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To be secretly happy my least favourite colleague has been sacked?

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iwonderwhyitearmyself · 25/09/2026 17:25

They were rude, nasty, disrespectful and never really did the work they were meant to do. They’ve been sacked with immediate effect and I’ll never see them again.

AIBU to secretly be glad that the arrogant knob has finally faced some consequences for their actions?!

OP posts:
WhateverMate · Yesterday 00:36

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 22:12

Why, I don’t think she’s outed him.

Lol, what does ‘outing’ him have to do with being a bit OTT to tell the internet about it?

KilkennyCats · 25/09/2026 23:28

seahorsessky · 25/09/2026 22:44

It would be nice if you cared about how this might affect their family, or considered there might well be reasons why they weren't as good/able to be as nice as other colleagues.

Do you always do that? Compassionately consider whether there might be good reasons for it if someone acts like an arsehole to you? Reasons why they aren’t able to be nice?

EverMerge · 25/09/2026 23:26

Taytosambo · 25/09/2026 23:09

😁Showing your age there.

My 80 year old mum also uses the laughing emoji.

sherbetlemonade · 25/09/2026 23:16

seahorsessky · 25/09/2026 22:44

It would be nice if you cared about how this might affect their family, or considered there might well be reasons why they weren't as good/able to be as nice as other colleagues.

Why should the OP care about the family of this unpleasant person?

There is no acceptable reason for anyone to be a rude, nasty, disrespectful, arrogant twat at work.

Taytosambo · 25/09/2026 23:09

EverMerge · 25/09/2026 22:25

Put your emoji button away. Then I’ll take your point a bit more seriously. At the minute I feel like I’m messaging my 16 year old dd.

😁Showing your age there.

Thewonderfuldollypartonsbra · 25/09/2026 22:52

I'm over the moon two of my colleagues have been given the boot (food retail)

Sisters,(one the main manager and the other a manager) who would cover each other's backs if one made a mistake (and they made some serious ones,like a customer told them they where allergic to eggs so they 'accidentally' put eggs in their food and then laughed about it,while blaming someone who wasnt even in that day or shouting and swearing at staff within earshot of customers) and if anyone tried to say anything,they'd gang together and get rid of that person over the most minor thing (loads of my colleagues left because of them)

They couldn't speak normally,they screamed at everyone-you could hear them outside

Lazy was an understatement-and they blame everyone else for the not doing their work

They also hated me and wanted me out

As it was,back in may I pulled a nerve in my leg and was off work for almost 6 weeks,i was that bad,I couldn't walk for weeks

I came back before I should have done (I cannot live on sick pay) and handed in a doctor's note with a small list of tasks I couldn't do (things like 'can't carry heavy objects' or 'cannot climb stairs')

I handed the note to main manager (id printed it out like she demanded),who ripped it up and her exact words where 'i don't give a fuck about your note,you'll do as I tell you' and promptly sent me upstairs to lift heavy things

She refused to listen and both sisters screamed in my face when I refused

I ended up speaking to their boss who gave them a bollocking,so my card was marked but I didn't give a fuck and they knew it

Last week both where sacked as the main top bosses had such an avalanche of complaints from staff and customers alike about the pair of them,they couldn't ignore it any longer

A friend saw them in the jobcentre yesterday,screaming at the poor sod who was trying to help them

Cant say I feel too sorry for them

iwonderwhyitearmyself · 25/09/2026 22:50

Bearnecessity · 25/09/2026 22:20

How do you know they were sacked, maybe they just walked. Not doing what you thought they should be doing…you might be wrong. Are these just malign rumours from management who have messed up and wish to portray this narrative and poisonous staff in the middle of a feeding frenzy. Rarely do you get the real facts but you’re clearly very happy with the facts presented to you. Did you play a part in this person’s perceived downfall?

No, I have no influence on these decisions at all. I knew they weren’t doing what they were told to as I had to pick up the pieces!

OP posts:
iwonderwhyitearmyself · 25/09/2026 22:49

seahorsessky · 25/09/2026 22:44

It would be nice if you cared about how this might affect their family, or considered there might well be reasons why they weren't as good/able to be as nice as other colleagues.

No family, the reason they were sacked is because they’re an arrogant twat, to be honest! They treated everyone like crap

OP posts:
BettyBoh · 25/09/2026 22:46

If they’re anything like the worst colleagues I’ve had then go for it and enjoy it. I have worked with some truly awful peopke who’d trample over their best mate to get a promotion or recognition.

seahorsessky · 25/09/2026 22:44

It would be nice if you cared about how this might affect their family, or considered there might well be reasons why they weren't as good/able to be as nice as other colleagues.

Mere1 · 25/09/2026 22:42

Blimms · 25/09/2026 17:27

It’s pretty spiteful tbh. Hold yourself to higher standards.

😂

EverMerge · 25/09/2026 22:25

Taytosambo · 25/09/2026 22:20

It's a discussion forum. "Hit a nerve with you" 😂more utter nonsense. So you identify with people like this? Very telling.

They were rude, nasty, disrespectful and never really did the work

Put your emoji button away. Then I’ll take your point a bit more seriously. At the minute I feel like I’m messaging my 16 year old dd.

KilkennyCats · 25/09/2026 22:23

Taytosambo · 25/09/2026 22:20

It's a discussion forum. "Hit a nerve with you" 😂more utter nonsense. So you identify with people like this? Very telling.

They were rude, nasty, disrespectful and never really did the work

It’s quite eye opening what attributes some people will insist are simply “confidence”.

Taytosambo · 25/09/2026 22:20

EverMerge · 25/09/2026 21:40

You reacted though! I don’t even bother with replying if I think it’s pathetic. I think instead I hit a nerve with you.

Some people can handle confident people. Some are intimidated.

It's a discussion forum. "Hit a nerve with you" 😂more utter nonsense. So you identify with people like this? Very telling.

They were rude, nasty, disrespectful and never really did the work

Bearnecessity · 25/09/2026 22:20

How do you know they were sacked, maybe they just walked. Not doing what you thought they should be doing…you might be wrong. Are these just malign rumours from management who have messed up and wish to portray this narrative and poisonous staff in the middle of a feeding frenzy. Rarely do you get the real facts but you’re clearly very happy with the facts presented to you. Did you play a part in this person’s perceived downfall?

Natsku · 25/09/2026 22:19

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 19:14

Sometimes HR and management are quietly building a file in the background, especially as these people usually have form in the past and may well be targeting others at present too but it’s not obvious until those co-workers tell you. Mine has been targeting my coworker too, and I had no idea until they told me. You don’t know who might have reported it and it was enough for the company to do something. It’s actually rather beautiful! You and OP have a great weekend too! Yes I bet Monday will hit differently @iwonderwhyitearmyself 😁

Edited

I wonder if that was what happened with the guy in my workplace, because it seemed to happen ridiculously fast so if they were already making plans to get rid that would make more sense. Because as it happened, we complained on a Thursday, management investigated on the Friday, and on the Monday there was a company-wide meeting where it was announced that he was gone!

MurphysColeslaw · 25/09/2026 22:12

WhateverMate · 25/09/2026 17:35

Not unreasonable to be secretly happy.

Starting a thread on a public chat forum is a bit OTT though.

Why, I don’t think she’s outed him.

NigellaAwesome · 25/09/2026 22:12

Enjoy the feeling of relief and schadenfreude. Sadly it probably won’t last because ineffectual management structures will just allow another one to take his place.

To the pp who heard that a previously toxic colleague had died, I heard that a nasty piece of work I had worked years with before fell overboard a yacht and drowned. I felt nothing but grim satisfaction.

Mummyduckplusduckling · 25/09/2026 22:03

MyLimeGuide · 25/09/2026 17:38

So if you felt murderous by your definition you would be unreasonable?

Read it slowly then think about what the actual words say.

zanahoria · 25/09/2026 21:58

It is unreasonable to keep it a secret!

Wowwee1234 · 25/09/2026 21:55

I have a terrible colleague. Literally everyone finds them difficult and doesn't understand how they are still employed with us. I complained about some sexism from the colleague to one of my team and have been told it won't go anywhere as the difficult person is making plans to leave. I'm frankly delighted, can't wait. But I also can't tell anyone and gabe a party as it isn't public knowledge yet.

TheLette · 25/09/2026 21:49

This happened with one of my clients although part of a general redundancy program. I like to think karma had a role to play. As my client I couldn't avoid him and had to deal with him multiple times a week. He actively delighted in causing people stress, regularly bitched to me about his colleagues and other service providers he used, and also regularly complained about me to my boss (typically about stuff I had pointed out in previous emails and his complaints were then "why didn't she tell me this?"). Nightmare of a person. I was ecstatic when he was fired, and if that makes me a bad person so be it! My working life is infinitely less stressful now and his replacement is super nice.

EverMerge · 25/09/2026 21:40

Taytosambo · 25/09/2026 21:33

Oh stop it! 😂What a pathetic attempt to try and stick the boot into an OP. Complete fail.

You reacted though! I don’t even bother with replying if I think it’s pathetic. I think instead I hit a nerve with you.

Some people can handle confident people. Some are intimidated.

Taytosambo · 25/09/2026 21:33

EverMerge · 25/09/2026 21:15

The op could be the bully. Are your other colleagues happy or is it just you? You’ve just commented they are a confident person who didn’t care what people thought about them. They sound great to me.

Oh stop it! 😂What a pathetic attempt to try and stick the boot into an OP. Complete fail.

daisychain01 · 25/09/2026 21:29

MyLimeGuide · 25/09/2026 17:38

So if you felt murderous by your definition you would be unreasonable?

The OP probably did feel murderous by the sound of the former colleague 😂

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