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Living next to asylum seeker HMO, ask me anything

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JapanesePotWeed · 24/09/2026 20:28

As the title says. I live in a Victorian mid-terrace, wall-to-wall, garden-to-garden with an asylum seeker dispersal HMO. They were moved in nearly two years ago, replacing a multi-generation family that were living there before.
There is another HMO directly opposite my house, where asylum seekers get rooms once they are approved to remain but don't have an income to support themselves.

Not AIBU but more like AMA. I'm wondering what people would ask me if they really could ask anything. Does anyone actually want to know what it is like? I hear a lot of political point scoring in the media regarding this topic but no one actually talks to people like me!

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Dragonscaledaisy · 25/09/2026 08:48

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 08:21

It seems impossible to debunk this myth that asylum seekers get benefits. I've pointed it out on many threads and so have several others. People seem not to want to believe it, or they prefer to perpetuate the misinformation.

There's a lot of confusion about the different stages in the process and who is entitled to what before and after a decision is made. A simple flow chart on the government website would help.

Achdinnae · 25/09/2026 08:44

How was an HMO licence granted in absence of firewalls in loft? I would contact council about this along with advice there are now five or six residents. Higher occupancy can effect what conditions the council imposes. Councils can make good money out of licencing and penalties,so they may be interested in pursuing.

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 08:44

JapanesePotWeed · 25/09/2026 00:11

They mostly complain about England to be fair! 😅 I don't blame them though, this street is a hell hole. Prostitutes on hard drugs proposition to them and they tell me how awful that is!

Usually they have quite nice things to say about their countries. About food and their mums. No one has ever mentioned war. One told me that his mum is from Syria, dad is Kurdish and that they are still in Kurdistan. But there are no jobs and he can't have a family with no job. I never pry into the asylum part and I think that is why they trust me. I pretend it doesn't exist.

I have a Kurdish friend who came here as an asylum seeker. She'd not long got refugee status when I met her.

The Kurds are a persecuted minority in her country of origin and she was imprisoned and tortured for speaking out and writing articles exposing the way they are treated. She's now running the education programme for a local museum and historical site.

Namechangerage · 25/09/2026 08:42

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 08:35

Much tighter rules on shared housing would be of some benefit, having had a really awful experience with a local house, let to the staff of a very upmarket hotel, as staff accommodation.
Despite covenants being that only one family can occupy the house, the legal steps I would have had to take would have been at my expense.

The house, in a tiny courtyard development, had parking for one car, yet 4 adults, all with cars, plus their guests, even blocking in an ambulance.

Limited access to our own parking and access It was awful and the very smart, very middle class, articulate tenants, really obnoxious, a female staff member accusing a male neighbour of ‘being aggressive’ and making us all aware that ‘my father is a police officer’. Hotel management not interested at all, hotel HR protecting their staff. No way of sorting it out.

However, the other side of this is where would young people live to work locally. Young people often have to rent rooms in HMO’s as the cost of housing outweighs their earnings.

Will you campaign for change @JapanesePotWeed? Where would you start with this? How would you make sure young people have a home?

There are two types of HMOs - you can just tell which are the ones let to young professionals and which are let to the council. I would not have an issue living next to the ones full of young professionals.

I also think the thread is derailed somewhat by OP mentioning asylum seekers. In my road the issue is the HMOs being a council run one. There are also people born in Britain living in them who are far worse behaved - NEETs dealing drugs, or high on drugs, etc. the issue is the HMOs being packed into tiny terraced streets and no care for people who live there already.

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 08:35

JapanesePotWeed · 25/09/2026 01:15

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Politics...Not really. More so I've developed distrust and acute dislike towards authorities. I want to ignore the lot of them and campaign for much tighter oversight of the shared housing market, larger and regularly imposed fines for bad landlords who run houses in poor condition, more police presence on streets like mine... But I also think it's too late and no one will be able to fix this mess. There is a certain tipping point when the number of HMOs and the decline in building conditions makes recovery impossible. Like the clearance of slums in the 20th Century. We are heading that way. Many inner-city terraced streets won't come back from this. I'm sad, it used to be beautiful here 😢

Much tighter rules on shared housing would be of some benefit, having had a really awful experience with a local house, let to the staff of a very upmarket hotel, as staff accommodation.
Despite covenants being that only one family can occupy the house, the legal steps I would have had to take would have been at my expense.

The house, in a tiny courtyard development, had parking for one car, yet 4 adults, all with cars, plus their guests, even blocking in an ambulance.

Limited access to our own parking and access It was awful and the very smart, very middle class, articulate tenants, really obnoxious, a female staff member accusing a male neighbour of ‘being aggressive’ and making us all aware that ‘my father is a police officer’. Hotel management not interested at all, hotel HR protecting their staff. No way of sorting it out.

However, the other side of this is where would young people live to work locally. Young people often have to rent rooms in HMO’s as the cost of housing outweighs their earnings.

Will you campaign for change @JapanesePotWeed? Where would you start with this? How would you make sure young people have a home?

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 08:28

Maomee · 25/09/2026 00:04

Asylum seekers can claim benefits in the form of universal credit. There are certain routes where public funds shouldn't be allowed this is often ignored, and the whole immigration system is so messy that the majority of migrants-whether seeking asylum or not- end up being supported with UC because the UK is a very expensive country to live in and these people almost always do not have the resources to fund themselves.

They absolutely cannot claim UC. They have "no recourse to public funds" until and unless they are granted refugee status.

This was the same for all means-tested benefits and PIP during the entire 25 years I was a welfare rights adviser, which ended less than a year ago.

I suggest you pop into your local library, where you should find they have a copy of the CPAG Welfare Benefits Handbook. It sets out all the criteria re benefits for people coming to the UK from abroad, and you'll be able to check for yourself.

UnwillingAdvocate · 25/09/2026 08:22

Apparently someone was offended at my factual post and got it removed. It is a fact these asylum houses are always only men. Never women and children. It’s also a fact that adult men absolutely have posed as children and have even been filmed by school children sitting in their maths classes at secondary schools pretending to be 15 before.

pastadish · 25/09/2026 08:21

JapanesePotWeed · 24/09/2026 21:13

Yes, I don't think a woman living alone is a suitable neighbour to all male asylum seekers, particularly when we didn't have full height fences between properties (I had to build a fence), our lofts have no party wall and are mutually accessible and we have shared land in the form of that access alley. But hey, no one asked me or even considered the things I mentioned.

This is a huge fire risk. I am sure the hmo owner needs to do fire stopping compartmentation in the loft, they would have done a fire risk assessment and the assessor should have looked into the loft

You should contact the hmo licensing authority, probably your council, and tell them about this.

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 08:21

poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 00:01

Asylum seekers cannot claim benefits. Those in an HMO have housing expenses covered and receive a weekly welfare payment of £49.19. That is to cover all of their other expenses.

You can see why they pick up the illegal Deliveroo work.

It seems impossible to debunk this myth that asylum seekers get benefits. I've pointed it out on many threads and so have several others. People seem not to want to believe it, or they prefer to perpetuate the misinformation.

Summerlovingtheraspberries · 25/09/2026 08:16

Interesting to hear how other countries deal with this.
In particular the USA where border controls are very tight, every time I have been they are.
Do they put these men straight back on a plane?
Do asylum seekers just know not to bother trying to gain entry?

DownToTheGround · 25/09/2026 08:13

JapanesePotWeed · 24/09/2026 23:48

This on repeat: go to a country - claim asylum - work illegally cash in pocket - stay as long as the asylum process lasts and the government covers all living costs - leave when full financial support stops, whether the asylum is granted or not.
There's usually 12-18 months max before fully supported living stops. If asylum is granted, they are expected to look for work, house themselves and must start paying bills. At that point some leave, some stay and work, some present to the council as homeless and destitute and live on benefits (the men in the HMO opposite my house).

Imagine an 18 month long "working holiday" during which you didn't have to pay for accommodation, phone, internet, utilities, no council tax payments, no tax on illegal working, plus £200 a month pocket money. They must make a sizeable amount of cash!! Not all of them work. But more than half have something going on the side.

Goodness, you know your HMO neighbours well, you must talk to them loads and have fantastic relationships in place, to be sharing so much information.

I don’t know that much about my neighbours of 25 years.

Fast800goingforit · 25/09/2026 08:11

JapanesePotWeed · 24/09/2026 21:13

Yes, I don't think a woman living alone is a suitable neighbour to all male asylum seekers, particularly when we didn't have full height fences between properties (I had to build a fence), our lofts have no party wall and are mutually accessible and we have shared land in the form of that access alley. But hey, no one asked me or even considered the things I mentioned.

Do you own or rent? Having no party wall in the loft space is a fire risk (is the place insured?) and means anyone with access to loft can get into your house. I would not feel safe with that set up whoever was living next door.

Lacksie · 25/09/2026 08:09

Rightsraptor · 24/09/2026 22:11

Is there a lock or bolt or similar on your loft access so it couldn't be opened from the attic? That's the stuff of nightmares.

It's outrageous that we are in this position and I'll never forgive the politicians who approved this.

I'm not one for having food delivered anyway but the more people who use these things, the more it encourages more of these men to come.

What position. And approved what??

Maomee · 25/09/2026 08:08

poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 00:15

Asylum seekers cannot claim UC. They live on a pittance: a welfare payment of less than £50 per week if responsible for feeding themselves, or a payment of less than £10 (that is not a typo) per week if the accommodation provided board.

Refugees, like other UK passport holders, can. One does not become a refugee until
one’s claim of asylum is granted. Only a minority of claims are successful.

OK, I'd better tell some of the asylum seekers I work with to cancel their active UC claims. Will let them know today 😂

Seriously though, there's a difference between something being policy and whether it actually happens or not. The benefits system in all it's forms is open to compromise and abuse.

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 08:07

JapanesePotWeed · 24/09/2026 22:31

Would have been the perfect house for women but...

Most stay close to a year. Some probably fall foul of some regulations and disappear sooner. Or do a runner.
I found a Home Office letter in my front garden recently. It contained a court decision to deport based on REPEAT history of offending. There were two cases associated with an individual : drug dealing/possession and fly-tipping. The letter went on about how criminal behaviour is not compatible with being "of good character". As such, a decision has been made to deport.
ALTERNATIVELY, the person could leave the country willingly and they will be given £2000 and a seat on a flight to do so...

Who knew!⬆️ We pay 2k to convicted criminals to leave willingly. What a strange country this is!

It costs around £1k pw to keep someone in prison, so £2k to fuck off is probably a lot more economical.

Maomee · 25/09/2026 08:01

samthepigeon · 25/09/2026 04:17

Can they really claim UC? I am surprised but happy to be proved wrong.

Yes absolutely. I work with migrants of all kinds so can confirm first hand that there are cases where both people waiting to be accepted as asylum seekers and those whose claims have been processed receive UC. I think it's simply the case that as it's the benefit that most access then the extra few who don't have means of support but aren't entitled to it van also claim because the local councils don't want to develop long term homeless populations. So this is why we often see the tents spring up, people will arrive in the UK by any route, pose as homeless and be fast tracked into housing and a UC income. It may not align with policy but it is definitely what we see regularly.

Jonesmaximus · 25/09/2026 07:56

Lifelover16 · 25/09/2026 07:49

If it’s such a difficult life why are they here? Especially from countries where there are no wars?

Have you ever gone onto the Living Overseas board? Lots of migrants don't particularly like their host country, some even hate it, and despite even owning a home in the UK and having close family they don't come back. There are lots of reasons for this.

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 07:56

Anendlessseriesofunfortunateevents · 24/09/2026 21:28

The not blocked off attic space is something I've never considered as a women that's lived as a single mum most of my adult life.

Why haven't I thought of that before from a security point of view?! 😱

I had no idea it was even a thing. Every house I've ever lived in has had walls that go right up to the roof!

The thought that someone could get into the loft next door and come down into my house is really quite perturbing, I would hate it. I'd have to put a lock of some sort on the access to the loft, I think.

Lifelover16 · 25/09/2026 07:49

poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 00:15

Asylum seekers cannot claim UC. They live on a pittance: a welfare payment of less than £50 per week if responsible for feeding themselves, or a payment of less than £10 (that is not a typo) per week if the accommodation provided board.

Refugees, like other UK passport holders, can. One does not become a refugee until
one’s claim of asylum is granted. Only a minority of claims are successful.

If it’s such a difficult life why are they here? Especially from countries where there are no wars?

Jonesmaximus · 25/09/2026 07:44

My sister is in the same position. She lives in a terrace fairly near a city centre, 20 years ago it was mostly residential but it's now fairly commercial. In recent years there has been a lot of HMO applications and a lot of the houses have been turned into emergency hostel accommodation, which has brought a lot of drugs and antisocial behaviour into the area. Opposite her there is a chain hotel that was turned into asylum seeker accommodation for men, mostly from Somalia and neighbouring countries. Two years ago a group of the men rented the house beside her and converted it into a small teashop/takeaway. It seems to be exclusively for men, very rarely do you see a woman sitting there (they have seating outside).
Everyone is horrified when they find out but my sister (who has 2 young adult daughters) loves it, she says it's like having a private security company for free. The people from the hostel down a bit (all local people) don't loiter anymore, previously they would drink in the street which caused fighting and brought trouble. They help her if she has car trouble, are polite and respectful and she doesn't worry about burglary if she's away, which had been a previous problem. She also feels her daughters are safe when they are alone at night as the cafe is open to all hours. Her only complaint is that they talk at high volumes, the walls upstairs are quite thin so she can always heat them, but feels that's a small price to pay.
In the last year there has been an increase in 'citizen journalist' type of people who will come outside and film the men, shouting things at them, accusing them of stuff and then uploading it onto social media. This then brings other 'protect are women [sic]' locals in who want to stir up trouble which is a shame.

Bringemout · 25/09/2026 07:44

SaySomethingMan · 25/09/2026 07:28

They would probably come back on another boat.It probably costs some people somewhere near that amount to get here from their home countries

Possibly but if you can return to country it would take the pressure off a lot of systems, fairly sure you would get a big exodus.

There was that whistleblower who said only 1% of asylum claims were basically valid but there was pressure to just validate claims.

Rawanda would have been a good option, if you are just going to get put in a third county it would massively reduce incentives for economic migrants.

Onlyyoucanknow · 25/09/2026 07:41

SaySomethingMan · 25/09/2026 07:24

Living n a house either 5 or 6 other strangers in houses mostly in poor condition, away from friends and family.

The heart bleeds. Meanwhile many people here waiting years with small children living in cramped, awful conditions waiting to be housed. Wouldn't mind but many of the asylum seekers aren't genuine, throwing their passports in the sea. (Ooh I wonder why that is??!!-maybe because many have criminal convictions) Men who have left women and children behind. Men that have been known to assault women here.
Why, when we're a country in dire straits are we allowing these people in when other countries aren't and are looking after their own? Hmmmmm.......

noodlebugz · 25/09/2026 07:40

I’ve just looked up the fire risk because of the loft situation.
It LOOKS like the council could have their HMO licence for it unless it’s rectified?
HMOs are obviously a much greater fire risk than normal houses and the fire could travel much more easily.
Obviously in practice it’s much trickier especially if Mears / landlord are interested in doing as little as possible but worth looking into.
Dealing with any bellend landlords whomever the tenants are is always a nightmare! Often more than the tenants.

Living next to asylum seeker HMO, ask me anything
poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 07:37

Onlyyoucanknow · 25/09/2026 07:19

Yeah poor them. Having their housing paid for. So not paying tax either. Then helping to block up our doctors surgeries, hospitals, dentists as well.

There are currently fewer than 90,000 asylum seekers on the UK with its population of
69,600,000. In a group of 1000 people who live in the UK, only 12 would be asylum seekers.

Asylum seekers are too concentrated in a few places. That’s wrong, and Burnham is the first PM from either party to attempt to disperse them properly. We shall see. Possibly in these places they do challege public services. Hopefully that will ease.

But 12 people in 1000 is not enough overall to clog up the services you mentioned.

Are you confusing asylum seekers and refugees? The total is still well under 1% of the population. The NHS is badly overstretched, but these numbers do not explain it.

Dragonscaledaisy · 25/09/2026 07:35

poetryandwine · 25/09/2026 07:19

But the success rate is also falling all the time, and even successful claims will no longer come with permanent settlement.

Those are Labour results, too. Does the literature discuss them?

I'm not sure what you mean by 'success rate'. It sounds as though you haven't actually read the report before commenting.

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