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Baby name worry driving me mad

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olddeuteronomy · 08/03/2011 07:41

My daughter is 2 and when I named her I should probably have noticed her name was about to soar in popularity but was not aware of the need to look for trends in charts as opposed to just the position of the name. Her name is pronounced Isla although spelled slightly differently (for well researched reasons). It is a name I have loved for years, we are Scottish but live in England. I have just had my second dc, a boy and I think a combination of sleep deprivation, hormones and nostalgia for the whole pregnancy/naming experience is making me obsess over her name and wish we had gone for one of my other choices, which were less common (in reality, it was our favourite name at the time and my partner refused to consider alternatives). I am worried this obsession is becoming unhealthy and need someone to put it into perspective - I am just worried she might blame me in future for giving her a v popular name (or she might not care!)
Sorry for long post, would like to know if anyone else has had similar experiences or regretted a name for whatever reason.

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babytrekkie · 08/03/2011 16:01

I don't understand why people are worried if names are too popular!! Isla is a beautiful name for a girl. It's really pretty to say and looks pretty written down. It's quite a calming name.
You chose the name because you loved it at the time and you still do now!!
I'm calling my little girl Elizabeth (due in June) which is popular but I love it so much I don't care!! x

olddeuteronomy · 08/03/2011 15:32

Thanks, this is making me feel a bit better - mamsnet, you are right it is her name and is therefore her and she does suit it, which is why I feel guilty stressing about it as if I am somehow dissatisfied with an aspect of her. Think it is some kind of post-natal neurosis (I probably need to get out more and spend less time on internet forums obsessing!)

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fifi25 · 08/03/2011 13:37

Ive got a Connie and keep reading on here that its a fat girls name. I have 3 girls, the eldest detests her name which in not very popular where i am. The middle one seems to like hers, i think its about 982nd on the list. My middle daughter has 5 Ellies in her class. Ive never heard of any other Isla where i am. I think people stress about names too much now. When my mam was at school there were 7 Christines in her class and my MIL Susan had 5 other Susans.

lovenest · 08/03/2011 12:56

I think Isla is so pretty. I am thinking of changing my DD name @ 11 months as I am not sure! So yes, can def understand the worry thing. There aren't any Islas in our school. I think if you really love a name it doesn't matter if it's mega popular or not. I have a son - Thomas which is v popular but I still love it! Good luck

mamsnet · 08/03/2011 11:23

It is your daughter's name now. It is her..

I think it's lovely too..

BarbieLovesKen · 08/03/2011 11:03

Oh I've been doing this over my daughters name!! (am pregnant too and keep reading repeatedly on here that its the "chaviest" girl's name ever) so I can definately sympatise.

I keep hearing Isla is popular but I dont know where - I have never met or heard of one in my life!! its lovely!

olddeuteronomy · 08/03/2011 10:17

sorry, baby is a boy, it is my toddler's name currently obsessing me, it did bother me a bit before because of the popularity but not as much - it may be because I did not get to use my girl's name this time (though obviously v pleased with my son!)so now wishing I had used it last time instead if that makes sense (and I accept it is probably irrational!)

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Janus · 08/03/2011 09:14

Sorry, bit confused, first daughter is Isla, is that right? If so, what is new daughter or is it son, you say boy and then say her but it may be me being bit thick Grin !!
Anyway, we have 3 girls and with each one I think it has taken a little time for them to grow into their name and, believe me, now I couldn't imagine them called anything else, each one suits their name.
We are pregnant with number 4 and the choosing the name thing is driving me nuts this time, like lots but not sure we love any!

belgo · 08/03/2011 07:44

Isla isn't a common name at all, at least I don;t know of any!

It's a lovely name, you need to stop obsessing. She will not blame you at all.