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That it's a massive waste of time, effort, money, lives and we should just bring them over by coach and ferry.

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Ablondiebutagoody · 24/09/2026 16:03

I have just watched the video from earlier today/yesterday of a migrant boat departing Boulogne. The one where the Dad (presumably) ditches his toddler in the sea in order to get onto the boat. The kid was instantly picked up by French emergency workers and it struck me that this whole situation is completely bizarre.

There were approximately half a dozen lifeguards around the boat on jet skis and paddle boards, probably also a load of police out of frame. The boat will then be shadowed by French coastguard vessels until halfway across the channel, at which point border force/RNLI will pick them up and bring them to the UK. They will then be greated by coaches, a couple of hundred riot police and some (redacted by MNHQ) before continuing to their destination.

AIBU to think that this is all a total farce and we should simply provide the coaches from the outset?

YABU - The current arrangement is best.

YANBU - Coach and ferry would be better for everyone.

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Ablondiebutagoody · 24/09/2026 16:25

Rumbleafteryog · 24/09/2026 16:14

What’s the relevance of the dad and toddler?

The speed of reaction of the French emergency services was impressive, but highlighted the resources that the UK and France are throwing at escorting these boats across the channel. It's crazy.

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Rumbleafteryog · 24/09/2026 16:14

What’s the relevance of the dad and toddler?

Rumbleafteryog · 24/09/2026 16:14

Ablondiebutagoody · 24/09/2026 16:09

As per Gosport in Hampshire a couple of days ago

Don’t ever listen to the news and so so much happier for it

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 24/09/2026 16:14

Ablondiebutagoody · 24/09/2026 16:03

I have just watched the video from earlier today/yesterday of a migrant boat departing Boulogne. The one where the Dad (presumably) ditches his toddler in the sea in order to get onto the boat. The kid was instantly picked up by French emergency workers and it struck me that this whole situation is completely bizarre.

There were approximately half a dozen lifeguards around the boat on jet skis and paddle boards, probably also a load of police out of frame. The boat will then be shadowed by French coastguard vessels until halfway across the channel, at which point border force/RNLI will pick them up and bring them to the UK. They will then be greated by coaches, a couple of hundred riot police and some (redacted by MNHQ) before continuing to their destination.

AIBU to think that this is all a total farce and we should simply provide the coaches from the outset?

YABU - The current arrangement is best.

YANBU - Coach and ferry would be better for everyone.

And stop at what point of people?

Ablondiebutagoody · 24/09/2026 16:09

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As per Gosport in Hampshire a couple of days ago

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 24/09/2026 16:08

Well that depends if it reduces the numbers. Maybe if we did run a safe coach a day, people would queue? And go elsewhere if the queue was too long?

What happened to the toddler and Dad, are they now separated?

Rumbleafteryog · 24/09/2026 16:06

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