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One appointment, one issue

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monkeymamma · 14/10/2026 12:51

I genuinely think this policy (at our GP surgery and I assume widespread) is deeply harmful to patients.

I was given an appointment today with the paramedic - no idea why not a GP - to talk about worsening symptoms (painful, bloated belly, difficulty urinating, sickness, reflux, dizziness). I mentioned that the symptoms are making it hard to know what to take for migraine (chronic sufferer). She snapped ‘that’s a separate appointment.’

The thing is, it’s not really is it? The symptoms I’m having are clearly hormonally driven (worse/unbearable around ovulation) but she didn’t ask about that or really anything about me as a person.

And how do you decide which symptoms are connected to the issue you’ve booked in and which aren’t? Aren’t they going to miss really obvious things if they refuse to understand what is going on with the patient as an actual person, as opposed to a single symptom or problem?

OP posts:
jacks11 · 16/10/2026 16:31

Whyarepeople · 16/10/2026 14:48

The demand exists because of the 10 minute appointments - if the same system continues, the same problem will continue. Obviously, changing things would be difficult and require a big initial push, but the fact is that most people don't want to keep going back to the doctor over and over - they want their issues dealt with and once that's done, the demand will go down.

Unfortunately, I don’t believe that this statement is correct. It is very convenient to think the one single change would revolutionise the primary care model to such an extend that the current profound mismatch of resource vs demand would suddenly be resolved. It’s a nice fantasy, but it’s exactly that- fantasy.

The truth is the problems are complex, wide-ranging and not solely rooted in primary care/GP failings. You would need to simultaneously fix problems in: GP and practice nurse recruitment and retention; the significant issues with primary care/community clinical support, such as district nursing, community pharmacy, rehab (OT/physio); community/cottage hospitals; and the availability of home care, including rapid response services. That’s before we even touch on the problems within secondary care and how they impact on primary care services (and yes, problems within primary care also impact on secondary care too).

It is simply untrue that the demand is driven solely by the 10 minute appointment system. I am sure longer appointments, allowing for a more holistic view would have an impact both on appointment demand and improving patient care and the patient experience- particularly for those with complex and/or chronic illness. But it would not, on its own, reduce demand sufficiently for it to offset the reduced number of appointments available without increasing waiting times. It’s something which has actually been looked, the conclusion from modelling would suggest your assumptions about the impact are not borne out. It would require a substantial increase in clinical staffing and, in some cases, expansion in physical resources such as larger surgeries to accommodate this. It’s not that it cannot be done, but it has to be financed and the clinical staff available.

I am not defending the current system it as the ideal. It isn’t. If you were designing a modern, effective healthcare system, the current system (both in primary and secondary care) is absolutely not what you would produce.

FedUpCelery · 16/10/2026 17:01

I had a recent experience of the same and ended up paying for private blood tests.

Then I was gaslighted that 'we wouldn't have said that, let me check who your last appointment was with......oh it was me....I wouldn't have turned you down for blood tests'.

FedUpCelery · 16/10/2026 17:15

Conniebygaslight · 14/10/2026 17:45

Goodness we are so lucky with our local surgery. They regularly send out information on their FB page and are a huge part of our community. I went 2 weeks ago and my GP actually asked about my life and family and encouraged a conversation. Nothing is too much trouble they are amazing

This is what it used to be like.

I realised after my last appointment that the person I saw must have been more interested in checking boxes.
I went in with my one thing but they were more interested in asking unrelated questions which once upon a time my family doctor would have known the answers to because he was on top of not just my care but my family's care.

I've also learnt not to say anything unless you want to see it written in your notes. I was paddling hard, trying to build some sort of connection with the practitioner that I saw and there was one of my throw away comments written down when I checked my notes (other important stuff was not recorded).

In addition, if anxiety is a resolvable symptom of the thing you suspect is wrong with you, try to mention any other symptom but that one or you risk being ever more labelled with anxiety and any future physical symptoms put down to it (diagnostic over shadowing)

EvieBB · Yesterday 09:22

monkeymamma · 15/10/2026 19:40

She was wearing a paramedic uniform and a badge that said her name and ‘paramedic’ and we went into a room which also said paramedic. I’m pretty sure she was!

Please don’t think I’m dismissing paramedics, I have had some really positive appointments and help in the past. But I wasn’t told it wouldn’t be a GP, and I don’t think she was able to fully tackle the issues I was experiencing.

It also just felt so dismissive that I couldn’t get any help with the issue of pain relief. I knew I was starting with a migraine, and knew I’d have nothing to dull the pain when the time came as it didn’t seem ok to take codeine when my stomach was so bad. As it was I woke up in agony at 3am, took ibuprofen, then had horrific stomach pains as well as horrific migraine pain!

It occurred to me today that it could also be something like a gastric migraine which would totally be connected… but because we weren’t allowed to talk about it, the chance to make the connection was missed completely.

My thought is that she will be qualified as an Advanced Practitioner. That is to say that, yes, she initially trained as a paramedic and then will have had to complete a further 3 years' training (similar to GP training) in order to be able carry out her role effectively. She will then need to debrief at the end of each day with a GP.

thefeelingofbeingalive · Yesterday 09:47

The thing is though if everyone did this every appointment would overrun. I bet you’re the type to sit and complain about appointments being delayed!

LunaTheCat · Yesterday 23:35

Monkeymama … I am always really happy to look at a list and go through and say what may be related .. but then I need to make a plan to deal with what’s important and ,maybe related , and what isn’t.
Its not fair on me , or other people waiting, if there is a list unrelated things and I am not doing a good job of if I try to deal with all of them.
I am a good GP.. I work hard, I really have genuine care and regard for my patients. I don’t usually have tea break and this week I missed my lunch break to help someone who needed me and was in crisis.

Autumnalhibernationisthedream · Yesterday 23:39

That good old adage of ‘the thing you suddenly say ‘oh by the way I also …’’ about being the thing that will get the gp thinking is so true.

CleverlyBeery · Yesterday 23:43

Muffsies · 14/10/2026 13:09

You're right OP, in your case the two issues are connected and it's relevant to ask about current medications and how they interact with the matter you are there for. You weren't bringing up a separate matter like an ear infection or a broken toe.

Edited to add: my gp was treating my peri and asked about other symptoms, i said constant stuffy nose and my RSI had got almost unbearable. He said both matters were hormone related and gave me an increased hrt script and some anti inflammatory nasal spray. Thing is it didn't cost him more than 2 minutes and meant i'm more productive at work, and i won't have to make further appointments down the line that will cause more backlog at the surgery.

Edited

Sorry to go off on a tangent but could you tell me about the stuffy nose and peri?

Since it started being autumnal outside I'm frequently sniffly and snotty.

Muffsies · Today 07:58

CleverlyBeery · Yesterday 23:43

Sorry to go off on a tangent but could you tell me about the stuffy nose and peri?

Since it started being autumnal outside I'm frequently sniffly and snotty.

Sure! Fluctuating oestrogen causes systematic low-grade inflamation throughout the body. So you might notice a constant stuffy nose, stiff joints, and flare-ups of pre-exsisting autoimmune conditions. Inflammation is also what causes the brain fog. Pregnancy can cause these symptoms too, but with perimeno it tends to be more severe.

The inflammation made my RSI so bad it was constantly burning from my wrist to my elbow, i couldn't even pick up a jar of coffee. I've also started getting stiff ankles and achilles in the morning. Inreased HRT has calmed the RSI, but it took months before i could use that arm properly again. Frozen shoulder is also a common complaint in perimenopausal women.

Look up Hormonal Rhinitis. You can get a nasal spray with a mild steriod in the pharmacy. Once you've delt with the inflammation, regular use of saline spray helps to keep the skin high up in the nose clean and less irritated.

CleverlyBeery · Today 10:14

Thanks so much! I definitely get a stiff neck from sleep fairly often and have various minor allergies eg dust ... I am a state in the morning. Luckily don't suffer from RSI - that sounds horrendous Sad

Wajeehakamran · Today 12:54

I can understand your frustration. Symptoms don’t always fit neatly into separate boxes, and sometimes the wider picture is what helps a clinician understand what’s going on. I appreciate appointments are limited, but patients should still feel listened to and have a chance to explain how their symptoms might be connected.

Muffsies · Today 14:08

Yup, stiff neck is classic. You may find you need to change your pillow or sleeping position. Body pillows are great for side sleepers and if you get sore hips, and you can get orthopaedic pillows specifically for sore neck. Some take a bit of adjustment to get used to, so do a bit of research, don't get the really expensive ones! I can recommend a chiropractic adjustment if you can afford it.

The RSI was miserable, I'm so grateful to the GP for spotting it was made worse by the peri. When I thought about it I remembered that carpel tunnel syndrome is common in pregnancy, and my RSI was terrible when I was expecting, but never gets mentioned with meno!

Muffsies · Today 14:18

Wajeehakamran · Today 12:54

I can understand your frustration. Symptoms don’t always fit neatly into separate boxes, and sometimes the wider picture is what helps a clinician understand what’s going on. I appreciate appointments are limited, but patients should still feel listened to and have a chance to explain how their symptoms might be connected.

It's why complex conditions like MS are so under-diagnosed. The symptoms are multiple, and very far-ranging. A GP has to add up lots of different presentations, usually over a long period of time.

I actually think that AI could be used to review a patient's full history and prompt a GP ask specific questions or flag conditions they should be ruling out. It could never replace a qualified person examining a patient, and I wouldn't like to see AI making diagnosis and prescribing (not yet, anyway), but I would provide the GP with a back-up check to allow them to work more efficiently and wholistically.

dizzydizzydizzy · Today 14:34

Monty36 · 14/10/2026 13:25

Ten minutes. Seven if you are a regular and they consider you a bit batty and/or a pest.

It is not good enough. A bit longer and they might save themselves more appointments.

I do find they can be trying to see so many people in one day it cannot help them do their job properly.
Some surgeries intake is wide. Too wide. And too many work part time and not full time.
One of the issues is that they are businesses. And so want to make money by giving you tablets ( they get money from the NHS if the practice meets various tablet targets), but spend less on actual staff.

It has to change. There has to be a better model.

Therr are certainly isssues with GPs but it’s not true that they make money every time they write a prescription. And although they are businesses, they are not like private healthcare in that they are not making a profit on each consultation. Their income is based on other factors such as the size of their list and certain performance targets.

Monty36 · Today 14:43

dizzydizzydizzy · Today 14:34

Therr are certainly isssues with GPs but it’s not true that they make money every time they write a prescription. And although they are businesses, they are not like private healthcare in that they are not making a profit on each consultation. Their income is based on other factors such as the size of their list and certain performance targets.

I did not say they did. They do get money via the NHS if they meet certain targets. Dispensing practices can earn extra money for doing so. Some get incentivised payments for issuing certain types of drugs.
To suggest they do not get money via prescriptions would be incorrect. The problem is they are businesses.

dizzydizzydizzy · Today 15:56

Monty36 · Today 14:43

I did not say they did. They do get money via the NHS if they meet certain targets. Dispensing practices can earn extra money for doing so. Some get incentivised payments for issuing certain types of drugs.
To suggest they do not get money via prescriptions would be incorrect. The problem is they are businesses.

i think we’re actually mainly agreeing on the prescription thing. So yes dispensing practices that meet pre-defined clinical standards get rewarded - so for example prescribing generic rather than branded drugs, or prescribing statins for patients who meet certain criteria. Why is that an issue? These measures save the NHS money and should provide better health outcomes.

Monty36 · Today 16:01

dizzydizzydizzy · Today 15:56

i think we’re actually mainly agreeing on the prescription thing. So yes dispensing practices that meet pre-defined clinical standards get rewarded - so for example prescribing generic rather than branded drugs, or prescribing statins for patients who meet certain criteria. Why is that an issue? These measures save the NHS money and should provide better health outcomes.

I think when you mix money for as an incentive for reaching a target on prescribing, you are in danger of compromising how you practice medicine.
I think that is the problem.

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