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I can't use my frontrunner, can you help with a girls shortlist please?

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Tortoiseonthehalfshell · 18/05/2011 02:01

My front runner is Constance Isolde, but I can't use Constance as a first name for irrelevant but non-negotiable reasons. Isolde Constance doesn't sound as good to my ear. While I adore adore adore Isolde, several of my friends think it looks nice but sounds 'clunky' and for sure she'd have to spend her life explaining/spelling it to people, it's incredibly obscure here in Australia. So I'm inclined to keep it as a second name, but can be persuaded otherwise.

With all that in mind, would you look at this list, which has already been savagely pruned by both my husband and my own long list of picky rules,
and tell me what your favourite combination is? My surname is 4 syllable and starts with an A, if that makes any difference.

Agnes
Anne
Briony
Constance
Felicity
Isolde
Lucy
Tabitha

Thank you!

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ClipArt · 18/05/2011 10:03

Agnes - harsh
Anne - lovely
Briony - OK
Constance - lovely
Felicity - lovely
Isolde - fantastic, unusual
Lucy - lovely
Tabitha - dislike, cat's name

flopsy1974 · 18/05/2011 09:58

Felicity is a lovely name.

Bucharest · 18/05/2011 08:43

Agnes- still too old lady nun-like
Anne- it's nice, but a bit too plain. Anna?
Briony- is a 70's version of those Summer type names of today.
Constance- is lovely, lovely lovely. Love Connie too.
Felicity- too fluffy and girly. Wouldn't sit well if child was tomboy.
Isolde- yep,clunky
Lucy - boring and wet, as well as very popular
Tabitha- part of the new fads which will date quickly (along with Martha, Mathilda etc) (it's the group which in the 90s would have been Sarah, Charlotte, Rebecca etc IYSWIM?)

CountBapula · 18/05/2011 08:38

DH's aunt is Felicity with nn Lucy, just to confuse things!

frakyouveryverymuch · 18/05/2011 08:31

I really like Briony Constance.

Felicity Isolde I hear as Felicity is older, likewise anything that involves Isolde which is a shame because I used to love the name but everyone kept pointing out the Isolde and I figure if they were saying it beforehand it's just what they'd be thinking afterwards...

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Tortoiseonthehalfshell · 18/05/2011 08:14

It does a bit, saffron, and I hadn't thought of that before. My own first name ends in A, and I always feel like I have to do a little hitchy pause between the two words.

So it's definitely better as a second, then, since she's unlikely to say her full name out loud very often.

Felicity Isolde is really growing on me.

Cheerful, I think I say Eez-Older, but the 'er' is more subtle than you'd say it in an American accent, so in your accent eez-old is probably right.

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saffronwblue · 18/05/2011 06:40

Does Isolde run weirdly into your surname beginning with A?
eg if your name is Anstruther, to say Isolde Anstruther people are always going to insert an r in between so she will be Isolderanstruther IYSWIM?

I love Isolde. I think however I am on the Felicity Isolde bandwagon with brightck.

CheerfulYank · 18/05/2011 06:03

I've always pronounced it kind of like "Eez-Old" Confused

I like it! I think Felicity Isolde is very pretty, also Briony Constance.

nochy · 18/05/2011 05:52

How about Briar, as an alternative to Briony?

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Tortoiseonthehalfshell · 18/05/2011 05:35

Isolde; almost literally "Is older" but with a slightly harder S.

Tabitha is my least favourite but DH ( who has suggested exactly no names. No, that's not true, he suggested Frances, and then crossed it off the longlist a month later ) was very strong in his approval so it stayed in...no hardship at all to let it quietly slip off the shortlist.
Lucy isn't as popular here, but is still far more popular than the other names.

Isolde Constance
Isolde Anne
Isolde Lucy
Felicity Isolde
Lucinda Constance
Lucinda Anne
Briony Constance

hmmm

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lljkk · 18/05/2011 05:30

What about Lucinda with Lucy as nn?
I know one Agnes irl, it's not a name to lightly foist on a child.
Briony makes my skin itch.
I don't know how to say Isolde.
Tabitha is a cat or a witch.
Anne is lovely.

brightcopperkettles · 18/05/2011 05:07

I'm in Australia too and agree that Isolde would be forever spelling her name. That said, I do like it very much and many people (myself included) have to spell their names out.

Of your other choices, I think that Felicity Isolde is beautiful and a clear stand out for me.

MollyMurphy · 18/05/2011 03:56

I like: Agnes, Lucy and Isolde (nn Izzy is cute).

I detest Tabitha so very much

I think Anne is sturdy and simple if a bit boring

Constance and Felicity are not my personal cup of tea

I have never heard of a Briony - I am intrigued...how are you pronouncing it?
Bri as a nn is nice

HowsTheSerenity · 18/05/2011 02:25

Not Lucy as it is way overused.
Felicity would go well with a long surname.
Agnes is a bit too grandmother-y but i like Agatha.
Briony (which will be shortened to Bri) could work
Tabitha I like but reminds me of the kid in Bewitched and bitchy girls are called Tabitha.

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