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Alexandra - nn for a girl?

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Umnitsa · 12/07/2010 16:46

Russian mother / American father in London are trying to come up with the most beautiful name in the world for their first daughter... (well, the mother is, whilst the father is happy with the veto right!) We also want something that can be easily pronounced and have positive connotations in both languages.

Alexandra is on the short list. I am thinking of using Olesya / Alesya / Lesya as a nickname. It is quite popular in Russia and Ukraine (spelt as Olesya, pronounced Alesya), but I am wondering whether in London it may be perceived as a trying-too-hard made-up name. I understand there is a similar-sounding Italian Alessia but it makes me think of the Alessi brand. We could stick to Alexia / Lexie which are pretty close to Alesya as well, but it doesn't sound quite right in Russian, and I don't want her to pronounce her name differently depending on the language she is speaking.

Sasha is, of course, another good nn for Alexandra, but it's the name of my godson who is my best friend's son, so it will be almost like having cousins with the same name.

Would welcome your views on Alesya - and any other alternatives!

Thanks

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ZZZenAgain · 14/07/2010 16:48

I don't think Alesya has any particularly positive connotations for English ears but it doesn't have negative ones either that I am aware of. Just sounds a bit like a foreign version of Alice really

ZZZenAgain · 14/07/2010 16:46

I think if it is just the family name you are going to use as a nick, it really doesn't matter much. If her name is Alexandra, no one will call her Aleysia at school etc. If they overheard the name - you speaking to your dd for instance, I can't see any reason for it to lead to bullying. No strikingly obvious reason I can think of.

Well they might find it weird in the sense it will definitely sound foreign to English speaking people but I don't think it will be weird in a bad way that would cause your dd any difficulty at all.

Possibly if she goes to nursery/school and you tell the teacher that yes her name is Alexandra but she is always known as Aleysia, people will use it, otherwise I doubt it tbh

Umnitsa · 14/07/2010 15:25

Thank you for your responses and ideas.

Ola/ Olya is my name (Olga) so we'll probably want to distinguish between us!

Ali / Alia was the name of my dog so won't quite work either

Zandra sounds rather harsh to me.

Tiggy - sounds sweet but to my Russian ear has little connection to Alexandra

You are right that in the end people may come up with nicknames which will be beyond our control - c'est la vie. All I am trying to figure out now is whether the name WE are going to call her - Alesya - will sound weird, pretentious or unpronounceable, send the wrong message or has "bullying potential", all the nuances we may not be aware of having grown up in other countries with different cultures.

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foreverastudent · 14/07/2010 08:15

Alexandra has so many nicknames you probably wont be able to controp what other people call her/what she calls herself.

Best to be happy with all the nn's before using it.

midnightexpress · 13/07/2010 22:55

Has anyone mentioned Zandra, like Zandra Rhodes? I presume that is a nn for Alexandra, no? Not sure I like it particularly, but anyway...

tw1nkley · 13/07/2010 22:49

We're evens then bigblue , I know 2 Tiggy's who are Alexandra's

mathanxiety · 13/07/2010 15:33

I love Alesya, prefer the Russian to the Ukrainian diminutive. I agree it sounds better for some reason to the English speaking ear.

bigbluebump · 13/07/2010 14:34

Ponders, well I only know 2 Tiggy's (one in dd's class, the other a teacher in ds's school) and both are Antigones.

Ponders · 13/07/2010 13:26

"all the Tiggy's I know are Antigones"

do you have a lot of Greek friends, bbb, or just classicists? I have never come across an Antigone in my life!

this is the only Tiggy I've ever heard of (apart from Mrs Tiggywinkle, & I don't suppose she is called Antigone or Alexandra)

bigbluebump · 13/07/2010 12:48

I thought Tiggy was short for Antigone. At least all the Tiggy's I know are Antigones.

Sasha is a boys' name, short for Alexander imo.

From your list I prefer Alesya as a nickname for Alexandra.

Kathleen123 · 13/07/2010 12:14

I know I've commented on this before, but as an English person Olesya looks rather funny, where Alesya looks fine.

As a girl that will be both American and Russian Alesya is super fine.

Re Alla, I think its too close to Allah.

ZZZenAgain · 13/07/2010 08:16

what do you think of Victoria (Viktoria) - Vika?

ZZZenAgain · 13/07/2010 08:13

Nastya sounds dreadful to English ears, or at least to mine.

I'm Alexandra. Russians call me Sandrushka which I can live with but it is not IMO the most beautiful name on the planet. Olesya I don't like. I prefer Alesya, possibly Alla (not wild about it but I find it ok, have a Russian friend with this name and it suits her)

For me personally Sasha is a boys name. I know it is used as a girls name too but I still find it odd

Umnitsa · 13/07/2010 08:05

Thank you for your ideas. Frankly, I am mostly interested in people's reaction to Alesya / Olesya rather than lists of other names however lovely they may be !

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mathanxiety · 13/07/2010 01:03

Antonina
Victoria
Zinaida
Irina
Izolda
Ksenia (love this name too)
Clementina
Margarita
Nadezhda
Rozalina
Julia/Yuliya
?

Umnitsa · 12/07/2010 23:38

Thank you for the suggestions!

Alix is nice but ends in x (our last name starts with S).

I actually like Alessandra more than Alexandra as well, it does sound softer, but we have no Italian roots...

Love Xenia but when pronounced Russian way [Kseh-nia] rather that English [Zenia].

Love Anastasia but again the pronunciation is different: [AnastahsIA ]vs [AnastAYzha], plus the usual nickname is Nastya which is quite close to "nasty" in English.

Natalia would be great but that's the name of my cousin's daughter (incidentally, born exactly a year before mine is due!)

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CapitalText · 12/07/2010 23:23

Xenia
Sanya
Sashenka
Sashia
Samarina
Zaneta
Zina
Katrina
Anya
Lydia
Angelika
Irisa
Krist ina
Lizette
Maiya
Marianne
Nina
Zinerva
Sonia
Sofia
Tamryn
Tanya
Valentina

tw1nkley · 12/07/2010 23:00

Another nickname for Alexandra is Tiggy, sounds unlikely I know but I believe there was a princess who was called Tiggy in the nursery as a nickname .......

lateSeptember1964 · 12/07/2010 22:55

I went to school with an Alessandra. Have always loved it and think it sounds softer than Alexandra. Although I think Alexandra is lovely

mathanxiety · 12/07/2010 22:53

How about Alix? It was the name the Czarina Alexandra was known by in her family of birth.

Would you consider Anastasia? (Asya, Nastia)
Natalia?
Tatiana?
Valentina?

FlorenceDaphne · 12/07/2010 22:52

I know a Polish girl who is called Aleksandra but is known as Ola, which I always think is pretty.

Ponders · 12/07/2010 22:51

Alesya sounds a lot like Alicia - is there a Russian name to match that?

CapitalText · 12/07/2010 22:49

Anechka
Angelena
Aniya
Asenka

Umnitsa · 12/07/2010 19:59

CapitalText - thank you for the alternative suggestions. None of them work in Russian (except Alina which I am not keen on) and would sound too pretentious.

Also, our last name starts with St, so I want to avoid names ending on -ss or -x.

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CapitalText · 12/07/2010 19:01

I like the name Alexandra and I like the nickname Alex best.

Would you consider other similar names like Alice, Alicia, Alissa, Alina, Aliyah, Allegra, Aurora or Aurelia?