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To think everything will be unrecognisable in 50 years

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CurdinHenry · Today 11:38

Just thinking about how different the UK was in the 70s and how change is supercharged now by tech and mass migration and the loss of shared cultural reference points in TV and newspapers and radio.

I live in Glasgow and many parts of it are no longer at all Scottish-seeming apart from the old sandstone tenements. What even is Scottish any more? It's hard to imagine Scottish independence being taken up by the new communities. But what's next?

I think human societies are programmed to self destruct every so often in the absence of external numbers control pressures and I think that's what's starting now across Europe. We have never had it so good in the history of time yet rage flourishes

What can we do as individuals, I'm just not sure

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MsMacheath · Today 15:11

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 13:22

The people living in 50 years time (assuming we don't have total climate collapse and end of civilisation) will think being "Scottish" is what they see around them. Just as people 50 years ago had a different idea of "normal" and "change" to you. Most of what we understand as traditionally "Scottish" culture today was created during the 19th (possibly also 18th, I'm not sure) Scottish Nationalist revival.

Things change all the time. It's very human to see the state of things when we are growing up like some sort of fixed point that change happens to but it isn't, every time is just one moment in a river of ongoing change.

I thought the other day, walking down my high street which is one of the most multicultural in the UK, in 50 years time Britain may not be considered a white country any more. And you know what? I realised I don't care. I feel just as connected to a future Britain that isn't mostly white as I do to one that is. It will still be Britain. It will still be that story, moving on and changing as it always has. There are cultural moments in my neighbourhood that are uniquely British now because there are children growing up together as neighbours from cultures that would never have met if they were tied to geography rather than all here at this exact point in time.

All that we need to do to qualify for our place in the story is to be here and be part of it.

in 50 years time Britain may not be considered a white country any more. And you know what? I realised I don't care

If it resembles Japan or South Korea, Great. If it resembles Afghanistan, Iran or Pakistan I'm glad I'll be dead.

hdr.undp.org/data-center/thematic-composite-indices/gender-inequality-index#/indicies/GII

BoredZelda · Today 15:11

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:50

How will she have freedom and opportunities if Sharia flourishes?

What is Sharia and which parts of it concern you if people choose to follow it. Also, where is the evidence it is ever going to be adopted in the U.K. writ large?

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 15:10

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:02

And if you or your daughter had to either live in Japan or live in a Muslim country then we all know which one you would pick my dear. You'd know the difference between them very well if push came to shove.

I have no idea which I'd choose. There are a lot of Muslim countries, plenty of which I could work in. Japan is expensive, socially rigid and beyond a certain politeness, unwelcoming of foreigners. It would depend very much on the job and on which country. I'd certainly do proper research not just make a knee jerk decision based on the national religion 😂

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:09

BoredZelda · Today 15:08

Go on then, define it. What are our cultural values?

According to the U.K. government, they are defined as, Democracy, Rule of Law, Individual Liberty and Mutual Respect and Tolerance. If you ask anyone about the cultural values they will talk about queuing, not complaining and drinking tea.

Which of those values are disappearing? Which of those government defined values are not shared by most other nations?

People will bleat in about how we treat our women, and how that’s different in other cultures - as if we haven’t had a problem with VAWG for decades. It took us until 1991 to outlaw marital rape, long after many other countries did so. Anyone who wants to pretend there is no issue with the way women are treated, dismissed, disrespected by British men is wilfully ignorant or hugely naive.

It’s not just ‘values’.

It’s our architecture, our beautiful native wildlife and flora, our crazy weather. All being destroyed by overpopulation.

Purplesproutingradiator · Today 15:09

Different isn't worse. Nothing stands still, nor should it. Older generations will always mourn the olden days, and younger generations will always be glad they didn't have to live through it themselves!

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:08

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 14:59

I'm sorry, but you're showing your ignorance. There is no single, universally accepted, definitive scholarly account of what constitutes "British culture". Nor has "British culture" remained stable and immutable over time.

There are interpretations, observations and opinions. Points of agreement and points of disagreement. Things which remain stable and things which evolve and change over time. Aspects which are accepted by the majority and aspects that are accepted by smaller groups. Differences shaped by factors such as geography, history, identity and socio-economic class.

You are seeking to massively oversimplify something that is inherently complex. I understand why you want to do that. But it doesn't work.

No, you are now scrabbling around trying to find little hairs to split. Reread my message above where I used the term broadly speaking. And broadly speaking, whether you like it or not, Britain has a traditional culture. The same as every country in the world. You are now trying hide behind little caveats such as 'it changes over time' or 'regional differences', but these were all addressed and acknowledged to begin with and it makes no difference to the main point. I am sorry that you don't like Britain having a traditional culture. You still haven't explained to me whether your erroneous belief in this matter just extends to Britain alone or to all countries not having an indiginous culture?

BoredZelda · Today 15:08

ThePerfectStormBird · Today 14:47

It’s part of the plan. If we can be convinced English culture never existed then there’s nothing to preserve and nothing to miss.

Go on then, define it. What are our cultural values?

According to the U.K. government, they are defined as, Democracy, Rule of Law, Individual Liberty and Mutual Respect and Tolerance. If you ask anyone about the cultural values they will talk about queuing, not complaining and drinking tea.

Which of those values are disappearing? Which of those government defined values are not shared by most other nations?

People will bleat in about how we treat our women, and how that’s different in other cultures - as if we haven’t had a problem with VAWG for decades. It took us until 1991 to outlaw marital rape, long after many other countries did so. Anyone who wants to pretend there is no issue with the way women are treated, dismissed, disrespected by British men is wilfully ignorant or hugely naive.

Figtreegirl · Today 15:07

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:53

What a lazy and ignorant summery of British culture. How clever of you to cherry pick the 'royal family' and 'fish and chips' and laugh at the foolish British for thinking they had a culture. I don't think any of my ancestors in rural farming Norfolk, the crofters in the Scottish highlands, those in west Wales or those from county Kerry would have picked any of the things you mentioned as their culture, strangely enough. They knew what their culture was because they lived immersed it in every day and had for generations. We know what it was and is still.

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We both make the same point, which is that different people experience different cultures at different times, and that some things change whilst others stay the same for some people and not others. Your culture, involving centuries old Norfolk things, is different to my culture, which involves different things. But we are all British. What I am immersed in culturally is different to the things you are, or my parents are/were. But we're all British. We have some things that unite us, but no constant fixed British culture.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:07

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 15:04

I wouldn't ever attempt to define Indian culture either - and I would think anyone who attempted to define it in simple terms was a fool.

That doesn't mean that Indian culture doesn't exist. But there is no single agreed version of Indian culture which stays immutable over time.

Because that is not how cultures work.

😂

I wish you would just say what you want to say.

’Of course Britain has a culture. But I don’t like that culture, because I personally associate it with racism. So I’m going to pretend it doesn’t have a culture, while acknowledging and admiring cultures which execute people and force women into second class citizenship, while pretending they don’t do these things. Unless it’s the USA, they’re horrific’

FouDeFafa · Today 15:06

Dappy777 · Today 13:44

Forget 50 years, it's over now. This is no longer a country. As two-tier Keir said, it's now an "island of strangers." The destructive, masochistic, hate-filled Left have used immigration as a tool to destroy national identity. Andrew Neather, a speechwriter for Blair, admitted that their plan was use immigration to "rub the right's nose in diversity and render their arguments out of date." Personally, I call that fascism – liberal fascism.

I no longer live in a nation with a shared history, shared culture, shared identity, etc. It's a joke. I wouldn't even fly the St George or the Union Jack in case someone threw a brick through my window. Our libraries and universities have been 'de-colonised' and even the literary canon is under attack. When I was young, I knew who I was. I was English-British. My history was the Battle of Britain and the tragedy of the Somme and the poetry of Wilfred Owen. It was Dickens and Jane Austen and Virginia Woolf. Now I no longer feel that way. I don't know who I am.

I hate the people who have done this to me. HATE them. I don't hate 'immigrants'. Certain groups I dislike, but I love the sweet Filipino nurse who lives next door, and the nice Punjabi lady who runs my local shop. It's a question of scale. The small island of Okinawa has its own distinct identity. If ten million white Swedes moved there, they would change the identity of Okinawa forever. It's as simple as 2 + 2 = 4. No one voted for mass immigration or multiculturalism. They were IMPOSED on us.

You’re right. It’s very sad.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:04

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 15:01

They weren't Britain. They reversed progress they had made. The older skeletons were aleady there. Different histories.

You seem to have very little confidence in Britain and her people. Why is that?

It’s not Britain I have no confidence in. It’s other cultures that seek to influence it.

Badbadbunny · Today 15:04

CurdinHenry · Today 13:17

There wasn't an NHS at all 80 years ago. Barely anyone went to university or even left the area they were born.

People didn’t need to go to uni nor move away because there were local job opportunities!

Figtreegirl · Today 15:04

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:58

@Figtreegirl it's foolish how you scoff and deride British culture. It's just as ignorant as if you sniggered at Indian culture as not being real or definable simply because tikka masala and cricket came from Britain.

I'm not scoffing at culture. I'm scoffing at people who think they own it.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 15:04

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:58

@Figtreegirl it's foolish how you scoff and deride British culture. It's just as ignorant as if you sniggered at Indian culture as not being real or definable simply because tikka masala and cricket came from Britain.

I wouldn't ever attempt to define Indian culture either - and I would think anyone who attempted to define it in simple terms was a fool.

That doesn't mean that Indian culture doesn't exist. But there is no single agreed version of Indian culture which stays immutable over time.

Because that is not how cultures work.

blondeseaside · Today 15:03

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:58

@Figtreegirl it's foolish how you scoff and deride British culture. It's just as ignorant as if you sniggered at Indian culture as not being real or definable simply because tikka masala and cricket came from Britain.

It is ONLY Britain that is not allowed to protect ,or be proud of it's culture. God forbid if you told anyone else to shove their flag in the bin. But when it's Britain, it's fine.

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:02

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:53

I think you need to look a little deeper at the Japanese cultural place of women. It's certainly not Afghanistan, but there's a lot of hidden sexism and sexual abuse.

And if you or your daughter had to either live in Japan or live in a Muslim country then we all know which one you would pick my dear. You'd know the difference between them very well if push came to shove.

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 15:01

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:53

And what of previously fairly liberal Muslim countries that did offer opportunities, that fell to extreme Sharia?

They weren't Britain. They reversed progress they had made. The older skeletons were aleady there. Different histories.

You seem to have very little confidence in Britain and her people. Why is that?

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:00

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:58

@Figtreegirl it's foolish how you scoff and deride British culture. It's just as ignorant as if you sniggered at Indian culture as not being real or definable simply because tikka masala and cricket came from Britain.

Of course they wouldn’t do that, because Indian people are generally not white. It’s reverse racism - all non whites are entitled to a culture that must be respected and protected at all costs. Ours is a ‘figment of our imagination’ to be sneered at and debased. It’s pathetic.

blondeseaside · Today 15:00

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 14:53

I think you need to look a little deeper at the Japanese cultural place of women. It's certainly not Afghanistan, but there's a lot of hidden sexism and sexual abuse.

I'm aware of that. And the fact that most married men take a mistress. But women have autonomy and rights. They aren't stoned to death if they are married and get raped by another man (for eg). They are not in the dark ages, they are in Pot A, not Pot B.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:59

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 14:59

I'm sorry, but you're showing your ignorance. There is no single, universally accepted, definitive scholarly account of what constitutes "British culture". Nor has "British culture" remained stable and immutable over time.

There are interpretations, observations and opinions. Points of agreement and points of disagreement. Things which remain stable and things which evolve and change over time. Aspects which are accepted by the majority and aspects that are accepted by smaller groups. Differences shaped by factors such as geography, history, identity and socio-economic class.

You are seeking to massively oversimplify something that is inherently complex. I understand why you want to do that. But it doesn't work.

So does anywhere have a culture?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 14:59

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:42

But that's just the thing, it isn't my interpretation. It's British culture as according to historians, sociologists, British cultural scholars etc. It has been defined at great length time and again, some people have made it their life's work.
And I very clearly started that no culture is fixed and immutable. I said in an earlier post that is always growing.

Willfully misunderstanding someone is a poor way to try and win a debate, everyone here can see you doing it. My words are right above for all to see. Obviously you have some deep need to believe that there is no traditional British culture in any clear or definable way, and only you can know why it is so important to you to hold on to that fallacy.

I'm sorry, but you're showing your ignorance. There is no single, universally accepted, definitive scholarly account of what constitutes "British culture". Nor has "British culture" remained stable and immutable over time.

There are interpretations, observations and opinions. Points of agreement and points of disagreement. Things which remain stable and things which evolve and change over time. Aspects which are accepted by the majority and aspects that are accepted by smaller groups. Differences shaped by factors such as geography, history, identity and socio-economic class.

You are seeking to massively oversimplify something that is inherently complex. I understand why you want to do that. But it doesn't work.

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 14:58

@Figtreegirl it's foolish how you scoff and deride British culture. It's just as ignorant as if you sniggered at Indian culture as not being real or definable simply because tikka masala and cricket came from Britain.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:58

Figtreegirl · Today 14:53

Nobody has a permanent culture. Culture changes all the time.

So you have no issue with (eg) Australia not ‘giving the land back’ to Aboriginals?

Dontlletmedownbruce · Today 14:58

People are angry but as always, doing fuck all about it and taking no responsibility. Today people can't get part time jobs cos the majority of people fell over themselves to go to the self service tills when they came out. Everyone bought a smart phone. People made SM accounts. As far as i can see, no one cares how much packaging they use. People get stuff they don't need shipped across the world to save £5 not caring about the environmental impact. Women have about 50 skin products they don't use without caring where it came from. People buy out of season fruit because we want to. People use chatGBT to type single sentence messages cos they are that lazy, knowing it uses a lot of energy. The world sold its soul to US tech in the past 30 years. Ultimately people don't care about the impact of anything they do and would rather moan about their own expenses going up than make a change. Those that resist changes are sneered at and called old fashioned or worse. Why weren't we out protesting against replacing humans with computers when it first began? No one gave a shit then.

LittleRobins · Today 14:54

These are simply the changes we are seeing in our lifetime. Throughout history people have hated change with towns turning into cities, industrialisation, the building of canals and railways, the introduction of aeroplanes etc etc. We don’t have to like it but change is inevitable.