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To think if you have enough money to travel frequently, the UK is the best place in the world to live

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 13:48

We have our humor, our countryside, the food here is great in the sense you can have all cuisines, and if you can travel abroad regularly for sunshine snd enjoying the rest of the world, you can't beat it

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:21

TheKindnessProject · 16/10/2026 15:57

In Berlin right now. It's pretty good.

Heard so many good things abiut Berlin, I'd love to visit and Munich I'd love to go to too. Fancy doing that river thing, where you hoping and hope out downstream, I was actually thinking that could be a great base for a holiday

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Livingoverseas123 · 16/10/2026 16:19

Have you ever beemn to Switzerland, OP.

Flamingojune · 16/10/2026 16:18

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 14:04

If you don't agree, tell me where you think is better, because every country has its issues, but yes totally agree , the trains and public transport is really bad, would be better renationalised

I love the uk train network

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:16

InterIgnis · 16/10/2026 15:52

‘Better’ is subjective, and what is a good place to live for someone with a higher income, won’t necessarily be a good place to live for someone with a lower one.

I’m not from the UK, but I did live there for years. I wouldn’t choose to live there again.

Yes i do agree

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:15

YellingAway · 16/10/2026 15:51

I have lived abroad in a city in Europe that is usually highly rated as one of the most desirable places to live.

Yes, there were many great things about it but just like anywhere it had its downsides.

The lack of diversity was very noticeable even to someone like me who is from a very white area.

I was also told by a local that people like us were more accepted as we were white and British and apparently all the Turks were criminals. Attitudes were very behind those in the UK.

Also, it wasn’t easy to integrate into the community, they are quite a closed society.

I have a family member who stays in a tourist hotspot and they tell me what it’s really like to live there - value education, well good luck on that one. Value conducting business without having to give backhanders to government officials, well you will quickly go bankrupt. Yet people continue to flock there only to land with a bump.

Where was this?

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:09

InterestQ · 16/10/2026 15:30

I love the UK - I like the people, the humour, even the complaining. Riots and strikes are unusual, when a new government is voted in, there isn’t violence (a bit more whingeing), the countryside is incredible, London is amazing with a buzz and vibrancy that you don’t get in many other places. Edinburgh is beautiful. Holidays here are gorgeous, there are defined seasons, fresh air, stunning beaches from Kent to the Western Isles. Innovative chefs in out of the way pubs, brilliant auctions to snap up bargains, a good arts scene, great plays on in random rural towns. The Prime Minister gets questioned in person every Wednesday and held to account fairly politely but effectively and we get to see that weekly.

There are downsides and most things are expensive (food not as pricy as the continent though) but if there’s an emergency health issue, the NHS are brilliant. I’ve only needed about 2 drs appts in the last 5 years but I rang up and got them on the same day.

I could wish for things to be cheaper but all in all, I can’t think of one single place I’d rather have been born.

Brilliant post

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LetMeButterYourParsnips · 16/10/2026 16:03

The health care is also a big lottery.

LetMeButterYourParsnips · 16/10/2026 16:00

It used to be.

It’s just so dirty and crowded and expensive now.

SoSoLong · 16/10/2026 15:59

I've lived in Finland for a bit and public services are head and shoulders above UK - everything that's been mentioned here, education, transport, health, safety are all superior.

However, I still think London is the best city on earth, loved living there. So I guess it depends what matters to you most, there's no perfect country for everyone.

StairKate · 16/10/2026 15:58

There is of course no objective measure of the ‘best’ place to live. We are all so different and have different expectations and needs.

duende · 16/10/2026 15:58

I think there are many great places to live and each one has pros and cons, nowhere is perfect. I lived in the UK for 15+ years and have been back in Poland for 5+.

My family’s quality of life has been much better here. Easier access to state and private healthcare, it’s cleaner, safer, better digital/ online services. We have the sea, a Lake District, mountains. You can sail or you can ski.

We still travel abroad.

a lot depends on your personal circumstances, your family and friends network, work and housing situation.

We would not return to the UK, but I believe you personally may find it great.

I have friends in different European countries, US and Canada, most are happy to live where they do, with some frustrations.

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 16/10/2026 15:58

I think mainland Europe would make a better base for travel, assuming you have the right to live there.

How about the Netherlands? You can easily visit Belgium and Germany by train, and can get to other countries if you have time for more than a day trip. You’re also within reach of an international airport.

StairKate · 16/10/2026 15:57

I have been lucky enough to travel to many places, but you could not pay me to live anywhere other than London. I love it here.

TheKindnessProject · 16/10/2026 15:57

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 14:04

If you don't agree, tell me where you think is better, because every country has its issues, but yes totally agree , the trains and public transport is really bad, would be better renationalised

In Berlin right now. It's pretty good.

Chalula · 16/10/2026 15:56

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 15:27

Totally agree its not perfect, but there's nowhere better and it's home

How do you know there’s nowhere better if you’ve never actually lived elsewhere? I’ve lived in 7 countries in my lifetime (and I have three citizenships, including British, and permanent residency in a fourth country) and no, the UK is not the best place to live. One of the pros is definitely the easy access to other countries within Europe and globally but in terms of the UK itself there are a multitude of problems (failing economy, high taxes, low growth, high cost of living and poor public services and healthcare to name a few, plus the endless grey weather for six months a year). That said there are many positives too, including the history, culture, there are some beautiful scenic places, and London is still a very vibrant city and a great place to raise kids.

InterIgnis · 16/10/2026 15:52

‘Better’ is subjective, and what is a good place to live for someone with a higher income, won’t necessarily be a good place to live for someone with a lower one.

I’m not from the UK, but I did live there for years. I wouldn’t choose to live there again.

YellingAway · 16/10/2026 15:51

I have lived abroad in a city in Europe that is usually highly rated as one of the most desirable places to live.

Yes, there were many great things about it but just like anywhere it had its downsides.

The lack of diversity was very noticeable even to someone like me who is from a very white area.

I was also told by a local that people like us were more accepted as we were white and British and apparently all the Turks were criminals. Attitudes were very behind those in the UK.

Also, it wasn’t easy to integrate into the community, they are quite a closed society.

I have a family member who stays in a tourist hotspot and they tell me what it’s really like to live there - value education, well good luck on that one. Value conducting business without having to give backhanders to government officials, well you will quickly go bankrupt. Yet people continue to flock there only to land with a bump.

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 15:48

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 16/10/2026 15:26

Love it op. Yes, if you have enough money to live a luxurious life then the UK with its tax avoidance strategies probably is one of the better places to live.

If you’re born with nothing into a provincial area on the other hand there is very little to work for now and no incentive to try, given the expense of both trying and travel, especially if you’re female. In some places law and order is far from secure too.

Not sure this is quite the bombshell statement you may have thought. I’d rather be on the continent personally. Including for travel: somewhere like Freiburg in southern Germany has much better access to other countries than here.

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Yes i do think its alot harder for younger people now, and I can see why Freiburg woukd make an amazing base to travel, but I still don't see that as better tho

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seanconneryseyebrow · 16/10/2026 15:44

Well yeh we used to say we had this big posh house in oz (just a standard house there but fancy by uk standards) - but it was like a house made of cards. One stiff breeze and it’s knocked over! lol. I mean we saw it being built and it really is thin plaster board. Just big expansive white boxes. Zero character .

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 15:42

seanconneryseyebrow · 16/10/2026 15:22

Yes lack of dentistry or getting a GP is a bit shit - but in oz you need to go private really for most things. Certainly dentistry so the fact that any is free for anyone blows my mind still. Yes housing is expensive but it is in oz too. A detached house with space around it is the norm there - be considered for only the wealthy here. BUT I think homes are far more charming and interesting here. So I much prefer British homes. I remember my kids (adults now) first visiting when younger and asking why the houses were like dolls houses and that it looked like a model village. They were shocked by how small the rooms were in the grandparents home. They loved it though and thought it was adorable - as do I. Less is more, and quaint, quirky and charming is where it’s at for me. Everyone’s different though.

I agree, I often think oz homes look like they are made of cardboard!

Your children's comments have made me smile

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 15:38

JacquesHarlow · 16/10/2026 15:31

@Beefybaby you still haven't answered... have you ever lived in another country?

The whole bias of "I know these characteristics about my country so therefore it has to be the best" is a bit cringeworthy in itself

but using a country as a base for international travel is also a bit grim. Like, I know we love our "holibobs" in Mumsnet-land, but in that case Amsterdam Schiphol or Paris would be equally as good, and probably more culture etc

Sorry, I don't think I've got to your original comment yet, I will look for it now.

I haven't lived in another country other than extended month long holiday, plus half our family, on dh side, is italian so we spend alot of time there because we love them to bits.

How is it grim using it as a base to travel and enjoy the world ?
Why on earth would having paris as a base be better ?

I love County walks, labradors, living in a country that loves animals, a country that on the whole pretty welcoming and accepting of others sexuality race and religion, not perfect but better than most places.
Wellies, rain, sunny days, the coastline
Fish and chips, Sunday roasts in the pub, pies and Red Post boxes
Foxes badgers
And just the green

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seanconneryseyebrow · 16/10/2026 15:36

Yeh and I don’t underestimate how much shared culture and humour matter. Obviously in oz they speak English but the differences culturally and around humour especially are so huge - it really bothered me. Coming home I laugh all the time - like belly laugh - with friends and family constantly and I really had missed that. Ozzies just aren’t funny to me! And I could never be myself. I learnt early on (after a few ‘do you not like me or something?’ Comments) that sarcasm and pisstaking just isn’t recorded well,

what I do miss though is the laidback, don’t care whatever anyone else has, lack of class system there. Brits are obsessed with talking about ‘stuff’, mortgages, traffic. Ozzies just don’t give a shit about keeping up with the joneses and there’s no class system. Now that I loved and I miss it.

overall though - way way happier here.

SixtySomething · 16/10/2026 15:32

Nobody has even mentioned so far as I have seen our political freedom, lack of corruption, you don’t need to give a bribe to access healthcare, we don’t live in fear of police or mafia.
We truly have no idea how blessed we are.

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 15:31

seanconneryseyebrow · 16/10/2026 15:12

Yeh ozzies have to travel so so far for a holiday - usually Fiji or Bali and it’s just more sun so it kinda seems pointless.

I moved back to where I was raised which I love. I definitely have a renewed appreciation for uk now. When I left (30) I thought it was a grey depressing shithole. Now I think it’s a charming, vibrant, accessible place with people with fantastic humour and an amazing healthcare system: sometimes you have to move away to realise how good somewhere is. The lack of history, charm, architecture in oz really bothered me. I just find the Uk to be so beautiful and charming. I have a renewed perspective I guess. Who can has rubbed off on my British friends and family who’ve never moved overseas. They’ve started appreciating uk and seeing it through my eyes. It’s a fantastic place. (I should work for the tourist board shouldn’t I!)

Haha yes I know what you mean, I think sometimes it takes getting a bit older and have more experienced to realise how lucky we are, amd seeing other countries first hand too

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JacquesHarlow · 16/10/2026 15:31

@Beefybaby you still haven't answered... have you ever lived in another country?

The whole bias of "I know these characteristics about my country so therefore it has to be the best" is a bit cringeworthy in itself

but using a country as a base for international travel is also a bit grim. Like, I know we love our "holibobs" in Mumsnet-land, but in that case Amsterdam Schiphol or Paris would be equally as good, and probably more culture etc