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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

OP posts:
Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:16

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:12

I would say "yes" , but that's in the context of schools.

This really made me
laugh. The pure madness of schools as employers and coffee isn’t good enough for you? 😂

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 14:18

TheFishFish · 24/09/2026 12:27

Yes, that is exactly my point.

Obviously, in some professions you need to turn up super formal and present as such.

In other jobs, not so much. If you get it wrong in either direction you show to the interviewer that you have misjudged things.

Turning up to a casual job for a trade in full business attire would be just as weird as turning up for a job at a big 4 in jeans. In some places coming in with a coffee would be fine, in others not.

Well done for getting there.

Edited

i have had candidates turn up for a big 4 interview in jeans. I was not impressed. Find this worse than the iced coffee.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:18

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:16

This really made me
laugh. The pure madness of schools as employers and coffee isn’t good enough for you? 😂

No. It's health and safety. None of those takeaway cups are allowed in corridors or classrooms. We have 1,750 teenagers, many of whom are on the corridors at the same time.
Many spillages, many falls in classrooms and corridors have led to this rule.
If you find it funny, that's your prerogative.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 14:21

As much as I say I wouldn’t mind, they would need to find a way to still shake hands etc so if both hands were full as a result and they couldn’t juggle it , then it wouldn’t be a great first impression. Although if rest of the interview was good wouldn’t stop me from hiring

TreatedAsOptional · 24/09/2026 14:23

Why though? Why does it matter?!

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:24

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:12

Yes but what were they doing with the board?! In a decade of working closely with boards its standard that you don’t have every Tom dick and Harry in a meeting with them.

My boss was the Group Finance and Commercial Director, there to handle the business/financial side of the pitch to the directors of the companies we were aiming to sell to. The graduates were the technical side of the project, there to explain how the systems integrated with their existing programs. If that's ok with you?

NSRN · 24/09/2026 14:27

FiveEightNine · 23/09/2026 21:27

I think it is a a little bit rude
It feels pretty greedy and needy
I think it is a tiny bit distracting
I think it shows a small to medium lack of...

Wow. Can you hear yourself?
Letting your feelings and personal opinions about something super small to influence your evaluation of a candidate? It sounds so self-important and judgmental.

Unless you are hiring a coach of mid-level corporate etiquette, try to not get distracted so easily and don't focus on a made up nonsense.

Meanwhile, your rebuttal was ALL feelings, lol. Not a single logical reason as to why they were wrong.
Also, it's an interview - you're being assessed on even the smalls things about yourself.

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:34

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:24

My boss was the Group Finance and Commercial Director, there to handle the business/financial side of the pitch to the directors of the companies we were aiming to sell to. The graduates were the technical side of the project, there to explain how the systems integrated with their existing programs. If that's ok with you?

i think it’s really interesting that these young people were skilled enough to explain the technology though. Couldn’t you find more mature people who could do so or didn’t they have the right skilll set?

because I mean, it’s your company that choose to put a load of inexperienced grads in an important meeting, cereal or no cereal. Seems quite poorly thought out.

Neuronimo · 24/09/2026 14:41

YANBU it seems quite it doesn't seem very professional to bring a coffee.

Faceonthewrongfoot · 24/09/2026 14:45

TreatedAsOptional · 24/09/2026 14:23

Why though? Why does it matter?!

Well, it matters no more than what you're wearing in terms of your ability to do the job, in the vast majority of cases, and yet few people would turn up to an interview in a vest and shorts. First impressions matter, and when you're there to persuade a company that you are the right person out of the multitude of other candidates they are going to interview that week, why would you do anything that might risk the impression you give if you didn't need to? Nobody needs an ice coffee in an interview. Have one before or after. For a lot of people, it comes across as casual, or even disorganised (in that you didn't give yourself time to have your drink beforehand), and you will have no idea whether your interviewer falls in to the category of people who think that. It just seems odd to me to do something you don't need to do on the principle that it 'doesn't matter' when in fact it might.

Mosaic80 · 24/09/2026 14:48

Definitely not professional. Accept a glass of water offered and nothing else imo! We once interviewed a graduate man who had his short sleeves rolled up, leaned back in his chair and swigged constantly from a plastic water bottle - awful! I’m late 40s and worked in publishing for most of my career till recently.

Verv · 24/09/2026 14:54

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:55

Supporting other people with what? Why so coy?

Why are you pretending not to know what the job title "support worker" is?

DressOrSkirt · 24/09/2026 15:07

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 12:52

How is it subservient to want the job you are interviewing for?

Who said it was? It's subservient to only drink liquids approved by the interviewer.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 15:42

Mosaic80 · 24/09/2026 14:48

Definitely not professional. Accept a glass of water offered and nothing else imo! We once interviewed a graduate man who had his short sleeves rolled up, leaned back in his chair and swigged constantly from a plastic water bottle - awful! I’m late 40s and worked in publishing for most of my career till recently.

had you offered him water in a glass/have it available for him?

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 15:43

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:34

i think it’s really interesting that these young people were skilled enough to explain the technology though. Couldn’t you find more mature people who could do so or didn’t they have the right skilll set?

because I mean, it’s your company that choose to put a load of inexperienced grads in an important meeting, cereal or no cereal. Seems quite poorly thought out.

It was not 'my company '. I was a employed as a PA. I had no part in the business planning. All I can say is that the technical employees were recruited from all over the UK and beyond and believed to be the best in their field. The company was very successful.

What all this has to do with the topic of this thread I don't know. Clever young people ought to realise without having to be told that it is not professional to take part in important meetings whilst spooning cereals into your mouth.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 15:44

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 15:43

It was not 'my company '. I was a employed as a PA. I had no part in the business planning. All I can say is that the technical employees were recruited from all over the UK and beyond and believed to be the best in their field. The company was very successful.

What all this has to do with the topic of this thread I don't know. Clever young people ought to realise without having to be told that it is not professional to take part in important meetings whilst spooning cereals into your mouth.

Very poor social skills.

EveryoneUsingOutro · 24/09/2026 16:32

Commecicommeca26 · 23/09/2026 21:19

Are you ok? This really cannot just be about an iced coffee at an interview.

Apparently so! OP taking this VERY seriously 😄

EveryoneUsingOutro · 24/09/2026 16:33

Fireybricks · 23/09/2026 21:24

Hmm it feels like something a young millennial or Gen Z would do. Probably says they’re more interested in what the company can do for them and they’ll be expecting a good hybrid working pattern or regular work from home.

Hope you stretched before that leap.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 17:19

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:34

i think it’s really interesting that these young people were skilled enough to explain the technology though. Couldn’t you find more mature people who could do so or didn’t they have the right skilll set?

because I mean, it’s your company that choose to put a load of inexperienced grads in an important meeting, cereal or no cereal. Seems quite poorly thought out.

Grads can have very good knowledge, insight in to the details and it can also be a great learning opportunity for them.

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 17:56

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 17:19

Grads can have very good knowledge, insight in to the details and it can also be a great learning opportunity for them.

Not if they haven’t learnt appropriate workplace behavior and are thrown in front of a board it’s not

Silverfoxette · 24/09/2026 17:57

No, why do people feel the need to constantly be carrying a drink? Unprofessional. Look up Hugh Grants views on this it’s spot on and funny

I’m 53, healthcare admin

MyRubyFox · 24/09/2026 18:13

Yes. I interviewed someone who walked into our (small) office for interview holding a takeaway coffee. Because of this it was an immediate 'no' but I went through the motions (at speed).

Pollqueen · 24/09/2026 18:24

Corporate law. I definitely wouldn't do it

ThisUmberSwan · 24/09/2026 18:45

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 23:17

Yeah, client meetings are normally full of coffees in our industry too. And the majority of interviews start with offering a coffee - sure.

So it's a bit odd to turn up with your own. It suggests you don't understand the norms of the industry.

its so bizzare I can go to the coffee shop on the way to an interview and buy a drink I prefer over a drink offered in an interview. Same as if I got the job in an office I’d stop and get a coffee of my own choice on the way in rather than the standard coffees that are potentially provided. I don’t even bloody like coffee but how you’re slating people for having a drink on the way to and in an interview is so so strange. I prefer hot chocolate and often have flavourings I also prefer Starbucks to anywhere else but according to you anyone in a working day should just stick to bog standard coffee that’s offered at work instead of going to spend their money where they choose to.

ThisUmberSwan · 24/09/2026 18:46

ThisUmberSwan · 24/09/2026 18:45

its so bizzare I can go to the coffee shop on the way to an interview and buy a drink I prefer over a drink offered in an interview. Same as if I got the job in an office I’d stop and get a coffee of my own choice on the way in rather than the standard coffees that are potentially provided. I don’t even bloody like coffee but how you’re slating people for having a drink on the way to and in an interview is so so strange. I prefer hot chocolate and often have flavourings I also prefer Starbucks to anywhere else but according to you anyone in a working day should just stick to bog standard coffee that’s offered at work instead of going to spend their money where they choose to.

I still stand by it though I only turn up to an interview with water if anything at all and in my last interview 3 years ago I turned up with nothing but myself and my documents