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Where do you think Jewish people come from?

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BlessedIsTheFruit · 23/09/2026 20:07

Antisemitism is at full volume at the moment and I caveat this post with saying that I have absolutely no wish to make Jewish MNers feel uncomfortable but as an an atheist with no connection to Israel this really makes my blood boil.

I see so many SM posts about the Jews having 'colonized' Israel and Judea & Samaria, not having any claim to the land, not being indigenous and of course being 'Europeans settlers'.

They can't answer where they actually come from though so I thought anyone on here who shares their views might be able to give an answer and how they came to that conclusion.

I understand that Jews are an ethnicity with Judaism as their religion. Being Jewish is not a religion. Jews are still today spread out all over the world with the majority living in Israel and the US.

This has come into focus since the UK Government sanctions on Jewish businesses in Judea & Samaria recently with Jewish communities living there classed as 'illegal settlers'.

It's almost as if Jews and Judea have no connection at all.

So AIBU to ask where the Jews originated from if not from there?

I don't feel this belongs on the CITME board as although the war in Gaza has amplified beliefs, this not directly about that.

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sickofsixseven · 25/09/2026 06:38

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Oh, the neo nazis have arrived 🙄

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Ah, the night shift lunatic posts.

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Newbutoldfather · 25/09/2026 06:10

‘The Arabs/Palestinians have been offered a two-state solution 5 times and have turned it down each time.

Maybe someone should have a word in their ear?’

They were offered two state solutions, although the offers fell far short of truly sharing the land.

The offer Arafat was given didn’t offer a contiguous state, an airport or international borders, meaning Israel would always have control over its trade.

Having said that, I think he should have grabbed the offer with both hands, which is why I said both sides needed to resist maximalism.

Newbutoldfather · 25/09/2026 06:03

@BlessedIsTheFruit ,

‘Of course the only thing 'happening in the West Bank' is 'settler violence'. Pretty sure international journalists have no problem getting in there but I haven't seen THAT reported in the international media, have you?’

I am pretty sure international journalists have plenty of problems reporting from the West Bank.

https://www.freepressunlimited.org/en/current/journalists-blocked-and-targeted-while-reporting-west-bank

Not bothering to respond to the rest of your post because there's really no point.

‘I really do hope, that 'as a Jew', you never have the need for the protection of Israel.’

Israel Was created for the diaspora fleeing the Shoah, including parts of my family. It was never designed or desired to be a theocracy. Your attitude of having to support Netanyahu and all he does or you are not a Jew deserving of sanctuary would have disgusted the founders of Israel.

Palestinian journalists reporting

Journalists blocked and targeted while reporting in the West Bank

Since the launch of Israel’s “military operation” in the West Bank, and the Trump’s administration decision to lift sanctions on Israeli settlers in the occupied West Bank, media partners and journalists have shared disturbing reports of escalating vio...

https://www.freepressunlimited.org/en/current/journalists-blocked-and-targeted-while-reporting-west-bank

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 06:02

CrazyMidget · 25/09/2026 05:52

The Middle East isn't known for such regimes, sadly.

They need a new model.

Well, Israel (as in Israel within pre-67 borders) is probably the closest.

Lexibletheflexible · 25/09/2026 05:57

CrazyMidget · 25/09/2026 05:54

Plantations? Is that not a Deep South USA thing? I didn't think much cotton grew in Ireland, but I could always be wrong.

Plantations aren't just about growing cotton. England siezed land from indigenous Irish people and resettled (poor) people from other parts of the UK to work the land. That is why an Irish person can find they are most English via their DNA.

CrazyMidget · 25/09/2026 05:54

mathanxiety · 25/09/2026 02:32

Politics is the art of the possible.

It involves talking. It involves listening.

Hundreds of years of plantations, evictions, political and economic oppression, intense sectarian hatred, massacres, apartheid, and dogged determination to wipe each other off the face of the earth gave way to a fairly peaceful settlement in Northern Ireland, produced after several years of talking, of realism, and some significant compromises on both sides.

Politicians talking to each other and to demagogues and hard liners achieved that.

Plantations? Is that not a Deep South USA thing? I didn't think much cotton grew in Ireland, but I could always be wrong.

CrazyMidget · 25/09/2026 05:52

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 05:45

Is there a model in the region that you think might work? An example of a liberal democratic country which respects minority rights as well as equial rights for women and LBTQI?

The Middle East isn't known for such regimes, sadly.

They need a new model.

CrazyMidget · 25/09/2026 05:51

GarlicSomething · 24/09/2026 12:36

I'm not mocking it.

These atrocities having happened - as they have throughout history, to many peoples in many places - do not, in my opinion, confer the right to move into a country and displace the extant residents. That's also happened throughout history; we normally call it 'conquering' or colonisation.

The idea that any people should have the right to re-colonise the place where their ethnic identity was formed is absurd. You could even apply it to the descendants of the Canaanite, Hittite, Jebusite and other population groups the Hebrews killed and put to rout when conquering the area they named Judaea (according to their own historical accounts).

If histories are to be accepted as conferring right to reside, then yes, I do have the right to settle in Northern Germany. Yes, it is ridiculous.

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You're conflating colonisation and ethnic cleansing. Colonisers didn't expel a people from their own land. They wanted the people to remain in place so they could be controlled and exploited. The Anglo-Saxons colonised ancient Britain (as it was spelt then) and they didn't expel the Britons. The equivalent to the issue that Jews face would be if ancient Britons were violently expelled from Britain by the Anglo-Saxons, became stateless, were compelled to roam, and spent the next ten centuries or so being persecuted because you weren't where you belong - in Britain.

That's assuming that you are descended from ancient Britons, as opposed to from Anglo-Saxons. If the latter, you still would not be able to theoretically claim German nationality, because your forbears would have CHOSEN to move to ancient Britain and CHOSEN to stay. This is not the same as being expelled from what's present-day Germany.

So you're making a false equivalence.

(I feel very bad for the Jewish people and all that they have suffered over so many centuries. I also feel very bad for the conditions that the Palestinians had to live in, all crowded in and controlled by the Israeli government, and made to be second-class citizens. Such a pity that both factions couldn't just share the land and be equals, and get along.)

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 05:45

CrazyMidget · 25/09/2026 05:08

Well, no. Not like that. Like I said, equal rights.

Is there a model in the region that you think might work? An example of a liberal democratic country which respects minority rights as well as equial rights for women and LBTQI?

CrazyMidget · 25/09/2026 05:08

Humdingerydoo · 24/09/2026 10:34

You mean like in Iran were Jews to this day don't have the same rights as their Muslim neighbours?

It was the same in the Arab world before they forcibly expelled hundreds of thousands of Jews. People who claim there has been peaceful cohabitation for centuries in the middle east often seem to gloss over the facts that while there was peace, it was only because Jews accepted that they were second class citizens. They had no other choice!

Well, no. Not like that. Like I said, equal rights.

samthepigeon · 25/09/2026 03:59

OakleyAnnie · 24/09/2026 15:31

What languages have official status in the UK? Or are the rules different for us?

Arab Israelis hold official citizenship with legal rights like voting and carrying passports. They occupy highly prestigious high ranking positions in many professional sectors, particularly healthcare and the judiciary. If that’s what people call apart, then they don’t understand the meaning of the word.

The UK itself has no single legally designated official language across the country, so language status alone is not a straightforward measure of equality. The 2018 Nation-State Basic Law defines Israel as the nation-state of the Jewish people. Israel's constitutional framework gives the Jewish people a unique national status that Arab citizens do not share.

mathanxiety · 25/09/2026 03:13

charliehungerford · 24/09/2026 10:02

‘actual genocide’ surely refers to the horror that people of Jewish faith/ancestry/ethnicity experienced when they were hunted down throughout Europe in the mid 20th century, being removed from their homes, communities and countries, taken to camps where the only purpose was to murder them, all of them, millions of them! Men, women and children taken from Germany, Poland, France, the Netherlands and more, killed because they were Jews. The aim was to totally exterminate them, remove them from the world. That is an ‘actual genocide’.

There have been other genocides.

The means have been different, but the motivation has been the same.

Please don't dignify the term 'actual genocide'.

mathanxiety · 25/09/2026 02:32

BlessedIsTheFruit · 24/09/2026 22:07

Ed Miliband cosying up to the Iranian Foreign Minister is sickening although not at all surprising, surprisingly.

This country is fucked, totally.

Politics is the art of the possible.

It involves talking. It involves listening.

Hundreds of years of plantations, evictions, political and economic oppression, intense sectarian hatred, massacres, apartheid, and dogged determination to wipe each other off the face of the earth gave way to a fairly peaceful settlement in Northern Ireland, produced after several years of talking, of realism, and some significant compromises on both sides.

Politicians talking to each other and to demagogues and hard liners achieved that.

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 02:28

mathanxiety · 25/09/2026 02:22

The only moral coward in that room was Netanyahu.

I have no hesitation whatsoever to support Israel, to support Israel's right to exist, and I abhor anti semitism.

However, two wrongs will never make a right. No state has the right to perpetuate genocide.

A siege mentality is never going to lead anywhere but toward violence.
We will win. We have no other choice is a recipe for disaster.

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Netanyahu is the epitome of moral cowardice!

Not that I think the delegations which walked out are any better, hardly warriors of justice and human rights.

mathanxiety · 25/09/2026 02:22

BlessedIsTheFruit · 24/09/2026 22:02

As Bibi said 'if there any more moral cowards in the hall, please leave now'.

They'd already left though, to rush to find a TV to watch his speech on, after their juvenile, performative walk out.

They didn't walk out on Iran, Qatar, Syria (former Al Qaeda), or Turkey who all finance and organise the terrorists Israel is having to fight against.

Particularly enjoyed him bringing a Starlink hub for the Iranian delegation if they wish to defect and him calling out the weak governments in the West.

Also Hamdani 😂

An amazing speech from an amazing leader, especially defending the brave soldiers of the IDF who have been disgustingly smeared.

'We will win, we have no other choice'.

Am Israel Chai!

The only moral coward in that room was Netanyahu.

I have no hesitation whatsoever to support Israel, to support Israel's right to exist, and I abhor anti semitism.

However, two wrongs will never make a right. No state has the right to perpetuate genocide.

A siege mentality is never going to lead anywhere but toward violence.
We will win. We have no other choice is a recipe for disaster.

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 02:16

GarlicSomething · 24/09/2026 13:57

Come on, you said it was a response to Oct 7.

Israel has its Iron Dome, which seems pretty effective. I wished long ago that Palestine - or Gaza at least - could have one, too. If they won't stop having a go at each other, it'd be better to be equally well defended.

While repeating that I think Hamas is awful, it's difficult to buy the portrayal of Israel as victim. This is a very unbalanced conflict in which Palestinians are, yet again, suffering greatly.

As I also keep saying, though, I don't think it will ever stop completely.

You don't need to go as far as Iron Dome. How about building bomb shelters? They're very effective and don't cost much. Did Hamas build any bomb shelters for the civliian population int he 20 years they ruled Gaza? (answer is no) Did they have the ability and resources to do so (answer is yes, as evidenced by the many tunnels they built for the exclusive use of Hamaas)

You are correct that the pwoer is assymetric now but it wasn't previously. The Palestinian problem is and has always been a refusal to compromise and accept reality.

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 01:32

GarlicSomething · 25/09/2026 01:19

Same situation different front lines, is my guess. They'd always be bickering over demarcation and property rights, firing explosives at one another and yelling that the other is the more belligerent.

Or there could have been a Palestinian state, moving ahead. Maybe not best pals but no war like with Jordan and Egypt.

Flowergirl89 · 25/09/2026 01:29

Don’t have time to read through 27 pages of posts but I don’t see what’s so hard to see where Jews come from. Jews originate from Judea and after the destruction of the second temple were sent to exile. To keep it as short as possible , the Jewish diaspora were spread all over and that’s why today there are Ashkenazi , sefardi and mizrachi Jews. Iraqi/bukharian Jews can trace their lineage back to the temple times. While customs vary, it’s all the same religion and the land of Israel is central to it. It’s mentioned constantly in prayers, Jews pray towards Jerusalem , smashing a glass at a wedding is to commemorate the destruction of the temple etc. There has been continued Jewish presence in Israel for hundred of years. And just to clarify , the Palestinians today are descended from tribes, they were never a nation so to speak. Some have Jordanian or Egyptian roots.
just as an aside the idea that Jews are colonising Israel when there are mosques on the Temple Mount built above the ruins of the Jewish temples is truly absurd.

GarlicSomething · 25/09/2026 01:19

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 01:04

Indeed. Imagine where we'd be now had they accepted one of them.

Same situation different front lines, is my guess. They'd always be bickering over demarcation and property rights, firing explosives at one another and yelling that the other is the more belligerent.

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 01:04

Lucyslocket · 25/09/2026 00:20

@Newbutoldfather "Both the Jewish population and the Palestinian population need to work towards a two state solution and avoid maximalist demands, which are not realistic."
The Arabs/Palestinians have been offered a two-state solution 5 times and have turned it down each time.
Maybe someone should have a word in their ear?

Indeed. Imagine where we'd be now had they accepted one of them.

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 01:03

ThisNattyTurtle · 24/09/2026 19:17

They were pushed out because of Zionism and formation of Israel. Read Prof Avi Shlaim's account of this/watch on YouTube. He is an Iraqi-Israeli Jew and professor of history at Oxford so quite a relevant expert and one never invited onto mainstream media for some reason. See also - prof Ilan Pappe, Prof Neve Gordon.
He also reports evidence that shows direct involvement of Zionist terrorist gangs in false flag attacks on Jewish communities in Iraq and Yemen, to terrify those Jews into fleeing their homes and going to Israel, to bulk up the numbers. Of course they were treated badly by the European/Ashkenazi Jews when they got there.

Avi Shlaim is one voice (who has built his career off of this) versus hundreds of thousands who give a different narrative and explanation.
But you cherry pick the one who says what you want ro hear.
I mean the Jews of Yemen???? How about you read exactly how they were treated over the years. Read historical accounts. What ignorance youre showing.

ginkhao · 25/09/2026 00:59

GarlicSomething · 24/09/2026 20:50

Whoa, that was a mass exodus! Disunited nations ...

I've only read summaries of his speech. It seems to have been something of a war cry, more geared to rally electoral support at home than to enlighten UN members.

He was right to bite back at Erdogan's vicious (and deluded) remarks, though. Apparently Turkey hopes to win leadership of the Muslim world, in opposition to Saudi Arabia. Another dangerously over-ambitious nutcase.

FYI. If you look at the ga hall during most speeches, it's half empty. The delegation that are planning a performative walk out will intentionally arrive with a massive delegation - basically anyone they can get in the room - in order to performatively walk out. The room will be practically empty when the leader of guinea bissau or Bhutan is speaking but no one needs to perform for the camera that they're leaving 😅

Lucyslocket · 25/09/2026 00:23

Pudmyboy · 24/09/2026 23:21

Israel has offered a two-state solution several times since 1948, it has always been rejected by the other side. And not because they had a different proposal for a two state solution. They do not want a two state solution, full stop.

I agree.
As as I have said before, they want a one-state solution and that state isn't Israel.