To not want my kids grandparents to sleep naked with him.

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest, and I think it's sad that so many people seem to think it's wrong.

Same with the kissing on the mouth, full on snogging with tongues is reserved for sexual relationships not a kiss on the lips.

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I think I would feel a bit odd about it, but assuming I trusted the GPs (and hopefully you trust them if you are letting your DCs stay overnight!) and DCs were comfortable with it then I don't really know what is inappropriate about it. I sleep naked with my DS on occasion - he is still breastfeeding though so often it's easier to cover up or he is on and off a lot more.

Wouldn't bother me with either set of GP actually, not for little kids anyway.

IMO YANBU - I'd feel wierd about it.

Do you know

I think that if either sets of GPs offered to have my kids overnight

I would be so overjoyed I wouldn't care if they slept naked with the pubes trimmed into heart shapes, and did naked yoga every morning.

YANBU. wrong i know but the thought of either sets of grandparents naked is a bit icky, but in bed with my DS? no way!

opps more or less x-post with wannabe.

Just as a matter if interest what do you all you posters think the naked GPs are getting up to with the naked DC?????

at some of the responses on this thread. do some of you realize the connotations of what you are saying?

Am interested - just why is naked flesh so inappropriate?

Op - if you don't like it then tbh I think you shouldn't let your kids stay over, because there is no way to bring up the subject that won't make it look as if you are accusing them of potential child abuse.

I can understand that people feel uncomfortable with it, but tbh there is no real valid reason for feeling that way.

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How about teaching your son not to get into their bed? Sorry, If they are doing you the favour of babysitting, I don't think it is for you to tell them what to wear in their bed. DH and I sleep naked and I would resent anybody telling me what was appropriate in my bed.

YANBU. I wouldn't like it, Ds told his Nana they had to buy grandad some jammies for Christmas, as he didn't have any. so obviously he thought he should be wearing them in bed.

I wouldnt want this.

tea, we are a non kissing on mouth family too. Too intimate, reserved for sexual relationships. Its just cultural, I think.

Never considered it really. My parents don't have the DC over night. I suspect I'd want them to become more privacy-conscious when the DC started to feel uncomfortable - same as us.

apologies anyfucker i mean your grey bush no disrepect

It wouldn't bother me.

It wouldn't bother me.

I would expect that my parents would be naked, as they always slept in the buff when I lived at home with them.

It's just skin!!!

I find it a bit odd that people wouldn't sleep naked with their own children tbh.

i wouldn't mind this under the age of say 4/5, and definately not if the child was uncomfortable with it.
This is quite common in the rest of europe, it seems that British people have a problem with nakedness whereas a lot of others don't.

YANBU though as your entitled to your view, and they are your children, if your not happy with it to the point it makes you uncomfortable than say something, but i would stress to you that its purely innocent and nothing sinister/wrong with it

do you know what

do you what ?

I have never actually asked if my kids gp's sleep in the buff or not

I guess I have trusted them to do the right thing

Perhaps I should raise it at the next family gathering ?

and of course, just for the record, I will make doubly sure their pubes are not grey...

YANBU, my hubby's parents kiss my daughter on the lips and I hate that personally! I only kiss my kids on the cheek. (Maybe I'm weird?)

But I would definitely not like them sleeping naked and her getting into bed with them at all!

You're the parent its OK if you do it, their your kids! But nobody else should IMO. Underwear at the least for sure for them.

YANBU i would be very uncomfortable to with that and would not allow him to sleep over unless they wore clothing.

err, less disgust at "old grey pubes and grey bushes", if you please

because that is like saying it is ok for anyone to sleep naked with your child if their pubes are not grey

and that is not the point

btw...one day it will come to you, too

I don't think it would bother me, actually. How old is your DC?

Bleeeuuurrggh.

Your ds will return home covered with old grey pubes.