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To think if you have enough money to travel frequently, the UK is the best place in the world to live

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 13:48

We have our humor, our countryside, the food here is great in the sense you can have all cuisines, and if you can travel abroad regularly for sunshine snd enjoying the rest of the world, you can't beat it

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AndSomeForFancyDress · 16/10/2026 17:00

CorporaINobbyNobbs · 16/10/2026 14:49

It’s not even the best place in the British Isles to live in.

Edited

We're still looking for a home @CorporaINobbyNobbs - would love to hear where you think is the best place in the British Isles.

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:57

pinck · 16/10/2026 16:52

The problem with this argument is that UK salaries are so low compared with places like the US (where I'm from) that frequent international travel isn't exactly affordable for everyone. And I'm not sure why you think having a sense of humor, beautiful countryside and restaurants serving international cuisine is somehow unique to Britain. If you've got enough money to regularly escape the country in search of better weather, I'd imagine you could have a better quality of life in plenty of other places.

Because say in Greece or Cyprus etc the food can be a but limited compared to london

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:55

Oh i forgot to add Sweden and Madrid to my list I'm sure there a fair few others too

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EnjoythemoneyJane · 16/10/2026 16:55

RandomUserName12345 · 16/10/2026 14:15

No. We are leaving for a EU country (dual citizenship).

Same.

I love the UK but despair of the direction it’s taken in the past 10 years, per everything in @Honeycottage125’s post. It breaks my heart that my kids (and everyone else’s) have been been so thoroughly dicked over and stitched up by Brexit, nationalism, wealth disparity, crumbling NHS, the gutting of so many towns because small businesses can’t survive, increasing knife and drug crime, ridiculous levels of antisocial entitled behaviour, crappy expensive transport systems, filthy polluted waterways and coastline, and the utterly unsustainable cost of living, versus wages that have stagnated for decades.

I’ve not to travelled to anywhere in recent memory - including Japan and much of Scandinavia, traditionally ‘expensive’ places to visit - that’s felt anywhere near as pricey, or as bad value, as home.

Every country has its problems and there’s still much to love about the UK. But when families with two parents in full time employment can’t afford to buy a home and are topping up at food banks by the end of every month, you have to wonder how much more fucked up things need to get honestly.

It’s no longer a country you can happily exist in if you don’t have a substantial cushion of wealth and privilege. And that’s absolutely not the case in many other European countries, which are much cheaper, better served for healthcare, transport and general infrastructure, are as well connected and easy to travel to and from, have better weather and offer the possibility of living a simpler, happier life in safer, cleaner, community-minded environments.

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:54

RadioJuan · 16/10/2026 16:43

If you take the Glacier express then consider Pontresina, or Flims.

Thanks I'll certainly look into them

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pinck · 16/10/2026 16:52

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 13:48

We have our humor, our countryside, the food here is great in the sense you can have all cuisines, and if you can travel abroad regularly for sunshine snd enjoying the rest of the world, you can't beat it

The problem with this argument is that UK salaries are so low compared with places like the US (where I'm from) that frequent international travel isn't exactly affordable for everyone. And I'm not sure why you think having a sense of humor, beautiful countryside and restaurants serving international cuisine is somehow unique to Britain. If you've got enough money to regularly escape the country in search of better weather, I'd imagine you could have a better quality of life in plenty of other places.

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:51

Chalula · 16/10/2026 16:37

You think that you can judge how good a place would be to live in just by holidaying there for a few days or weeks? That’s ridiculous. And how many other countries have you actually visited? You sound very narrow minded. It’s great you love the UK so much but you don’t have any experience living elsewhere so it’s odd to think there is nowhere better to live, to say the least.

Ohh alot of places

Italy, pretty much all of it Rome sorrento Lake garda, Venice, venetian riveria, all the amalifi but too many to list

Spain Barcelona, stiges, marbella areas, palma many places in majorca, ibiza
France, Paris, bourdeaux, cannes, nice, St tropez, many places I south of france
Monaco
Germany, baden baden, rust, kolon, bonn,
Cyprus
Greece Kefalonia skiathos

Usa las Vegas, Orlando, clearwater, everglades, naples, New York

Dubai
Maldives 3 islands
Mexico
Barbados
Thailand
Abu Dhabi

Feel lucky I've been to all these a d seen as much as i have, but can't wait to see more

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Fernsarethebestplants · 16/10/2026 16:50

As the world hots up, the UK looks more tempting than ever.

I dislike: the litter, the poor health-care service, not a very entrepreneurial environment. Hate increased racism. It was better in the early 2000's.

I like: the humour and general chitchat, the lack of formality, moderate weather, beautiful countryside, basic tolerance of all types despite some racism (worse elsewhere in Europe)

I can't live elsewhere; I don't fit in, and my jokes don't land.

dizzydizzydizzy · 16/10/2026 16:45

Flamingojune · 16/10/2026 16:36

By air is not the only way to travel

True. But boat or train travel abroad is really much the same story. Nearly all options are via Dover or Folkestone or central London, with the main exception being boat travel to Ireland is from the West.

RadioJuan · 16/10/2026 16:43

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:23

Not yet but I'm hoping to this winter, hoping to go on the glacier express and want to stay somewhere with a warm water
A pool overlooking the mountains, so any ideas? Looks amazing

If you take the Glacier express then consider Pontresina, or Flims.

RadioJuan · 16/10/2026 16:40

Livingoverseas123 · 16/10/2026 16:19

Have you ever beemn to Switzerland, OP.

I’m been here a while. Good standard of living. Very expensive but good salaries. Excellent roads but terrible traffic. Excellent public transport in the towns. Abundant healthcare that costs me and my spouse £1,000 a month with a £2,400 excess. Swiss do not accept foreigners into their communities so migrants gather together. Their sense of humour is not the same as British.
A lot of Brits who live here are up their own arses about living here, decry the UK but travel ‘home’ multiple times a year. Same as the Americans.
Buying a house in an urban area is beyond the reach of most. There’s a lot of poor Swiss scratching by. Summers are brutally hot and dry. Not much crime. Not much or any litter. Right wing mentality is everywhere. That’s my experience anyway. Other opinions are available.
I preferred Bavaria. I’ll move back to the UK at some point.

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:37

Nice to feel the love for the uk, sometimes you get sick of the press calling it broken Britain etc
Nice to reflect

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Chalula · 16/10/2026 16:37

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:25

I welcome your pov but I find it ridiculous that's I'd have to live somewhere to figure this out

You think that you can judge how good a place would be to live in just by holidaying there for a few days or weeks? That’s ridiculous. And how many other countries have you actually visited? You sound very narrow minded. It’s great you love the UK so much but you don’t have any experience living elsewhere so it’s odd to think there is nowhere better to live, to say the least.

Flamingojune · 16/10/2026 16:36

dizzydizzydizzy · 16/10/2026 16:34

doesn’t it depend where you live? It you live between Heathrow and Gatwick, you can very easily get a direct flight to almost anywhere in the world. If you live in Wales, Cornwall or northern Scotland, it must be a much bigger undertaking.

By air is not the only way to travel

Crikeyalmighty · 16/10/2026 16:34

I would say it has things I like , but so do other places within Europe. I’ve lived in Copenhagen, that was pretty splendid too ‘if ‘ you had decent money/income , same goes I feel for Sweden, Netherlands, Germany if you want a ‘non hot’ country -

HappyViewer · 16/10/2026 16:34

I go away 7 times a year and have visited almost 70 countries, I am very happy to live in the UK.

dizzydizzydizzy · 16/10/2026 16:34

doesn’t it depend where you live? It you live between Heathrow and Gatwick, you can very easily get a direct flight to almost anywhere in the world. If you live in Wales, Cornwall or northern Scotland, it must be a much bigger undertaking.

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:32

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 16/10/2026 15:58

I think mainland Europe would make a better base for travel, assuming you have the right to live there.

How about the Netherlands? You can easily visit Belgium and Germany by train, and can get to other countries if you have time for more than a day trip. You’re also within reach of an international airport.

Yes we could live there because my husband and children have the right to an Italian passport, I'd certainly go for an extended period of time but never to live

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:28

Flamingojune · 16/10/2026 16:18

I love the uk train network

Don't you think it would be better re nationalised though? And made much more affordable

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:27

Livingoverseas123 · 16/10/2026 16:26

Berlin is a completely dysfunctional city. Great to visit but residents are leaving if they have the chance - many to Switzerland. Munich is a beautiful city but horribly expensive!

Oh I don't know it was expensive there

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:26

Plus we don't get much crazy weather like tornados or earthquakes and no deadly wildlife or insects

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Livingoverseas123 · 16/10/2026 16:26

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:21

Heard so many good things abiut Berlin, I'd love to visit and Munich I'd love to go to too. Fancy doing that river thing, where you hoping and hope out downstream, I was actually thinking that could be a great base for a holiday

Berlin is a completely dysfunctional city. Great to visit but residents are leaving if they have the chance - many to Switzerland. Munich is a beautiful city but horribly expensive!

Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:25

Chalula · 16/10/2026 15:56

How do you know there’s nowhere better if you’ve never actually lived elsewhere? I’ve lived in 7 countries in my lifetime (and I have three citizenships, including British, and permanent residency in a fourth country) and no, the UK is not the best place to live. One of the pros is definitely the easy access to other countries within Europe and globally but in terms of the UK itself there are a multitude of problems (failing economy, high taxes, low growth, high cost of living and poor public services and healthcare to name a few, plus the endless grey weather for six months a year). That said there are many positives too, including the history, culture, there are some beautiful scenic places, and London is still a very vibrant city and a great place to raise kids.

I welcome your pov but I find it ridiculous that's I'd have to live somewhere to figure this out

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Beefybaby · 16/10/2026 16:23

Livingoverseas123 · 16/10/2026 16:19

Have you ever beemn to Switzerland, OP.

Not yet but I'm hoping to this winter, hoping to go on the glacier express and want to stay somewhere with a warm water
A pool overlooking the mountains, so any ideas? Looks amazing

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Wallywobbles · 16/10/2026 16:22

I’ve spent 30 years in France and brought up my kids here. I think it’s way better than the UK. Not for everything but it’s really worked for us.