We think we have a girls and a boys name ... but still have time to change our minds! We don't want to tell anyone and introduce baby with name as we hand her/him over for first cuddle - even with grandparents. My Mum and Dad have accepted this (although I can tell my Mum really wants to know!) but his Mum keeps asking me to tell her. She pretty much begged me last night and I feel really mean ... but really don't want to tell anyone! Am I being mean or is she pushing me when she shouldn't? We got so many names thrown at us from husbands family (seriously lists have been made!) that we've asked them to keep their names secret from us and then we can see if anyone gets it 'correct' after baby is born. It's doing my head in but I'm being very polite and smiling at the odd name that gets 'mentioned'. I just feel that our decision to keep it secret is being made into a big deal - when it's not ... I just want a suprise on the sex and to suprise friends and family with the name ... and if they hate it - by then it's tough! :) x