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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

OP posts:
PaperPanama · 24/09/2026 02:22

An interviewee is effectively a guest, and the interviewer is their host. A guest does not bring their own fancy drink. That’s just rude.

FrankieNeverRelax · 24/09/2026 02:24

I wouldn’t take one to an interview but if I was interviewing it wouldn’t bother me if someone had one

bittertwisted · 24/09/2026 02:34

This is my favourite thread ever. I’ve had a shit week and this has made me cry with laughter

user1492757084 · 24/09/2026 03:06

I think it's rude to eat and drink in company without offering it around. Thus, in a job interview it is lacking good manners. It is also not being focussed fully on the interview.

Allow enough time before hand to feed yourself. Show work places that you are good at time management.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 04:35

Scrimblescromble · 23/09/2026 22:50

Really? I just assumed most people did massive burps after fizzy drinks. I find it even worse if it’s from a can or bottle. Every day’s a school day!

Don’t think I’ve ever burped

ColdAsAWitches · 24/09/2026 04:47

It comes as the person isn't fully focussed on the interview and isn't that interested in the job?

But you can tell whether someone is focused on the interview or is interested in the job from the interview! How does whether they take a sip of coffee indicate that they don't want the job? How is it different to having a sip of water? How is it different to having a sip of coffee at any other meeting? Madness!

BishBashBoshDumpling · 24/09/2026 05:20

I'm not an interviewer but if I was ....

It wouldnt make me reject the candidate entirely because of it, but it would raise an eyebrow, metaphorically speaking. And they'd then have to be a really good candidate to have me put that eyebrow back down if you know what I mean.

If I was torn between two candidates who were equally as good then I'd probably end up going with the one who caused me the least concern.

As an interviewee you just don't know what you're up against, and I'd want to ensure the smoothest cleanest possible running chance at the job.

Turning up with what is essentially a snack just suggests "this interview isn't a priority for me, I am squeezing you in in, I am a very busy person...."

toomuchtooold · 24/09/2026 05:38

At least following this whole conversation, everyone now knows that there are some people who wouldn't like it if you take an iced coffee into an interview, so the professional thing to do is not to bring any drinks just in case the interviewer is one of those people?

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 05:47

BishBashBoshDumpling · 24/09/2026 05:20

I'm not an interviewer but if I was ....

It wouldnt make me reject the candidate entirely because of it, but it would raise an eyebrow, metaphorically speaking. And they'd then have to be a really good candidate to have me put that eyebrow back down if you know what I mean.

If I was torn between two candidates who were equally as good then I'd probably end up going with the one who caused me the least concern.

As an interviewee you just don't know what you're up against, and I'd want to ensure the smoothest cleanest possible running chance at the job.

Turning up with what is essentially a snack just suggests "this interview isn't a priority for me, I am squeezing you in in, I am a very busy person...."

A lot of people do have to make an excuse to miss work to go to an interview though and have meetings directly before, they may effectively be missing lunch for it. Obviously this isn’t ideal but it’s a way of life

BishBashBoshDumpling · 24/09/2026 05:58

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 05:47

A lot of people do have to make an excuse to miss work to go to an interview though and have meetings directly before, they may effectively be missing lunch for it. Obviously this isn’t ideal but it’s a way of life

Of course. But I am still not convinced the answer to is to eat or drink your snack during the interview.

A cereal bar or quick sandwich in between keeps you professional for all your meetings that day.Obviously this isnt ideal either for that one day, but as you say, it is a way of life.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 06:00

No, it would make me think that they're unable to go for a short while without self indulgence. That's what these takeaway drinks are. It'll be a big cup with a straw and rattling with ice. A bottle of water is fine, because that's about hydration.
It's habitual and they haven't changed a habit for an interview.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 06:02

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 04:35

Don’t think I’ve ever burped

Really? That's strange. Not a judgement on you!

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 06:05

BishBashBoshDumpling · 24/09/2026 05:58

Of course. But I am still not convinced the answer to is to eat or drink your snack during the interview.

A cereal bar or quick sandwich in between keeps you professional for all your meetings that day.Obviously this isnt ideal either for that one day, but as you say, it is a way of life.

Edited

No and I’m not saying you should be eating in an interview definitely not, but I wouldn’t judge someone if I saw they were whilst waiting or it looked like they had grabbed a sandwich on route to eat after. It’s not bad for it to look like they were fitting the interview into a busy day rather than making it the only thing they had on that day

hurryup888 · 24/09/2026 06:06

No. You usually get offered a glass or bottle of water at all the interviews I’ve been too. When it was 35 degrees I downed two bottles 🤪

BishBashBoshDumpling · 24/09/2026 06:10

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 06:05

No and I’m not saying you should be eating in an interview definitely not, but I wouldn’t judge someone if I saw they were whilst waiting or it looked like they had grabbed a sandwich on route to eat after. It’s not bad for it to look like they were fitting the interview into a busy day rather than making it the only thing they had on that day

No I wouldn't judge someone for eating before ir after an interview either.

I thought the discussion was about eating/having a snack during an interview , sorry if I missed something there.

Sunbringer · 24/09/2026 06:24

Greenlawnbrownlawn · 23/09/2026 20:50

Ok, being old I'm afraid its completely beyond me why anyone needs to be walking around drinking coffee all the time. Down the street, in the supermarket, even while driving. Can't people just wait until meal times or tea or coffee breaks? Don't bother answering, I don't want to know.

Why shouldn't you take coffee into an interview? Because you're having an interview, not having a coffee break. Smacks of a casual, unprofessional attitude IMO. It's half an hour of your day.

People don’t get tea and coffee breaks anymore ime. You get a lunch break and that’s it. So no.

TFIThursday · 24/09/2026 06:29

I’m a very senior solicitor and it wouldn’t bother me. But then I do enjoy a drink!

ShattonerfDaParp · 24/09/2026 06:50

TFIThursday · 24/09/2026 06:29

I’m a very senior solicitor and it wouldn’t bother me. But then I do enjoy a drink!

Ditto. Since joining mumsnet it has become abundantly clear that my idea of what being a 'professional' entails is wildly out of whack with the majority, despite me being (on paper at least) the archetypal professional myself. If an interviewee plonked a bottle in Famous Grouse on the table then yeah, I'd mark them down for it (single malts are far superior), but a drink that you'd not bat an eyelid at in an office normally? Couldn't care less, absolutely irrelevant. In fact, if I was interviewing a parade of the type of bland, personality-and-warmth-free automatons that MN seems to think exemplify 'professionalism', bringing a slightly unusual drink in may serve to make them a bit more memorable, in a good way.

Pinkissmart · 24/09/2026 06:55

FourEyesGood · 23/09/2026 19:55

Why specifically iced coffee? Is an iced coffee more unprofessional than a hot coffee? (If so, why?)
I wouldn’t take any drink in with me (as long as there was water on offer) but if I were the interviewer, I wouldn’t think badly of a candidate taking a coffee in with them.

I think they are somehow worse because they sweat

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 06:57

ShattonerfDaParp · 24/09/2026 06:50

Ditto. Since joining mumsnet it has become abundantly clear that my idea of what being a 'professional' entails is wildly out of whack with the majority, despite me being (on paper at least) the archetypal professional myself. If an interviewee plonked a bottle in Famous Grouse on the table then yeah, I'd mark them down for it (single malts are far superior), but a drink that you'd not bat an eyelid at in an office normally? Couldn't care less, absolutely irrelevant. In fact, if I was interviewing a parade of the type of bland, personality-and-warmth-free automatons that MN seems to think exemplify 'professionalism', bringing a slightly unusual drink in may serve to make them a bit more memorable, in a good way.

MN isn't a hive mind. You're posting on here and you disagree? MN doesn't "think" anything.

XStitcher87 · 24/09/2026 07:03

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 23/09/2026 22:12

What is wrong with drinking tango on a video call? I have drank cans of pop many times on calls or during meetings , never occurred to me that it would be an issue.

(I wouldn’t take one to an interview)

That’s the thing, I’m not sure why I think it’s unprofessional. I don’t think it’s the can of pop per se as a can of Diet Coke wouldn’t bother me. I think it’s just Tango. Maybe because of the adverts in the 90s?

XStitcher87 · 24/09/2026 07:06

Scrimblescromble · 23/09/2026 22:09

Or maybe a tango ice blast…two flavours. The final boss is one of those caps where you put a can on either side and drink from a straw. They seem to feature less than they did in the 90s. Wearing one of those at an interview AND being offered the job is my new life goal

Looking forward to the MN thread on this 😂

Scrimblescromble · 24/09/2026 07:09

Pinkissmart · 24/09/2026 06:55

I think they are somehow worse because they sweat

I was thinking maybe it’s the clinky ice and the wet ring on the desk

hellofrommyothername · 24/09/2026 07:10

I’m now concerned about the people who are saying bringing anything is unprofessional! I’ve always taken a bottle of water in with me as my throat dries up when I get nervous (I am pretty terrible at interviews tbh)

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 07:12

hellofrommyothername · 24/09/2026 07:10

I’m now concerned about the people who are saying bringing anything is unprofessional! I’ve always taken a bottle of water in with me as my throat dries up when I get nervous (I am pretty terrible at interviews tbh)

Nobody thinks bottled water is unreasonable.

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