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it would seem the mn masses hate my dd name!

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itsallgravy · 09/10/2011 22:06

DD is called Layla (mn Violet)

Upon browsing some baby name theads i noticed a lot if people state they 'hate' the name and 'can't imagine a grown woman going for a job interview' and think 'chav' when they hear it

This makes me very sad and worried about people's perceptions of me for calling our daughter this. Stupid I know. But I'm now already worrying if other children's parents at primary school will deem her too 'chavvy' to invite home for tea!

The reason we named DD Layla is because it's a hugely popular name in the Arabic/Muslim world. Dh is an Arab and as I'm british we thought it would be a name that crosses languages and cultures well.

Obviously I shouldnt worry what others think and I love the name on dd. But I can't help now feeling as though I have saddled her with a 'chavvy' name despite the cultural reasons.

(disclaimer - I hate having to use the term chav but I'm using the direct quotes from mners previously describing the name!)

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33goingon64 · 09/10/2011 22:10

I like it! I honestly don't think it's chavvy at all. HTH!

rushofbloodtothefeet · 09/10/2011 22:09

MN is not representative of the wider society (despite what politicians seem to think)

Layla Violet is a perfectly lovely name!

helpmabob · 09/10/2011 22:08

Its a beautiful name. You cannot get a sense of a name's popularity from a few threads and it shouldn't matter anyway. Have the courage of your convictions and don't worry about what others think.

BluddyMoFo · 09/10/2011 22:08

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