie is cute.... but Bernadette is a bit complicated, plus it will always be spelt wrong- Bernadet, Bernadett, Bernadette, Bernadete.... etc etc!

I think you need to be honest and say you're REALLY not sure about it, and jut suggest other things you like! Not much more than that you can do!