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What would you call your baby if your dh had no say?

91 replies

magicmelons · 18/08/2011 17:19

Dh ruins all of my baby name plans here is my list if he had no say for a Ds I would have a Hugo or a Jesse we mostly agree on girls names but I love Fleur and he despises it.

What would you call your baby if you had free rein?

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RueyBoey · 25/08/2011 23:57

Guillaume :( DH looked at me like I was mad

wahwahwah · 25/08/2011 18:07

He didn't! hehehehehehehe!

MabliD · 25/08/2011 18:06

Rory Sad

No matter how many times he tells me Rory is a tiger, it never diminishes my love for the name.

PebblesAndWine · 25/08/2011 15:09

Dd - Xanthe Lena
Ds1 - Luca Benjamin Arlo
Ds2 - Leonardo Alexander

Sigh.....

Saggyoldclothcatpuss · 24/08/2011 12:20

You are all barking! Grin

Actually for DS, I wanted to follow family tradition and give him my surname as a first name. DP just wasnt convinced. I think Gilmour Puxley would actually be quite nice. He could have been Gil for short!
DD was always going to be Catey Scarlet. From the minute she was conceived. At birth, DP said, "don't I get a say" and he wanted Elizabeth or frigging Victoria! So, she is now Catey (Catherine) Victoria! Sad

whizzyrocket · 24/08/2011 11:58

Felix.. big sigh. Dh wants Frederick. Theo may be our compromise.

naughtaless · 23/08/2011 22:56

I wouldn't of chose either of my children's names If I had my way, their names both end in the Oooh sound as does my sister, it makes for very confusing family get togethers.
Dd would of been William shortened to Liam, dp wanted Bill (actually, Bill would of been the better choice) or Fern, which is an abreviation of a family surname.

Ds would of had my fathers name, both my father and dp, said/pleaded NO.
or Caitlin if he had been a girl.

emmanumber3 · 23/08/2011 21:58

Schrodinger - I feel your frustration. I had a similar pregnancy with DD (by the sounds of it) and yet, due to DH's inability to see the potential in soo many nice names we were almost decided on his choice. I was already feeling a bit bummed about this when I was induced. After a crappy labour which resulted in me giving birth without any pain relief at all (because I left it too late to ask for pethidine & the gas & air were confiscated Blush) I simply looked at our new DD and said "her name is X". The name was actually what we had thought for her middle name - my first choice of name which DH had deemed "OK". He didn't argue & now loves her name as much as I do. He also agrees that she is much more her name than the name she almost had! Grin.

emmanumber3 · 23/08/2011 21:39

I agree, great thread Grin. DH vetoed so many of my favourite names I lost count!

DS1 - Would still have been Jack. He was actually named after my grandfather, just before the name became quite so popular. It was the last name we thoroughly agreed on!

DS2 - Marcus, Isaac or Sam.

DD - Poppy, Daisy or possibly Posy. Grin

I have recently "discovered" the name Delphi & would love to call any future DD that (if I ever have another DC that is) - I strongly suspect DH would hate that name too Sad.

EverythingsNotRosie · 23/08/2011 21:24

I wanted Florence or Charlotte for a girl and got Charlotte for a second name. For a boy, Rafi or Adam. We'll see for DC 2!

Breatheout · 23/08/2011 21:10

Austin for a boy and Cressida for a girl. Probably a good thing that DH is less pretentious than me!

mrjellykeepskidsquiet · 22/08/2011 18:58

I really liked Seth...never got my way

Fatshionista · 21/08/2011 23:54

DS - Archer, Wyatt or Gabriel. DH said yes to Wyatt. We had another DD.

DD - Fable, Olivia and Scarlett. No.

StrawberryTot · 21/08/2011 23:42

Verity or Lola for a girl (loved Verity and still do but DP just flat out hated it) Sad
William, George or Conrad.

Needless to say I got none of the above, DP picked both DD and DS's names, I adore DD's name but DS's after 2 and a half years is still growing on me Hmm

LaRagazzaInglese · 20/08/2011 22:12

Wren

Papyrus · 20/08/2011 19:54

DD1 would have been Esther
DS would have been Albert
DD2 would have been Clara

cleanteeth · 20/08/2011 19:28

benne81 Reginald and Rolf are amazing names!!

cleanteeth · 20/08/2011 19:26

I love the name Freddie (massive queen fan!) but DP hates it :(
I also love spanish names like Pablo, Hugolinio, Juan. Even french names like Jean Claude, Francois and so on. Dont think I would ever actually call my kids these names though, I just like doing spanish and french accents Blush

ChaosTrulyReigns · 20/08/2011 10:53

DD1 was a joint decision.

For the others DH vetoed:

DD2 Talitha
DD3 Maggie/Bobbie
DS Sandy/Stiring.

Happy with them all now except DD3, but she has an ace nn, so it's not too bad.

halohasslipped · 20/08/2011 10:23

Ottilie, Stevie (Nicks!) and Titus. DH vetoed them, the miserable bugger.

bittentothequick · 20/08/2011 09:29

Otis and Ursula.

GirlWithALlamaTattoo · 20/08/2011 08:04

If I had a boy on my own, he'd be James Phillip Louis, after important friends and family. DP will want some input, though, damn him Smile. And I can't have Sebastian, it's "too poncey."

My married name will rhyme with Willow, so Heather's out, for a girl; rhymes with "feather pillow". Willow, obviously, is gone. Dylan, for a boy, is gone.

I always wanted a Catalina/Katya-for-short. DP's ex was Catalina, so that's out.

There's nobody else I'd want to be the father of my children, but I'm a little nostalgic for the names I could have had, if I'd fallen in love with someone else...

Clary · 19/08/2011 21:17

DS1 would have his name as it was my idea and DH liked it Grin

DD prob her name or maybe Mabel which I also love and DH hated. I also liked Constance and Cecily. Ooh and Harriet.

DS2 not sure, we chose his name together but it's an abbreviation which I was trying to avoid... Henry? Wilfred? Stanley perhaps tho that's inevitably Stan. Or yes I liked Gabriel too. Anyway DH vetoed all of those. I do like DS2's name tho! Grin

fivegomad I love your choices (Agatha is another DH vetoed). I think yr DD shares my DD's name! We must band together Grin (not many out there despite what you read on MN)

HattieBistro · 19/08/2011 18:31

I got my way with DD1
DD2 - Jemima
DD3 - Tabitha
DS - Barnaby

mamadivazback · 19/08/2011 14:29

Girls - Sophia, Jessica (Jessie), Lucia, Kaye, Cassie

Boys - Evan, Nathan, Ruraidh, Leon, Nico

The latter 2 boys names were rejected because aparently we are of the wrong colour to use them Confused... although you can imagine his smirk when 2 afro-carribean children moved in next door with those names and their mother actually agreed with him :o

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