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I spend more time getting trying to put my clothes on after swimming than the actual swimming....

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likelysuspect · 23/09/2026 20:39

No matter how hard I try, I am clammy after swimming (this is the sea but its the same at a pool), trying to put even the most baggy items on, everything gets stuck, toes, heels, knees, hands, elbows. Ugh

Pees me off.

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likelysuspect · 24/09/2026 20:43

SeptemberSunshineWins · 24/09/2026 14:15

Therein lies a problem then - a wet bra with dry clothing over the top.

Well to be fair, the bra isnt the problem with my trousers or wrists!! The wet bra doesnt seem to make that much difference to the difficulties

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Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 24/09/2026 20:42

mumumental · 24/09/2026 14:58

Fgs baby powder is a terrible product, and also carcinogenic.

Oh come on, you could have at least read the thread before embarrassing yourself like that.

Happytaytos · 24/09/2026 18:58

You're wearing a wet bra and wondering why you can't dress properly?! What?!

mumumental · 24/09/2026 14:58

Fgs baby powder is a terrible product, and also carcinogenic.

MyDogHumpsThings · 24/09/2026 14:19

ShakyBake · 23/09/2026 20:48

Oh I know op and also, does you pool have one of those spinning things to dry your swimsuit?

Because a couple of years ago I got into quite a routine of daily pool swimming. One time my swimsuit was slightly damp from the day before so I put it in the spinner before swimming and it somehow ripped chunks out and I didn't notice when I put it on and did an hour swimming on my back and when I looked in the mirror after both my boobs were hanging out and I never went back

Oh my god! 🤣 you poor thing!

SeptemberSunshineWins · 24/09/2026 14:15

likelysuspect · 24/09/2026 08:09

I actually wear a bra under my wetsuit and it doesnt come off, so I do still have the wet bra on, once Ive changed!!!

Therein lies a problem then - a wet bra with dry clothing over the top.

redskyAtNigh · 24/09/2026 09:14

bidibidi · 24/09/2026 08:04

Do you All have the same problem after taking a shower? Why not? What could be different about getting dressed after a shower at home compared to after a swim.

I don't have this problem, even if I'm soaking wet when getting dressed again after the swim (nice to not dry off if boiling hot outside anyway). Doesn't take me longer to get dressed than any other time.

I think because at home I tend to dry off by degrees over a longer period of time and often start by just putting on a dressing gown or staying naked while I brush my teeth, sort my hair etc.
Whereas in the swimming pool, I just want to get out asap so I am reliant on less effective quick towel drying. Plus the changing room is communal and I'm not that body confident so trying to awkwardly change under the same towel that's now damp as used to dry me.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 24/09/2026 09:13

Buy a towel dressing gown and dive home it that?

Octavia64 · 24/09/2026 08:55

I do actually have the same problem after a bath or shower.

which O solve by lying on a towel for half an hour doing Duolingo and my email

DeftGoldHedgehog · 24/09/2026 08:51

Yeah I've stopped trying to put my bra on after swimming. I just chuck on a loose jumper and tracky bottoms then jump in the shower at home.

Berengariaoftheverylowcountries · 24/09/2026 08:14

I just leave my bra off, support the ample bosom by carrying my bag close to me as if I can’t be bothered to have it dangle and head for the car to drive the five minutes home. Hoping I don’t have an accident sans brassiere

likelysuspect · 24/09/2026 08:12

bidibidi · 24/09/2026 08:04

Do you All have the same problem after taking a shower? Why not? What could be different about getting dressed after a shower at home compared to after a swim.

I don't have this problem, even if I'm soaking wet when getting dressed again after the swim (nice to not dry off if boiling hot outside anyway). Doesn't take me longer to get dressed than any other time.

I dont have the same problem after a shower or bath.

I can only think that salt is very sticky, coming out the sea, I feel sticky, I have no idea why.

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Autumnallaround · 24/09/2026 08:11

Haven't read the full thread sorry!

But I use two towels. One for an initial full body dry, which then becomes my hair turban.

Then a second towel for another full body rub. This gets rid of the clammy feeling in swimming pool changing rooms. Not sure if this would work for the beach?

likelysuspect · 24/09/2026 08:09

clary · 23/09/2026 23:13

All you no-bra-ers Shock errrr no way! Actually putting on my bra is the worst bit and sometimes I do have to do it backwards and spin it (which I never do as a rule).

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I actually wear a bra under my wetsuit and it doesnt come off, so I do still have the wet bra on, once Ive changed!!!

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bidibidi · 24/09/2026 08:04

Do you All have the same problem after taking a shower? Why not? What could be different about getting dressed after a shower at home compared to after a swim.

I don't have this problem, even if I'm soaking wet when getting dressed again after the swim (nice to not dry off if boiling hot outside anyway). Doesn't take me longer to get dressed than any other time.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 24/09/2026 07:59

I do an open water swim every week, about 40 minutes. Driving there and back, getting changed and showered takes more than 40 minutes. Also wrestling with my wetsuit counts as exercise also 😅

girlwhowearsglasses · 24/09/2026 07:51

ThisHappyPlayer · 23/09/2026 20:50

I was under the impression that talc carries a cancer risk (sorry for the glum contribution).

It used to be talcum - which is a mineral, now it’s corn starch.

The cancer thing was because when they mined it they didn’t always ensure there was no asbestos in it - as that is often found in the same places.

In the 1950s - 80s there was an idea that babies needed to have talc on their bums and genitals to dry them and ward off nappy rash. It’s now known that women who had talc used like this as babies have been studied and talc has been found in womb and reproductive organs- and cancer is increased in these women.

My babies are 18 now and we never used baby powder like that thank god.

Now they’ve eliminated actual talc for the above reason, but it doesn’t behave in quite the same way, and can be a bit claggy.

Bikergran · 24/09/2026 07:41

whatsnewbuttercup · 23/09/2026 20:42

Yes, why is it not like this after we’ve dried ourselves following a bath or shower at home?

Because the air in a pool is very warm and moist, so it's much more difficult to get and stay dry.

redskyAtNigh · 24/09/2026 07:37

Glad it's not just me. I love swimmming but honestly the getting dressed afterwards makes me go less than I otherwise would. I do adopt the joggers and baggy hoodie approach, but it means I can only swim if I'm going home straight afterwards whereas being able to swim before work or at lunchtime would fit into my routine so much better.

In my case it doesn't help that I have to change in a communal changing room and aren't quite unselfconscious enough to not do the changing under towel thing.

clary · 24/09/2026 07:30

Happytaytos · 24/09/2026 07:27

I swim in the evening mostly.

If I morning swim it's at the weekend and I come home and shower then put a bra on.

Deffo more comfy to have an evening swim! My pool has started offering laned sessions from 7.45pm to 9pm :) planning to go tonight.

(Will still put my bra on tho!)

Highlighta · 24/09/2026 07:29

I swim 3 x a week

Microfiber towels are a god send. I really didn't think so the first time I used it, but once you get the hang of using one, they are a game changer. You pat yourself with it, do not rub like a cotton towel.

I do look a bit of a slob leaving as I have cotton tracksuit bottoms and a roomy fleece 1/4 zip. I'm in the no bra club as that is the most difficult item to put back on slightly damp imo.

Last night I had to pop to the shop on the way home so I just put on a better looking pair of bottoms and the same fleece top I usually wear. Loose is key here. I could not imagine putting jeans on after.

I do swim in the evening though, so this might make a difference that I can head off and usually go straight home.

Happytaytos · 24/09/2026 07:27

clary · 24/09/2026 07:21

What if you are going on to work though, or just to have a weekend day? I more often swim in the morning than any other time. <faints at the idea of not wearing a bra all day>

I swim in the evening mostly.

If I morning swim it's at the weekend and I come home and shower then put a bra on.

clary · 24/09/2026 07:21

Happytaytos · 24/09/2026 07:06

I never bother with a bra after swimming. No point.

What if you are going on to work though, or just to have a weekend day? I more often swim in the morning than any other time. <faints at the idea of not wearing a bra all day>

Happytaytos · 24/09/2026 07:06

I never bother with a bra after swimming. No point.

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