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To think it’s crazy that National Minimum wage is £27k

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Butterflyfluff · 09/10/2026 20:08

Yet it’s not really enough to live on 😢

My first job paid £7.5k per year and I thought I was loaded! And I’m not ancient.

Now 2 people on NMW earn over £50k between them yet it’s really not enough these days.

OP posts:
blondeseaside · 10/10/2026 10:05

intrepidpanda · 09/10/2026 20:39

He is a tradesman
He earns £12, 570

What are the chances that a self-employed person earns the exact amount you can earn before being taxed? Wink wink.

GordanoServices · 10/10/2026 10:03

Waitingfordoggo · 09/10/2026 20:21

Agree @HardFuckingBird

Admittedly, the costs of energy and food have risen sharply in recent years and many people struggle with that, but I completely agree that expectations are often too high. We have become very spoilt over the past 30 years or so. When I was growing up, it was one second-hand car for the whole family, one holiday a year (and often UK holidays at that), hand-me-downs instead of new clothes. Going to a restaurant or even a cafe was a rare treat. The first time we had a takeaway I was 15 years old and I remember how exciting it was, how lucky I felt. We weren’t a poor family, my parents earnt fairly well, but we appreciated what we had. I don’t remember ever coveting what wealthier families had.

Agree. Growing up our dinners were jacket potato, cheese, salad. Scrambled eggs. Fish once a week. Soup and bread for lunch. Never had a take away and I only remember going out for dinner to a restaurant for a very special occasion. We rarely had family holidays but we did have the odd day out to a national trust property or the beach. I would never ever have considered myself deprived in any way, I felt very well looked after and comfortable. I find expectations of a ‘normal’ lifestyle exhausting. I fantasise about living really simply, but no chance with my family and where we currently live.

Bobbieiris · 10/10/2026 10:01

@HardFuckingBird I agree with you but it's soooo hard not having the lifestyle that you feel everyone has! As a kid my family didn't own a car until I was 10 years old! No holiday apart from visiting grandparents in Wales until I was about 8 years old and after that it was UK holidays. Meals out or takeaways were for birthdays. But I dream of being a 2 car family so I can get around more easily with the kids and have better job prospects as my partner takes the car to work everyday so it's walking or bus for me! and i see friends on Instagram out for meals and drinks. ...my partner and I do a cheap pub meal on our anniversary and a nice meal for Xmas period. We have 2 young kids. Since becoming a mum I've really had to start learning to budget and it's hard! We earn just under 4 grand a month and doesn't feel enough for bills, rent, food, nursery. I feel like im scraping by with buying all the kids clothes second hand off vinted etc but when I look back that was normal life. ..and I didn't see my family as poor at all, we had a nice house that my mum managed to buy with her savings. Im still paying off my credit card from mat leave (which i did not budget for!). I dont think people are payed enough considering the cost of living but I do also wish that budgeting was taught in schools. Im only now learning to stop trying to chase other people's lifestyles. Sorry im rambling but I think of money and lifestyle every day at the moment. When kids are a little older I plan on going back to work full time as I have a better paid career while partner is on minimum wage....it's just about working out for now.

FirmSnake · 10/10/2026 09:55

brownbootsandhats · 10/10/2026 09:17

That is untrue.

there are very rich younger people also - many who have had inheritance or money from parents

16% of pensioners are defined as living in poverty which is roughly the same a working aged adults with no children - even though the day before you retire should be your richest every day of life

ie it’s people of any age without children to care for who are richer not pensioners vs working people

its 25% of working aged adults with children
single parents fare worse unsurprisingly

not saying that’s good

just saying that to think it’s only a tiny fraction of pensioners who are very poor is setting generations against each other which isn’t helpful.

it’s having children to pay for that sets you up for relative poverty

What is untrue? That poster is right. There are comparatively fewer pensioners in poverty than working age people and children.

iloveanearlynight · 10/10/2026 09:53

malificent7 · 09/10/2026 20:21

MyFairLady27impressive but how?

No housing costs, using savings probably for the new cars?

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 09:50

sunshinestar1986 · 10/10/2026 09:40

Just 14 years ago, a 2 bed on my area was £600
Now it's nearly £1200
Now a bedroom in shared accommodation is £600 a month
That's ridiculous

ive jus put in for renting on right move

maximum was £1000, there is one page and they range from £500 - £800 a month for house shares. There is a one bed terrace place for £1000 nothing else

Then its £1150 for a one bed place and £1150 + for 2 bed

that will only get worse as rental houses in the priavte sector get harder to find, the price will escalate. Landlords will be advertising well over the asking price - as tenants can't offer more to secure the place, so instead landlords will advertise at £300/400 more than market value and then see what a tenant will offer them over market value. So house is worth £1350 a month - landlord advertising at £1650 and tenant offers £1450 - landlord accepts but hasn't broken any laws

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 09:46

Frankenspencer · 10/10/2026 09:36

Inheritance, that’s where the money comes from. Wealthy family often means no uni debt, leg up onto the housing ladder (a farmer near us just build an extra house for their daughter.). Then the money that’s left, through trusts and various way to protect it from taxes. That injection starts the ball rolling of each generation getting wealthier. We however, will inherit nothing, poor parents overseas and poor parents here. Youngest in last year of uni so hopefully we’ll see some daylight next year!

I did inherit. £800 after the funeral costs.

brownbootsandhats · 10/10/2026 09:45

sunshinestar1986 · 10/10/2026 09:40

Just 14 years ago, a 2 bed on my area was £600
Now it's nearly £1200
Now a bedroom in shared accommodation is £600 a month
That's ridiculous

That is where the problem lies

and it’s banks and landlords getting rich at out expense

whilst the narrative is that rich pensioners are hoarding the money / deflection of reality

it’s rich people of every generation that’s the real problem

ans have you ever considered what the biggest cost is for the nursery ? The mortgage or rent - not the staff wages. But the real value is in the staff not the building

WestwardHo1 · 10/10/2026 09:41

intrepidpanda · 09/10/2026 20:39

He is a tradesman
He earns £12, 570

Oh stop! You must think people are idiots.

sunshinestar1986 · 10/10/2026 09:40

Just 14 years ago, a 2 bed on my area was £600
Now it's nearly £1200
Now a bedroom in shared accommodation is £600 a month
That's ridiculous

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 09:37

Imdunfer · 10/10/2026 09:35

I wonder just how many people complaining that NMW is unlivable will be paying for lip fillers, multiple streaming subscriptions, hand car washes and multiple £4 a cup coffees this week?

people make a living from lip fillers, coffee shops, and car washes, they aren't unemployed

Frankenspencer · 10/10/2026 09:36

Inheritance, that’s where the money comes from. Wealthy family often means no uni debt, leg up onto the housing ladder (a farmer near us just build an extra house for their daughter.). Then the money that’s left, through trusts and various way to protect it from taxes. That injection starts the ball rolling of each generation getting wealthier. We however, will inherit nothing, poor parents overseas and poor parents here. Youngest in last year of uni so hopefully we’ll see some daylight next year!

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 09:35

Finta · 10/10/2026 08:51

I genuinely love how she crushed the unions. Needed to be done.

whilst the unions needed to be brought to task - they were indeed crushed and now we are int he situation of them being crushed with low wages and many more millionaires and billionaires

far better to have found a middle ground so working people weren't living 40 years later in a hand to mouth crisis of low wages not able to survive without working benefits

Imdunfer · 10/10/2026 09:35

I wonder just how many people complaining that NMW is unlivable will be paying for lip fillers, multiple streaming subscriptions, hand car washes and multiple £4 a cup coffees this week?

Lipstone · 10/10/2026 09:32

MyFairLady27 · 09/10/2026 20:19

Well we get by nicely with kids,pets, new cars, holidays,no credit owed to anyone or anything. And get around £20k a year between us as I'm part time atm dh full..Takes good balancing and communication and we do fine and dandy

New cars, plural, on £20k per year, no credit?

What are they, Hot Wheels?

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:20

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 09:16

It's house prices. With much higher house prices people are far more likely to leave an inheritance.

No, house prices increasing changes how much is left, not whether anything is left.

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:19

GreenCa · 10/10/2026 08:12

Although a substantial portion of pensioners do own their house outright, 18% of pensioners are in rental properties, so certainly have housing costs. Additionally not all mortgages are paid off by retirement. Pensioners do have all the other costs associated with housing though: council tax, heating bills and maintainence. A large number of the poorly maintained properties that come on the market were owned by an older person.One reason for this is that paying maintenance e.g roof repairs, gutters, painting, window repairs etc etc is unaffordable if living on a modest pension.The average income for a single pensioner is £333 a week, so many will have much less than that.Just as there are rich and poor people of working age, there are rich and poor pensioners.

Obviously, but comparatively this pensioner generation is wealthier than the working. Nobody is denying that a small number of pensioners are poor

Katemax82 · 10/10/2026 09:18

That was my husband's wage as a newly qualified train driver in 2001, he was classed as a high earner back then

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 09:18

Tharealkate · 10/10/2026 09:15

I agree. There needs to be an uplift for the middle bands as well. The gap between what are often unskilled jobs and jobs in health care and education is getting smaller.

This has happened generally. I am paid £32k, it's actually a skilled job. But the wage has been eroded so much over the last ten years.

brownbootsandhats · 10/10/2026 09:17

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:08

This…100 times over!

Obviously there are poor pensioners, but comparatively few.

That is untrue.

there are very rich younger people also - many who have had inheritance or money from parents

16% of pensioners are defined as living in poverty which is roughly the same a working aged adults with no children - even though the day before you retire should be your richest every day of life

ie it’s people of any age without children to care for who are richer not pensioners vs working people

its 25% of working aged adults with children
single parents fare worse unsurprisingly

not saying that’s good

just saying that to think it’s only a tiny fraction of pensioners who are very poor is setting generations against each other which isn’t helpful.

it’s having children to pay for that sets you up for relative poverty

Constantrunner · 10/10/2026 09:16

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:10

Want to know why it’ll change to 55% getting an inheritance…wealthy pensioners 😂

It's house prices. With much higher house prices people are far more likely to leave an inheritance.

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:16

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 07:51

Yes, thatcher decreased the power of the uniions but also demonised them. By doing so many turned their backs on them and by doing so have decreased there wages.

teachers have bucked the trend and it’s made a big difference

Orrrr the economy has changed and factory work is not as required plus when it is it’s completed by machines therefore less demand for workers and lower wages accordingly. I feel like this is the obvious reason.

Tharealkate · 10/10/2026 09:15

NotSmallButFunSize · 10/10/2026 09:10

My main gripe with the level of minimum wage is about other salaries in comparison!

I work in the NHS, am a band 4. MW has risen so much that band 1 has disappeared and band 2 now only has 1 pay point else it would be the same at band 3 (and is actually the same as the bottom of band 3, it's just that 3 can increase). It won't be long before band 2 gets removed too due to being below MW.

So my main issue is that every time MW increases, the differential between it and the other bands reduces, to the point where it's barely worth doing the job with more responsibility as you get less and less reward for taking it on! How long til it catches me up on band 4?

It's my biggest irritation with agenda for change scales and no doubt affects other public sector salaries too. We should all get an equivalent uplift when MW goes up, PLUS whatever raise we were going to get else what's the point in different bands??

I agree. There needs to be an uplift for the middle bands as well. The gap between what are often unskilled jobs and jobs in health care and education is getting smaller.

BarbaraE · 10/10/2026 09:10

Me and my husband are self employed live on less than 25k a year between us we ve no mortgage that's the only reason it's doable

Boreded · 10/10/2026 09:10

IzzyGone · 10/10/2026 05:45

Average age at inheritance is 47 peak is 55-65
average amount unt is £65k
tjats over the last 10 years and is at 22% of the population

in the next 20 years that will change to 55% of the population will receive an inheritance and £5.5 trillion will be inherited in the next 30 years

If the
£5.5 trillion in projected inherited wealth were divided equally across the entire UK population, it would amount to approximately £79,000 per person

£3.84 is from property

Want to know why it’ll change to 55% getting an inheritance…wealthy pensioners 😂