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Naming baby after yourself

33 replies

TabithaTwitchet · 31/12/2010 14:56

Is this a big no-no?
My middle name is a family name (and a name which I also happen to love) and I would like to use it as DC2 first name.
Most people's initial reaction has been that I can't do that, as it is my name, a baby needs their own name.
I think that it is fine, but will everyone my child meets be thinking Hmm what a narcissistic mother? Bearing in mind most people outside family/close friends won't even know what my middle name is anyway?

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Kristingle · 02/01/2011 07:56

My friend has just sent me a text to say her sister had a baby late last night. Named Grace Violet. I don't know his family but I'm assuming that violet is his mum or grans name. Their son has her fathers name as a middle name

Very clever to have a 1/1/11 baby too

I think it's a lovely tradition and you should follow it if you wish

strandednomore · 02/01/2011 07:56

I have a friend whose daughter is named after her (the daughter's) father. It's not even a femine name!

I think she was just marking her territory though - he has 7 other children by 7 other women. None of whom he was married to.

goingroundthebend4 · 02/01/2011 07:52

Ds1 has same name as his father but then is more common in Europe mind his father then disappeared for several years ,Ds1 love his name Ds2 is named for my dad bit the Italian form and has my grandads name for his middle name

dd has my middle name for hers also is my bans middle name and my NANs first name as middle name to.First name is all hers though

ds3 well lol all his middle names are family names luckily first name is not

fridayschild · 02/01/2011 07:50

I think middle name is fine.

And as it has passed through generations that makes it even more fine.

My cousin has given his son his own first name. I think that's weird, but equally other cousins are the fifth and sixth first son to have the same first name, which seems ok or even cool, and I suppose the tradition has to start somewhere.

Kristingle · 02/01/2011 07:43

It's traditional where we live. Everyone I know of my generation has a middle name that is a family name, usually after a grandparent or aunt /uncle

MummieHunnie · 02/01/2011 07:37

I think second name is fine. I knew someone called Katherine, who named her daughter Katie, everyone used to snigger at her behind her back for that!

kreecherlivesupstairs · 02/01/2011 07:26

I am called after my father, grandfather, greatgrandfather, gg grandfather, ggg grandfather........... Family tradition. DD isn't.

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nooka · 02/01/2011 05:17

I'd not give a child the same name as a living relative, but carrying on with a family name that you really like is absolutely fine. My dd loves being named after two of her great-grandmothers. No one will know that your dd is shares her name with you except your family who will think of it as a family name not your middle name in any case.

CheerfulYank · 02/01/2011 02:55

I'd do it, why not?

ShoshanaBlue · 02/01/2011 02:52

I know of a bloke called Paul who had 2 daughters. The first one he called Pauline (after himself) and the next one was called Paula.

I'm sorry, but I just think it lacks imagination on a very basic level.

zozzle · 01/01/2011 14:04

My DD has my middle name as her first name.

It was the only name that DH and I could agree on - and we both love the meaning of it.

Nobody has ever told me that they think it is weird to pass a name down in this way. I did ask MN opinion and had a unanimous "yes do it - lovely idea" at the time.

I agree that it would be different if you were giving your DD your first name as her first name.

EricNorthpolesChristmas · 01/01/2011 13:19

My name is one of my Mum's middle names. It's not a family name, I don't even know why she has it, and we have never thought it weird. In fact I forget it's her name until moments like now! It's my name, chosen simply because they liked it.

Loosingmymind · 31/12/2010 17:17

My dd has my middle name which was also my great grans first name.

I wasn't sure about this at 1st but now think it's lovely, and the look on my papa's face when he heard what we were calling her has made it even more special.

allnightlong · 31/12/2010 17:11

Middle names fine, but as a first name it's naff.
My GPs named my mum after gran and my uncle after grandad, they absolutely hated it.

JaneS · 31/12/2010 17:09

My family do this, it's lovely. My dad's middle name is his dad's first name, and my big brother has my dad's first name as a middle name. My brother's fiance is now pregnant and it is lovely to think that they will carry on the tradition into another generation. It gives you a really nice sense of family closeness, I think - great for when little children start getting interested in family trees and so on.

HSMM · 31/12/2010 17:05

I wish I had given my DD my DH's name (can be used by both sexes), as she is our only child and her father, grandfather, great grandfather, etc etc all had that name and we have broken the chain (only child). I did not know when we named her, just that DH was named after his Dad.

Highlandgirl · 31/12/2010 16:36

Ohhh Tabitha me too the very same reason..!!! It's lovely, go with it and don't listen to Ladysybill you are not arrogant!

I'm sure your grandmother and great grandmother will be delighted. Smile

mamas12 · 31/12/2010 16:36

Do it, it's a family link.

I know of one mother who used both her names for her daughters
eg. (not her real names)

Mum Katie Lou
1st dd Annie Katie
2nd dd Mary Lou

Lovely

I also know of a family of two girls and a boy and they all have thier fathers name as a middle name!

TabithaTwitchet · 31/12/2010 16:25

Glad that most people seem to agree with me Grin.
The main reason I love the name so much is because it was my grandmothers - and it was also my great grandmother's, and I like feeling a connection to them both. I hope my daughter would feel the same way (of course, I could be having a boy!)

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growing3rdbump · 31/12/2010 15:51

My DD has my first, full name (Katherine) as her middle name and she loves that we both have this name. My DS has his father and Grandfather's middle name (Alexander) as his middle name. Dont think there's any problem as using your middle name for child's middle name at all.

BitterAndStout · 31/12/2010 15:47

My Middle name is my Dad's first name. DS now has this as his middle name.

I think it's fine, but like others have posted, your baby and it's whether you are comfortable with it or not.

ladysybil · 31/12/2010 15:41

i dont like the idea at all. think its excessively arrogant. but its your baby and its your right to choose whatever name you want.

YunoYurbubson · 31/12/2010 15:38

Will smith and jada pinket smith called their children willow and jaden.

And I once met a couple called Christina and Martin who called their children Christian and Martina.

BikeRunSki · 31/12/2010 15:27

Fine.

My uncle is ABC Surname.

He has 3 DS, they are called C, B and A.

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