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AIBU to consider teaching after becoming disillusioned with veterinary work?

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Sadvetatcrossroads · 25/09/2026 20:23

I have been a small animal vet for 20+ years and have gone as far as I feel I can with it. I am a senior vet with responsibility for other staff and many other functions related to the safe running of a practice. I am kind, experienced and efficient, but feel really disillusioned with the profession.

As individuals we are so committed to our patients and clients, we always try to find a way to make things affordable and go the extra mile (giving clients a lift home, rescuing wildlife etc) but it all just feels so hostile now. The media and even MPs talk about “extortionate” prices, as if we are literally criminals. Clients distrust our advice (the same people who will ask their GP to run bloods, automatically think we are upselling by suggesting them). People assume that a 2 hour dental procedure under anaesthetic should cost the same as 20 minutes in a dentist chair subsidised by the NHS.

And for the budget prices people want to pay, using only our crystal ball and magic wand, owners expect correct diagnoses and effective treatments, and complain when things don’t work out perfectly, or that we can’t save their fur baby who has multiple health conditions and is the equivalent of over 100 in dog years, or they were kept waiting while we dealt with an emergency walk in (no a&e to send them to). They say they want an nhs for pets but would not be happy if we left them waiting for hours to be triaged or a year for a knee op. And to be honest, I know that veterinary medicine is expensive but I don’t really know where all the money goes either (corporate), it definitely doesn’t go on payrises or bonuses for our staff.

I enjoy teaching vet students, I can stand on my feet dealing with awkward people and explaining complicated things for 9 hour days. I have a very strong bladder and like teenagers.

Aibu to think about jacking it in and training to be a teacher?

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August1980 · Yesterday 20:44

Do what makes you happy op, but remember for every miserable client there are two/three/four more who value your expertise and skill/advise. I say this has someone who just dropped £700 on out of office vet care for my precious lab who greedily scoffed the baby’s grapes from the snack box. She is not unhappy about being made to vomit or the bill she is most unhappy about not being allowed to eat it up again!

if you feel you have done your time, then for sure move on.

Littleorangeonaplate · Yesterday 21:00

As a teacher, I would say that animals are more compliant clients than children and as a. Eg you probably usually see them one at a time. Children in a school are dealt with in groups of 30; in a secondary school they move on every hour and are replaced by a different group of 30. They are very tricky after 2:00 pm and can’t be taught anything. Parents will be at least as awkward as pet owners. So think carefully as teaching may turn out to be even more hassle.

Littleorangeonaplate · Yesterday 21:01

1984Winston · 25/09/2026 20:30

Go for it, I left the veterinary world ten years ago and I do not miss the clients (I miss the animals) but its got so much worse in that time, costs have risen and people expect so much but dont want to spend any money, theres constant vet bashing on social media, its really tough!

Teacher bashing is at least as prevalent as vet bashing.

Redragtoabull · Yesterday 21:12

Jumping out of the frying pan is what I'm seeing by you teaching, unless of course it's in your given professsion. Most pet lovers understand the costs, but when there is no price list for owners to contend with, of course we are going to think we're being screwed over. It needs to be transparent pricing which I completely agree with, why shouldn't it be. And yes, vet prices have been named and shamed as they should but it'll be another profession soon, the bankers, estate agents, train drivers etc have all had a good bashing over the years, so hold your head high and keep doing what you love. I'm under no illusion when I take my pet or self to our respective hospitals that each doc will have all the answers but some people expect the know it all knowledge to be there, and those people are unrealistic.

Itsarecipefordisaster · Yesterday 21:14

Have you thought about being a charity vet? The RSPCA doesn’t deal with the public. It gives you the opportunity to help animals without the abuse from clients.

Chagalaga23 · Yesterday 21:14

I don't know if you'd be better off teaching (though as a positive sounding woman, I hope you would give it a go.)
As an older woman, my observations about pets are this:
The expectations and costs of keeping a pet are so much higher these days. My parents had cats and we have also always done.
Back then, as a responsible pet owner, you got them speyed, injections, maybe wormed depending on where you got them from. If they had an accident or obvious infection, you took them to the vet. Otherwise not.
That was it, for life.
Now, it seems you treat them like a human. I think this is where unreasonable vet bills come in. People seem to treat their pets like humans. They push them in a push chair and take them to the vet for small things.

Cydonia · Yesterday 21:21

Stelladid · Yesterday 18:21

YANBU, but I’m saddened that this is your experience. I cringe a bit at the costs at my (excellent) Vets, but they have extended the premises, including the waiting areas (separate ones for dogs and cats) and purchased new scanning equipment. The only thing I don’t like is a sense that where there is insurance, the charges are higher. This just increases the price of insurance for everyone.

I’ve been a vet nurse for over 20 years and in my experience you do not pay more if you have pet insurance. The prices are the same. The only difference is that if a pet is insured, there are more options available for diagnosis and treatments which would result in a bigger bill. It is a relief when a pet is insured, not because the vet thinks they can make more money out of it, but because it means you can do those extra tests, the surgery, prescribe the most effective but expensive treatments.
The vets I work with try their best every day to make things more affordable and available to their clients. This public perception that vets are out to rip you off for their own personal gain couldn’t be further from the truth.

TheeNotoriousPIG · Yesterday 21:23

I have a few vet friends. They all prefer being livestock vets than dealing with the owners of small animals. Quite frankly, I am amazed at some of their work on livestock!

As an ex-teacher (albeit, primary school), I would not recommend it. I always say that it is amazing how many ex-teachers end up working with animals, because they are easier and less stressful than the adults around the children in schools!

ImReallyNotSure · Yesterday 21:40

Not the point of the thread but…

People do realise that they don’t have to have pets?

MyDdog died this year - we’ve chosen not to replace him due to costs.

As an aside @Sadvetatcrossroads the vets were bloody brilliant with him and with a sobbing traumatised me.

LongDarkTeatime · Yesterday 22:00

Have you explored moving into academia? I’m in a clinical role and have been able to do PT lecturing on a local Uni course.
Have you had a look at doing a PGCE?

MrsFlibbleisverycross · Yesterday 22:46

Not read the full thread (so apologies if this has been said a lot) but I’d just say - if you’re struggling with the public perception of your job now as a vet, teaching is not the job for you. I try my hardest not to tell new acquaintances what I do these days because everyone has an opinion of teachers and it’s rarely positive.

If that’s just a tiny part of it though - I’d definitely say go for it. I trained later and have no regrets. The job is hard. It often feels too hard but everything I love about it makes it worthwhile.

RumPidgeon · Yesterday 23:30

I completely understand where you’re coming from and I think it’s great that someone with your background and expertise wants to teach. Any education provider would be keen to hire you. I’d go for it and explore that path. Life is too short to be miserable.

Stelladid · Today 00:15

Cydonia · Yesterday 21:21

I’ve been a vet nurse for over 20 years and in my experience you do not pay more if you have pet insurance. The prices are the same. The only difference is that if a pet is insured, there are more options available for diagnosis and treatments which would result in a bigger bill. It is a relief when a pet is insured, not because the vet thinks they can make more money out of it, but because it means you can do those extra tests, the surgery, prescribe the most effective but expensive treatments.
The vets I work with try their best every day to make things more affordable and available to their clients. This public perception that vets are out to rip you off for their own personal gain couldn’t be further from the truth.

That’s reassuring. Thank you for your reply.

tsmainsqueeze · Today 00:50

JustMerelyHere · Yesterday 00:24

Genuine question, do you think that large numbers of vets being taken over by a few large companies has caused a lot of this? Interested in an insiders viewpoint.

I have decades of experience in this field in an independent practice and i am extremely proud of our industry, but I absolutely believe that the corporates and the way they operate have caused the public to label us all as money grabbing.
We see increasingly numbers of clients with unreasonable expectations who clearly begrudge having to come to see us and pay a consult fee when Dr Google tells them otherwise.
in my practice we have always been transparent with our prices , have always helped with prescriptions -even more so now and have always done our best to find ways for the client to get their pet the treatment it needs.
Thankfully the vast majority of our clients are lovely and we genuinely care about them but I have never known us have as many obnoxious ones as we do now, I think this attitude is contempt and is a knock on effect of how society perceives us all because of the greed of some.
I really believe corporates should not be running chains of veterinary practices, it is not a suitable industry for this.
I think over recent time their behaviour and culture has devalued us as a whole sadly.
I can see why the op and others want to leave but give me a load of feral cats any day over a classroom of teens!
There does seem to be a turnaround happening ,from feedback and surveys we are seeing clients who have actively chosen to register with an independent practice.
I hope the op finds her path, it's sad a vet is made to feel this way, they are usually pretty bloody amazing people.

JustMerelyHere · Today 00:57

tsmainsqueeze · Today 00:50

I have decades of experience in this field in an independent practice and i am extremely proud of our industry, but I absolutely believe that the corporates and the way they operate have caused the public to label us all as money grabbing.
We see increasingly numbers of clients with unreasonable expectations who clearly begrudge having to come to see us and pay a consult fee when Dr Google tells them otherwise.
in my practice we have always been transparent with our prices , have always helped with prescriptions -even more so now and have always done our best to find ways for the client to get their pet the treatment it needs.
Thankfully the vast majority of our clients are lovely and we genuinely care about them but I have never known us have as many obnoxious ones as we do now, I think this attitude is contempt and is a knock on effect of how society perceives us all because of the greed of some.
I really believe corporates should not be running chains of veterinary practices, it is not a suitable industry for this.
I think over recent time their behaviour and culture has devalued us as a whole sadly.
I can see why the op and others want to leave but give me a load of feral cats any day over a classroom of teens!
There does seem to be a turnaround happening ,from feedback and surveys we are seeing clients who have actively chosen to register with an independent practice.
I hope the op finds her path, it's sad a vet is made to feel this way, they are usually pretty bloody amazing people.

Thanks, that's really interesting.
I really like my local vets, the staff are amazing and they've looked after my dog (and me, for some tough decisions) and I know they do a lot of volunteering too for charity surgery's. However it has noticeably changed since being bought out, and the costs have ballooned to the point I won't be getting another pet. I agree that (like Doctors surgeries and water companies) this isn't something we should let corporations dominate.

Aquasoap · Today 01:03

Didyousaynutella · 25/09/2026 20:35

Do you think it has gone downhill / up in price since they changed the law allowing the corporations to move in? Is there a way to go back to what it was with only vets being allowed to own practices?

Many can't afford to own practices. Equipment is so expensive.

YANBU OP. Listening to the critical thinking of some people I've heard on the radio call ins about this was painful.

maxslice · Today 03:12

If you’re easily discouraged, I wouldn’t recommend it. But if you want to to get out of the trenches and still share your expertise and passion for veterinary medicine, it’s certainly something to consider.

Lovedogwalking · Today 03:46

Itsarecipefordisaster · Yesterday 21:14

Have you thought about being a charity vet? The RSPCA doesn’t deal with the public. It gives you the opportunity to help animals without the abuse from clients.

I have a friend who is a vet for the PDSA and loves it, another who works nights ( for emergencies) and also loves her job.
I'm a long term dog handler, love my vet practice as do their general Client base, they are independent, caring and practical in their advice.
I think dealing with the general public these days is unfortunately a nightmare, everyone is very opinionated it seems. For that reason I also agree that teaching could be another nightmare.
Only you can.work out your best way forward, i wish you well

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