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Help! my family hate my baby's name!!

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karmum · 03/10/2011 13:20

I love the name we have given our son, it feels perfect and was not given without a good nine months of serious deliberation.. and yet I have become so uncomfortable with it after both my parents (separated) have made comments about it.. our boy is called Oswold - Ozzy for short... the problem is that people of my parents generation or + have mentioned the fascist Oswald Mosley.. i just don't see how this man should commandeer such a beautiful name 30 years later.. am i being unreasonable????

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seeker · 03/10/2011 20:26

' Mosely is less known these days and was never a particularly important figure anyway.'Shock

Oswold is is just wrong!!

pedalpants · 03/10/2011 20:07

Oswald or Oswold are great names. Mosely is less known these days and was never a particularly important figure anyway.

you'll have spelling issues if it is Oswold but that's the case with loads of names.

Don't listen to your MIL.

kelly2000 · 03/10/2011 20:02

I am shocked at how few people have heard about Oswald Mosely, Britain's most famous facist and racist, leader of the blackshirts, nazi and hitler supporter, etc. Even if people do not know their twentieth century history I would have thought people might have heard of him after all the gossip about his son.
Saying that I think you should call him what you want if you really love the name. But as it is associated with Oswald Mosely, I think you will have to accept that it will raise eyebrows. But, then again, the only famous Eva I can think of is Eva Braun, hitler's mistress, yet it is a really popular name. It is weird how some names just get a negative conatation yet other's escape it, if someone says Myra I think of Hindley, yet if someone said Ian, or Rose, or Fred i would not think of Ian Brady, or Rose and Fred West.

seeker · 03/10/2011 19:47

There isn't an "o" spelling!

And i can't believe that so few people have heard of Oswald Mosely. And as for saying 'the past is past' - well words fail me!

Bunbaker · 03/10/2011 19:10

I like the name Oswald as well. We used to live in a road with Oswald in the name.

The only problem I can see is the spelling. I have just noticed that most of us have spelt it with an A - myself included.

VFVF · 03/10/2011 19:06

Try and ride it out Karmum, my DB and SIL had the same kind of reaction when they announced DN's name. I was the only one who kept my mouth shut (although I secretly agreed!). Fortunately my SIL is made of sterner stuff and put her foot down! Now he's two and that's his name and we all love it now because we love him Smile

SlinkingOutsideInSocks · 03/10/2011 19:05

I've never heard of the 'o' spelling, but that does differentiate it from Mosely.

I honestly wouldn't worry. Many names have associations with other people, but the owners of name come to claim them as their own. Stick to the name - before long, they will have forgotten that it belonged to anyone but your son. :)

Also very surprised at people not having heard of OM, but maybe they're not from the UK - people aren't always intimately familiar with every other countries' domestic history.

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VespaJasper · 03/10/2011 17:47

Oswald and Ozzy are great names and you should choose what you like.

But also, and at the risk of sounding stuffy, I'm shocked at some people not knowing about Oswald Mosely.

seeker · 03/10/2011 17:37

But please tell me you haven't spelled it with a 'o' ..........

karmum · 03/10/2011 17:34

frutilla THANK YOU, ive been trying to think of an example of a popular name with a notorious previous owner! perfect.

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hillyhilly · 03/10/2011 17:25

Its a nice name and I've never hear of o. Mosley.
My mil said "you can't call her that, it's a ridiculous name" about our dd (Polly). We still like it

LieInsAreRarerThanTigers · 03/10/2011 17:25

I loved Osbourne as a first name, with Ozzy for short, as it is an 'ancestral' surname, but the connections to Ozzy Osbourne were too strong for me! I know an Ozzy (Oscar) very well and never connect him with the crazy rocker, for some reason.

frutilla · 03/10/2011 17:23

Your parents are in the older generation, that's why for them the name is fixated with Mosley. The past is the past. What about Jack the Ripper, should we all stop calling our kids Jack! Their argument is silly and anyway so what if they don't like it? Your child, your prerogative.

Eglu · 03/10/2011 17:17

It is not really my kind of name, but your parents are very rude to comment on it now he is already here and named. I think you should tell them that they are rude. And tell them they had their time for naming children.

grottielottie · 03/10/2011 17:15

I loved this name and the shortening oz or ozzy but the Mosely conection put me right off.

We are going with Austen and figured I could still try to us Oz with that (although not confident it will catch on).

ledkr · 03/10/2011 16:55

Thanks bunty it suits her.

BuntyPenfold · 03/10/2011 15:29

ledkr I love Delilah too

catkate10 · 03/10/2011 15:28

My dear-departed Grandad used to make up stories when we were children about a very wise old owl who was very kind and was a Doctor to all the other animals and birds in the woods. His name - Oswald the Owl :)
So for me, its a great name and stick with it and Ozzy is cool :)

allhailtheaubergine · 03/10/2011 14:52

Oh my god I love Oswald so much I might have to have another baby to call him that.

lynniep · 03/10/2011 14:41

You just can't please everyone. I think that is a super-cute name. We called DS1 a really run-of-the-mill name (Joseph) and we call him Joey. MIL wont call him that - not sure why - probably thinks its common - she will call him Joe or Joseph only. You cant win lol!

ledkr · 03/10/2011 14:37

I was torn between 2 names for my latest baby,mil was so rude and vile about one of them-guess which one i chose Grin I love my little Delilah too,it suits her.He's your Ozzy not theirs and i thinks its a great name.

karmum · 03/10/2011 14:33

Thats true TimeWasting, i guess he was more prominent than i realised.. i think of Boateng & Ossie Clark myself, the responses are really interesting and its definitely mixed..

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TimeWasting · 03/10/2011 14:23

I agree the name shouldn't be tainted, like Enoch too. All names have associations though, particularly uncommon names, so it's not not their fault they're thinking of Mosely.

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 03/10/2011 14:13

Ozzy is such a cool nickname Smile

I think it's very rude of your parents to comment negatively about your DS name. They think what they like obviously but it's very bad form to say "I don't like the name you've chosen for your baby". I admit to thinking Hmm at what some people call their children but I'd never be so rude to say anything!

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