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AIBU for wanting space after my husband got an unexpected X call?

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Chromeheartsx · Yesterday 11:02

Husband and I have had very rocky few years. We have sorted everything out. (Both in the wrong at various different points)

we are moving next month and this week was stressful with solicitors and chasing ect…I recently gave up smoking and I’m so proud of myself but I feel like I could easily go and buy a box 😩

lovely evening chilling on the sofa and he gets a call from the app X (twitter) some random foreign name. Automatically told me what he used this app for and said what the hell why is someone calling me. (I looked it up and it’s common) I just got so pissed off because it brought back a lot of trauma. I made him sleep downstairs because I just knew I wouldn’t be able to relax with him next to me. I didn’t really want to talk about it and hear him out as he tried to blame me for getting annoyed about it and i shut it down. I don’t really know what the point of this post is but am I being unreasonable for wanting to be by myself and having space?

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hopspot · Yesterday 11:09

Can you explain why you feel he has done wrong?

OrangeFlower14 · Yesterday 11:07

He got a spam call and you’re angry wow

bananaapplepears · Yesterday 11:07

How can you live like this? You obviously haven't dealt with any insecurities you have. If you stay together then you need to trust him, what's the point otherwise. Did he even do anything wrong for you to react like that?
I didn't even know you can get a call through X.

Jellycatspyjamas · Yesterday 11:04

I think if you’re going to react like that every time he gets a random spam call he’d be better off elsewhere.