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To be secretly happy my least favourite colleague has been sacked?

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iwonderwhyitearmyself · 25/09/2026 17:25

They were rude, nasty, disrespectful and never really did the work they were meant to do. They’ve been sacked with immediate effect and I’ll never see them again.

AIBU to secretly be glad that the arrogant knob has finally faced some consequences for their actions?!

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DarkSatanicMIL · 25/09/2026 20:10

Usually these types of knobheads are promoted out of the department in order for management to avoid having to tackle their behaviour. So yes, I think YANBU to be happy that your managers have actually dealt with a problem employee by providing a fair outcome.

Lifeomars · 25/09/2026 19:52

DoloresDelEriba · 25/09/2026 19:06

Delighted for you. Normally ‘that’ person seems to be Teflon coated. Yay! They’ve gone!

ain't that the truth! I left a job due to being bullied by an utterly poisonous person who always had the manager's ear. I did so well in my new job that i was promoted and given a substantial pay rise. Meanwhile bully carried on with their horrible ways, picking on the person who got my old job until they made an attempt on their life. Then it all came crashing down for the bully and the manager finally faced up to how vile they were and then the whole organisation went to the wall. Took a few years and i did enjoy hearing about it on the grapevine.

MadMAGA · 25/09/2026 19:49

I was delighted when my bullying boss was fired. I said all the right things to HR when they informed me: will there be wider cuts, who will lead the team etc. but cackled and did a happy dance when I was by myself. The nasty woman deserved the sack and more.

Lifeomars · 25/09/2026 19:44

Someone I once worked with was jailed for a very serious offence, I was delighted that they had finally been caught out and seen as the total fake they are

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 19:20

MyLimeGuide · 25/09/2026 17:38

So if you felt murderous by your definition you would be unreasonable?

Feeling murderous isn’t the same as intent to act upon it!

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 19:19

WhateverMate · 25/09/2026 17:35

Not unreasonable to be secretly happy.

Starting a thread on a public chat forum is a bit OTT though.

Nah gives the rest of us poor buggers hope! 🥳

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 19:18

Besidemyselfwithworry · 25/09/2026 18:14

a woman I worked with years ago got sacked and she was horrible - it couldn’t have happened to a nicer person as they say!

every dog has its day

Indeed, as does every b*%….ahem, sorry! I‘m far too invested in this thread lol, dealing with something similar 🤣

outerspacepotato · 25/09/2026 19:18

It's your day, buy a lottery ticket.

Strongopiniononaboutprettymucheverything · 25/09/2026 19:17

I bet you’d feel the same tbh 🤔

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 19:14

AutumnLoverButNotYet · 25/09/2026 18:09

I wonder what finally gave them the impetus to sack them?

If you find out, do let us know!!

Enjoy your weekend knowing you don't have to put up with them again!

Sometimes HR and management are quietly building a file in the background, especially as these people usually have form in the past and may well be targeting others at present too but it’s not obvious until those co-workers tell you. Mine has been targeting my coworker too, and I had no idea until they told me. You don’t know who might have reported it and it was enough for the company to do something. It’s actually rather beautiful! You and OP have a great weekend too! Yes I bet Monday will hit differently @iwonderwhyitearmyself 😁

NovemberMorn · 25/09/2026 19:09

YANBU....just human.😎

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 19:07

DoloresDelEriba · 25/09/2026 19:06

Delighted for you. Normally ‘that’ person seems to be Teflon coated. Yay! They’ve gone!

Sadly very true!

Applesonthelawn · 25/09/2026 19:07

Just be glad that the process for sacking someone who is bad at their job and a bad colleague actually works. In many places it doesn't.

Assuming of course he was fairly sacked?

As far as personal satisfaction is concerned, obviously yes we'd all feel it but you can't admit stuff like that in real life.

DoloresDelEriba · 25/09/2026 19:06

Delighted for you. Normally ‘that’ person seems to be Teflon coated. Yay! They’ve gone!

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 19:04

iwonderwhyitearmyself · 25/09/2026 17:25

They were rude, nasty, disrespectful and never really did the work they were meant to do. They’ve been sacked with immediate effect and I’ll never see them again.

AIBU to secretly be glad that the arrogant knob has finally faced some consequences for their actions?!

Haha YANBU, OP I only wish I too had the pleasure re a certain person that springs to mind 😡🤣 I’m leaving it to Jesus.
While we mustn’t wish ill, OP, you’re allowed to enjoy the relief!

UnaPersson · 25/09/2026 18:52

If anyone is on LinkedIn, it's sometimes worth connecting with the most difficult colleagues so that you know they won't be at your nice, new job. Imagine them walking past your desk on your first day. 😱

(I was a contractor in an industry with a few big companies, so the chances of this happening were fairly high, lol.).

HoraceCope · 25/09/2026 18:42

be careful,
he has left a vacancy for the bitching

Theyreeatingthedogs · 25/09/2026 18:39

Blimms · 25/09/2026 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

Trying for a sainthood are we?

Bellamoomin · 25/09/2026 18:38

I was in a similar position. Absolute bitch of a woman she was. Despised her and she ended up leaving under a bit of a cloud.

Then a few years ago I decided to change jobs and now work in a school, in the meantime, she’s gone on to have a child and the bloody child comes to the same school. FML.

If I’m ever allocated to that class, I will refuse because I want nothing to do with her or her kid.

glendabrownlow · 25/09/2026 18:31

I once worked with a truly nasty piece of work, he was a bully and very lazy. He also took a load of sick days and seemed to get away with anything. He was a malignant force in the office and despised by all. Somehow he avoided getting the sack time and time again. I heard recently that he had died.....

Fencegate · 25/09/2026 18:30

LOL I’ve worked with someone like this.

He was slightly senior to me - I discovered all his ‘work trips’ were false. He was actually going away for a week at a time - nice posh spa hotels. He wasn’t meeting with clients and we discovered he was taking his soon to be wife with him - wouldn’t have been an issue taking her had he actually been meeting with clients as he should have done

Work put me out to investigate and they sacked him with immediate effect.

Complete and utter tosser. Arrogant. Also a proper Walter Mitty - claimed to have done/had better qualifications than he actually had.

BunnyLake · 25/09/2026 18:29

Blimms · 25/09/2026 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

Surely you’re allowed to think inside your head whatever you want. She’s not, I assume, shouting her joy from the office rooftop.

Megifer · 25/09/2026 18:22

Only thing better than that feeling is having the privilege of being the one to do the sacking.

Congratulations! 😂

SandyHappyPerson · 25/09/2026 18:21

Blimms · 25/09/2026 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

She only secretly thought it.

She didn't hold up a banner saying SERVES YOU RIGHT YOU TOSSER!! as they left.

Pipsquiggle · 25/09/2026 18:17

@iwonderwhyitearmyself I would absolutely be, inwardly, very pleased and happy that this happened.

Being sacked from a company happens so rarely so they must have done something pretty bad.

I wish there were more mechanisms that existed to get rid of genuinely toxic people/ managers / directors. I mean the ones that cause half their team to go off with stress, the ones where a high % of workers resign due to their manager, where they consistently score poorly on company feedback questionnaire.....

@Askandyforcompo out of interest how long was your colleague working there and how long do you think it took the senior managers to get rid of them?