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Where do you think Jewish people come from?

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BlessedIsTheFruit · 23/09/2026 20:07

Antisemitism is at full volume at the moment and I caveat this post with saying that I have absolutely no wish to make Jewish MNers feel uncomfortable but as an an atheist with no connection to Israel this really makes my blood boil.

I see so many SM posts about the Jews having 'colonized' Israel and Judea & Samaria, not having any claim to the land, not being indigenous and of course being 'Europeans settlers'.

They can't answer where they actually come from though so I thought anyone on here who shares their views might be able to give an answer and how they came to that conclusion.

I understand that Jews are an ethnicity with Judaism as their religion. Being Jewish is not a religion. Jews are still today spread out all over the world with the majority living in Israel and the US.

This has come into focus since the UK Government sanctions on Jewish businesses in Judea & Samaria recently with Jewish communities living there classed as 'illegal settlers'.

It's almost as if Jews and Judea have no connection at all.

So AIBU to ask where the Jews originated from if not from there?

I don't feel this belongs on the CITME board as although the war in Gaza has amplified beliefs, this not directly about that.

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Wewinnow · 23/09/2026 23:47

FCCRULES · 23/09/2026 20:44

What has India’s citizenship rules got to do with Israel?

It illustrates that a person doesn’t usually automatically have the right to live somewhere just because their ancestors come from there.

Humdingerydoo · 23/09/2026 23:47

missmollygreen · 23/09/2026 21:13

Well they found other places to live in the intervening 2000 years.

If you found out that you distant ancestors where Danish, would you then start to think of Denmark as home? Would you force a Danish family out of their home, so you could take it?

Found other places to live as second class citizens. We didn't have equal rights to Muslims in the Arab world or as non-Jews in Europe. It's amazing how many people seem oblivious to this.

To be clear, Jews in eg Iran still to this day don't have the same rights as their Muslim neighbours. Jewish people are still second class citizens there today.

sickofsixseven · 23/09/2026 23:46

Humdingerydoo · 23/09/2026 23:37

How about they claim it because they bought large parcels of the land (and therefore legally own the title deeds) and then the UN confirmed it was theirs almost 80 years ago? Or what is the exact number of years needed for a country to be allowed to continue to exist in your expert opinion?

Most of the land israel purchased was barren desert which they then built into cities from the ground up. The notion that they "stole" land is ridiculous

OakleyAnnie · 23/09/2026 23:46

canklesmctacotits · 23/09/2026 21:30

It's a nonsense question. Do all Muslims come from and have a right to live in Saudi Arabia? What about the inverse - do all holders of the Shinto faith HAVE to live in Japan?

There are plenty of current and historic examples of politics driving religion, even if we tend to frame these arguments in the inverse. Some might argue they are one and the same. Today's Jewish settlers in the West Bank is just another example.

Interesting that you’ve mentioned Saudi Arabia but not any of the other 50 something Muslim countries. The point about Jews is there is literally one country that is Jewish. And many people in this world (and thread) don’t think the Jews deserve to have autonomy and self rule like every other nation.

ErroltheSwampDragon · 23/09/2026 23:42

Forgot Mumsnet doesn't allow embedded pictures. @GaIadriel linked to previous comment.

Where do you think Jewish people come from?
ErroltheSwampDragon · 23/09/2026 23:41

GaIadriel · 23/09/2026 23:32

And where did I deny that it happens?

I'm just saying that half the people wanging on about it likely wouldn't be giving it a second's thought had they no internet/SM access. Bit like the trans bathroom thing. Much as I'm GC leaning I've never actually seen a bloke in the changing rooms.

I think Jews get far less flack from the general public than the 'boat people', Muslims, and the general targets of Tommy Robinson-esque sentiments. It's mostly religious/ideologically motivated. Wasn't the Mancs perpetrator a Syrian bloke?

I was responding to your comment where you said you had never experienced it.

I'm not sure what you mean about "wanging on about it". Do you mean about antisemitism? I don't think social media helps but its definitely not the only source of antisemitism/hate.

I don't think we have any conclusive evidence as to who is perpetrating the hate (I don't think the govt releases that?) but agree that there is definitely a lot of religious/ideological motivation (and yes, he was Syrian). A lot of the stuff I hear day to day seems to come from stupidity, though.

In terms of overall numbers of crimes, Jews experienced less than Muslims overall, but more per person (see table below) and link https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2025/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2025

Humdingerydoo · 23/09/2026 23:37

JustAlice · 23/09/2026 23:27

Israel would have more sympathy if they were not claiming the land on the basis of 2000-year old title deeds from god.

How about they claim it because they bought large parcels of the land (and therefore legally own the title deeds) and then the UN confirmed it was theirs almost 80 years ago? Or what is the exact number of years needed for a country to be allowed to continue to exist in your expert opinion?

AlonsoMosley · 23/09/2026 23:36

JeanSimmons · 23/09/2026 22:04

They come from Judea, it is their homeland. I find it ironic that the same people who screech about freeing Palestine also make a big deal about US Americans being colonisers and living on stolen land. The lack of critical thinking is woeful.

The name Judea stopped being used over 1,000 years ago! You are claiming a lace from 1,000 years ago.

That does not make sense.

OakleyAnnie · 23/09/2026 23:35

missmollygreen · 23/09/2026 21:13

Well they found other places to live in the intervening 2000 years.

If you found out that you distant ancestors where Danish, would you then start to think of Denmark as home? Would you force a Danish family out of their home, so you could take it?

‘Well they found other places to live in the intervening 200 years’…
in peace, security and happiness. Oh no wait…

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 23:35

Humdingerydoo · 23/09/2026 23:32

There were plenty of fucking eye witnesses there. Just like there were at Bondi. And in Pittsburgh. In Colorado. Outside my kids' primary school (Jewish) when the antisemitic plebs drove past with megaphones shouting "Free Palestine".

Don't dignify her with a response x the posts have been reported. Sure I'm not the only one.

Humdingerydoo · 23/09/2026 23:32

GaIadriel · 23/09/2026 23:18

Are you saying you were an eyewitness to the Mancs synagogue attack? I can't imagine it's that common to have seen something like that IRL.

There were plenty of fucking eye witnesses there. Just like there were at Bondi. And in Pittsburgh. In Colorado. Outside my kids' primary school (Jewish) when the antisemitic plebs drove past with megaphones shouting "Free Palestine".

GaIadriel · 23/09/2026 23:32

ErroltheSwampDragon · 23/09/2026 23:21

I'm saying that there is clear evidence of the extreme levels of antisemitism. You and I not having personally witnessed the attacks, or other antisemitism (though I've certainly seen and heard plenty), does not mean it isn't happening and isn't having a huge impact on the Jewish community.

I would not deny bigotry experienced by any other group (especially when it made national headlines), just because I didn't experience it. Do you?

And where did I deny that it happens?

I'm just saying that half the people wanging on about it likely wouldn't be giving it a second's thought had they no internet/SM access. Bit like the trans bathroom thing. Much as I'm GC leaning I've never actually seen a bloke in the changing rooms.

I think Jews get far less flack from the general public than the 'boat people', Muslims, and the general targets of Tommy Robinson-esque sentiments. It's mostly religious/ideologically motivated. Wasn't the Mancs perpetrator a Syrian bloke?

JustAlice · 23/09/2026 23:31

ScrollingLeaves · 23/09/2026 23:26

Haaretz (respected Israeli Jewish newspaper) 2015

^Blood Brothers: Palestinians and Jews Share Genetic Roots
Jews break down into three genetic groups, all of which have Middle Eastern origins - which are shared with the Palestinians and Druze.^

(I am sorry, I can’t link the whole article.)

Of course they do. But Jewish people were breeding within their small ethnic groups in order to stay Jewish thus they will differ now from Palestinians who had larger genetic pool during last 2000 years.

CrazyMidget · 23/09/2026 23:29

Humdingerydoo · 23/09/2026 23:27

My brother was beaten up as a tween for wearing a star of David. My synagogue (not in the UK) has had molotov cocktails thrown at it more than once. As a completely non-political 13 year old who hadn't even visited Israel since age 3 and genuinely didn't know anything about the political situation, my school locker was the only one covered in "Free Palestine" stickers. I was told that Jews should all move to Florida as that's apparently where we're all from. A colleague told me that Jews control all the media and are all rich. Walking home from synagogue on Shabbat with my religious friends who wear kippot we would be regularly met with racist nutjobs outside M&S who would demand to know our opinion on Israel. No one else walking past was harassed, only those who were visibly Jewish.

So awful. I'm really sorry. 💔💐

Ponderingwindow · 23/09/2026 23:28

ZenNudist · 23/09/2026 20:37

So if Americans (not native Americans) decide to settle in the UK they should be allowed to because they were originally from here?

Exactly. The things aren’t going so great here these days. I would quite like to move. I’m am appealing candidate to most countries until they get to the health portion. I’ll be staying in the good old USA.

If I could just “decolonize” my problems would be solved.

and again, Israel has been there for 75 years now. It shouldn’t be going anywhere. I’m making a strictly logical argument nor about a specific country.

Humdingerydoo · 23/09/2026 23:27

GaIadriel · 23/09/2026 22:57

For all this talk of anti semitism I've literally never encountered it IRL. Only people complaining about Muslims/Pakistanis and occasionally Romanians etc.

My brother was beaten up as a tween for wearing a star of David. My synagogue (not in the UK) has had molotov cocktails thrown at it more than once. As a completely non-political 13 year old who hadn't even visited Israel since age 3 and genuinely didn't know anything about the political situation, my school locker was the only one covered in "Free Palestine" stickers. I was told that Jews should all move to Florida as that's apparently where we're all from. A colleague told me that Jews control all the media and are all rich. Walking home from synagogue on Shabbat with my religious friends who wear kippot we would be regularly met with racist nutjobs outside M&S who would demand to know our opinion on Israel. No one else walking past was harassed, only those who were visibly Jewish.

JustAlice · 23/09/2026 23:27

AlonsoMosley · 23/09/2026 23:13

But by that logic everyone should have the right to go back to where they came from, or put another way, the original people of a land have the right to force current residents out.

So, in terms of our own country - all Northern Irish British should, as the IRA say, leave, come back here and hand the place back to the Irish; Australians should leave, come back here and give Australia back to the aboriginals; ditto the Canadians and Americans with British ancestry. Then there are the Scots, the Welsh and so on.

That can be applied to almost every country in the world. I mean, the argument does not really stand up.

Israel would have more sympathy if they were not claiming the land on the basis of 2000-year old title deeds from god.

ScrollingLeaves · 23/09/2026 23:26

Haaretz (respected Israeli Jewish newspaper) 2015

^Blood Brothers: Palestinians and Jews Share Genetic Roots
Jews break down into three genetic groups, all of which have Middle Eastern origins - which are shared with the Palestinians and Druze.^

(I am sorry, I can’t link the whole article.)

CrazyMidget · 23/09/2026 23:26

RuinartRuination · 23/09/2026 23:24

My simplified version is that Israel belongs to the Jews and they should, do what they need to do keep their own country. As they will.

Both Jews and Arabs have been in the region since the year dot. They both have a claim. Which is why they need to share. And not by shoving one people into ghettos. Properly sharing, like in the UK where Jews and Arabs are equal British citizens with equal rights and can live wherever they please.

Redpaisley · 23/09/2026 23:25

FridayNightBlues · 23/09/2026 20:34

I'm ethnically Indian but I don't have Indian citizenship. I can't live in India without a residence permit of some sort.

More importantly, I think you are conflating two issues quite disingenuously actually. I am sure you are aware that the sanctions are against illegal settlements in occupied territory. They are not against businesses operating in Israel.

You can live in India. All you need is overseas citizens passport. Only thing you are not allowed is voting and purchase of agricultural land.

Visas and permits are for foreigners with no ethnicity connection to India.

RuinartRuination · 23/09/2026 23:24

My simplified version is that Israel belongs to the Jews and they should, do what they need to do keep their own country. As they will.

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 23:23

GaIadriel · 23/09/2026 23:22

I think it's just flavour of the month for many now that things like the plight of women in Afghanistan etc seem to have been forgotten by many.

What happened to two things being true at once?

GaIadriel · 23/09/2026 23:22

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 23:19

Awful thing to say and she's no shame in saying it. Even sent me a like reaction when I showed my disgust.

I think it's just flavour of the month for many now that things like the plight of women in Afghanistan etc seem to have been forgotten by many.

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 23:21

Downloadfilms · 23/09/2026 23:17

Hey Mumsnet, any reply to my report of this thread?
This thread is under AIBU, I view this as a thread designed to provoke argument, rather than gather information.

It's worked as well. I predicted its deletion an hour ago. Will see if it's still here in the morning.

Vintique · 23/09/2026 23:21

JustAlice · 23/09/2026 22:41

Would you be happy if half of your house was declared someone’s safe place/ homeland/ whatever bc their family lived there 30 generations ago and they’d move in tomorrow?
This problem was artificially created by the UN bc USA/UK couldn’t/wouldn’t take in any more immigrants.

I think you’ve spectacularly missed the point there

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