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To think everything will be unrecognisable in 50 years

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CurdinHenry · Today 11:38

Just thinking about how different the UK was in the 70s and how change is supercharged now by tech and mass migration and the loss of shared cultural reference points in TV and newspapers and radio.

I live in Glasgow and many parts of it are no longer at all Scottish-seeming apart from the old sandstone tenements. What even is Scottish any more? It's hard to imagine Scottish independence being taken up by the new communities. But what's next?

I think human societies are programmed to self destruct every so often in the absence of external numbers control pressures and I think that's what's starting now across Europe. We have never had it so good in the history of time yet rage flourishes

What can we do as individuals, I'm just not sure

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BoredZelda · Today 15:21

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:09

It’s not just ‘values’.

It’s our architecture, our beautiful native wildlife and flora, our crazy weather. All being destroyed by overpopulation.

What is being destroyed? We have systems in place to protect that. The crazy weather has nothing to do with migration to the U.K. There is no over population, Reform are trying to convince us to have more babies.

ilovesooty · Today 15:21

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:07

😂

I wish you would just say what you want to say.

’Of course Britain has a culture. But I don’t like that culture, because I personally associate it with racism. So I’m going to pretend it doesn’t have a culture, while acknowledging and admiring cultures which execute people and force women into second class citizenship, while pretending they don’t do these things. Unless it’s the USA, they’re horrific’

What gives you the right to make that assumption? That's a personal attack in my book.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 15:21

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:17

Cultural values are one aspect of many in traditional culture.

Yes values and beliefs but also social etiquette, manners, customs, traditions, language, communication style, social class systems, social and family structures, religion, history, heritage, national indentity. There so many aspects! Food, drink, recreation, sports, arts, literature, politics, festivals, celebrations, clothing, beauty standards, civic duty, governance, architecture, community, social life, education, work ethic, the natural environment... Humour!!!

To try and narrow the conversation down to cultural values would not be helpful.

But many of those things have changed massively over time - they are not fixed, immutable things, they evolve.

Would you want to go back to living according to Victorian social norms? What about Elizabethan ones? If not,, why not?

TiredShadows · Today 15:20

A lot likely will be different, I don't think it will be everything.

There are folktales going back centuries around British locations that people can still see today. Plenty of examples of British cultures that are too often undervalued and easily overlooked.

We will need to get through the population bulge, and that will be painful, much of it because those in power keep kicking the can down the road on ways to minimise the pain in that shift of following generations being smaller.

The destructive, masochistic, hate-filled Left have used immigration as a tool to destroy national identity.

And the Right Tories who brought in the Boris-wave used immigration as a tool to maximise profits for themselves and their ilk while pretending to be against immigration. We had a Tory Chancellor say in Parliament that the immigration system was 'for-profit'.

Both Labour and Tory governments have used immigration to sow conflict and distract from their lack of and poor infrastructure investments, their inflating the state institutions for their own benefit, their messing around at the edges to pretend to care about an issue rather than caring about themselves.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:18

ilovesooty · Today 15:18

You made the statement. You prove it.

This thread is proving it nicely.

PammyPrang · Today 15:18

XenaSharples · Today 14:24

I'd like to think that the normalisation of more diverse looking people everywhere will put an end to racism, although it probably won't.

Do you think that “diverse looking people” can’t be racist? Well, in the words of some who haunt these threads, “educate yourself”. There is huge animosity and conflict between different immigrant groups. Last year there was violence between Muslims and Sikhs in Leicester (I think). That’s small fry compared with the rival gang conflicts in France, especially in schools.

ilovesooty · Today 15:18

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:15

Prove me wrong.

You made the statement. You prove it.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:18

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:17

Cultural values are one aspect of many in traditional culture.

Yes values and beliefs but also social etiquette, manners, customs, traditions, language, communication style, social class systems, social and family structures, religion, history, heritage, national indentity. There so many aspects! Food, drink, recreation, sports, arts, literature, politics, festivals, celebrations, clothing, beauty standards, civic duty, governance, architecture, community, social life, education, work ethic, the natural environment... Humour!!!

To try and narrow the conversation down to cultural values would not be helpful.

None of that exists, because it isn’t in an exhaustive list 😉

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:17

There was a fab thread recently about people's favourite aspects of quintessential British culture. It was wonderful!

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:17

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 15:14

Where have I said that I don't like Britain having a traditional culture? On the contrary, I like many traditional aspects of British culture. I simply disagree with you that there is one single immutable version of this.

And I have already said above, I don't believe that there is a single immutable, indisputable version of any culture. As any anthropolgist would tell you.

But since you are so determined, please do point me to the single definitive source in which British culture has been codified. I would be fascinated to know what you are pointing to as your ultimate source.

If something has to be codified to exist then you can’t believe in anything that is not tangible. So I assume you also don’t believe in manners, love, charity, hope, or culture not related to geography, such as gay culture? None of it exist as it’s not codified in a document somewhere? Does our constitution not exist either, as it isn’t written down?

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:17

BoredZelda · Today 15:08

Go on then, define it. What are our cultural values?

According to the U.K. government, they are defined as, Democracy, Rule of Law, Individual Liberty and Mutual Respect and Tolerance. If you ask anyone about the cultural values they will talk about queuing, not complaining and drinking tea.

Which of those values are disappearing? Which of those government defined values are not shared by most other nations?

People will bleat in about how we treat our women, and how that’s different in other cultures - as if we haven’t had a problem with VAWG for decades. It took us until 1991 to outlaw marital rape, long after many other countries did so. Anyone who wants to pretend there is no issue with the way women are treated, dismissed, disrespected by British men is wilfully ignorant or hugely naive.

Cultural values are one aspect of many in traditional culture.

Yes values and beliefs but also social etiquette, manners, customs, traditions, language, communication style, social class systems, social and family structures, religion, history, heritage, national indentity. There so many aspects! Food, drink, recreation, sports, arts, literature, politics, festivals, celebrations, clothing, beauty standards, civic duty, governance, architecture, community, social life, education, work ethic, the natural environment... Humour!!!

To try and narrow the conversation down to cultural values would not be helpful.

ilovesooty · Today 15:16

blondeseaside · Today 15:03

It is ONLY Britain that is not allowed to protect ,or be proud of it's culture. God forbid if you told anyone else to shove their flag in the bin. But when it's Britain, it's fine.

So what is this culture people in Britain aren't allowed to protect? I assume it's more complex than flags?

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:15

ilovesooty · Today 15:14

That's a ridiculous statement.

Prove me wrong.

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:15

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 15:14

You don't seem to have any confidence we are solid enough to handle that without bans and restrictions on the people you fear.

It's ironic really. The people who claim to value British culture the most have the least confidence in its ability to evolve and endure.

Have you said this to Native Americans? That their culture was simply too weak to survive?

aphroditeflighty · Today 15:15

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OooPourUsACupLove · Today 15:14

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:04

It’s not Britain I have no confidence in. It’s other cultures that seek to influence it.

You don't seem to have any confidence we are solid enough to handle that without bans and restrictions on the people you fear.

It's ironic really. The people who claim to value British culture the most have the least confidence in its ability to evolve and endure.

ilovesooty · Today 15:14

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:00

Of course they wouldn’t do that, because Indian people are generally not white. It’s reverse racism - all non whites are entitled to a culture that must be respected and protected at all costs. Ours is a ‘figment of our imagination’ to be sneered at and debased. It’s pathetic.

That's a ridiculous statement.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 15:14

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:08

No, you are now scrabbling around trying to find little hairs to split. Reread my message above where I used the term broadly speaking. And broadly speaking, whether you like it or not, Britain has a traditional culture. The same as every country in the world. You are now trying hide behind little caveats such as 'it changes over time' or 'regional differences', but these were all addressed and acknowledged to begin with and it makes no difference to the main point. I am sorry that you don't like Britain having a traditional culture. You still haven't explained to me whether your erroneous belief in this matter just extends to Britain alone or to all countries not having an indiginous culture?

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Where have I said that I don't like Britain having a traditional culture? On the contrary, I like many traditional aspects of British culture. I simply disagree with you that there is one single immutable version of this.

And I have already said above, I don't believe that there is a single immutable, indisputable version of any culture. As any anthropolgist would tell you.

But since you are so determined, please do point me to the single definitive source in which British culture has been codified. I would be fascinated to know what you are pointing to as your ultimate source.

ThePerfectStormBird · Today 15:14

LittleRobins · Today 14:54

These are simply the changes we are seeing in our lifetime. Throughout history people have hated change with towns turning into cities, industrialisation, the building of canals and railways, the introduction of aeroplanes etc etc. We don’t have to like it but change is inevitable.

Fuck it then I guess. Why are any of us bothering to raise our kids with manners or go to work and pay our taxes. We may as well just burn it all down and leave the ashes behind us.

MsMacheath · Today 15:14

BoredZelda · Today 15:11

What is Sharia and which parts of it concern you if people choose to follow it. Also, where is the evidence it is ever going to be adopted in the U.K. writ large?

I expect women in Iran pre the revolution thought the same as you? How could this happen?

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:13

BoredZelda · Today 15:11

What is Sharia and which parts of it concern you if people choose to follow it. Also, where is the evidence it is ever going to be adopted in the U.K. writ large?

If you’re going to play dumb by insisting every basic term is strictly defined and explained to the extent it totally derails the discussion, I’m not going to play ball.

Your post is beyond offensive to women in Afghanistan. Not that they can read it, as they’re not allowed to.

MsMacheath · Today 15:11

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 13:22

The people living in 50 years time (assuming we don't have total climate collapse and end of civilisation) will think being "Scottish" is what they see around them. Just as people 50 years ago had a different idea of "normal" and "change" to you. Most of what we understand as traditionally "Scottish" culture today was created during the 19th (possibly also 18th, I'm not sure) Scottish Nationalist revival.

Things change all the time. It's very human to see the state of things when we are growing up like some sort of fixed point that change happens to but it isn't, every time is just one moment in a river of ongoing change.

I thought the other day, walking down my high street which is one of the most multicultural in the UK, in 50 years time Britain may not be considered a white country any more. And you know what? I realised I don't care. I feel just as connected to a future Britain that isn't mostly white as I do to one that is. It will still be Britain. It will still be that story, moving on and changing as it always has. There are cultural moments in my neighbourhood that are uniquely British now because there are children growing up together as neighbours from cultures that would never have met if they were tied to geography rather than all here at this exact point in time.

All that we need to do to qualify for our place in the story is to be here and be part of it.

in 50 years time Britain may not be considered a white country any more. And you know what? I realised I don't care

If it resembles Japan or South Korea, Great. If it resembles Afghanistan, Iran or Pakistan I'm glad I'll be dead.

hdr.undp.org/data-center/thematic-composite-indices/gender-inequality-index#/indicies/GII

BoredZelda · Today 15:11

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 14:50

How will she have freedom and opportunities if Sharia flourishes?

What is Sharia and which parts of it concern you if people choose to follow it. Also, where is the evidence it is ever going to be adopted in the U.K. writ large?

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 15:10

SiegfriedSassoon · Today 15:02

And if you or your daughter had to either live in Japan or live in a Muslim country then we all know which one you would pick my dear. You'd know the difference between them very well if push came to shove.

I have no idea which I'd choose. There are a lot of Muslim countries, plenty of which I could work in. Japan is expensive, socially rigid and beyond a certain politeness, unwelcoming of foreigners. It would depend very much on the job and on which country. I'd certainly do proper research not just make a knee jerk decision based on the national religion 😂

ExtraHotDoubleShot · Today 15:09

BoredZelda · Today 15:08

Go on then, define it. What are our cultural values?

According to the U.K. government, they are defined as, Democracy, Rule of Law, Individual Liberty and Mutual Respect and Tolerance. If you ask anyone about the cultural values they will talk about queuing, not complaining and drinking tea.

Which of those values are disappearing? Which of those government defined values are not shared by most other nations?

People will bleat in about how we treat our women, and how that’s different in other cultures - as if we haven’t had a problem with VAWG for decades. It took us until 1991 to outlaw marital rape, long after many other countries did so. Anyone who wants to pretend there is no issue with the way women are treated, dismissed, disrespected by British men is wilfully ignorant or hugely naive.

It’s not just ‘values’.

It’s our architecture, our beautiful native wildlife and flora, our crazy weather. All being destroyed by overpopulation.

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