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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

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LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:02

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 14:01

Also your question was ‘is it unprofessional?’ not ‘is it wise to do so, considering some people may find it unprofessional?’

You'd think an interviewee would err on the side of caution.

Purplepeopleeaterz · 24/09/2026 14:02

Its better than the candidate that was sat eating their breakfast throughout when we had to interview on Teams and responded to the questions through mouthfuls of cereal!
They were not offered the job....

Justareceptionist · 24/09/2026 14:02

Yep. Totally unprofessional.
But working on reception has really opened by eyes to how little effort some people make for interviews. Turning up in jeans and messy buns,walking in there with no smile, eye contact and like they're doing us a favour by being there.
Someone will probably bring their dog next.

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 14:01

Also your question was ‘is it unprofessional?’ not ‘is it wise to do so, considering some people may find it unprofessional?’

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 14:00

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:32

A different question to the original.

Maybe we should all agree that it's OK to bring takeaway drinks into interviews

But we haven't.

So it's daft as a candidate to behave as if we have.

Just think though - you could be a part of that change.

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 13:59

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:34

Plenty of people swear in work meetings, including client meetings.

And you’re fine with that, but not someone bringing a coffee to an interview?

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 13:50

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:27

In plenty of normal discussions, people swear.

Do you recommend dropping the c-bomb in a job interview or is it ridiculous to focus on thoughts like ""could someone mighty feel potentially a teeny bit distracted by my cunting?"

You’re mixing up things that actually are widely agreed to be unprofessional with what you think is unprofessional.

you can’t use swearing (widely agreed to be unprofessional) to demonstrate the problem with take away coffee (views differ)

whereswilson · 24/09/2026 13:47

seahorsessky · 23/09/2026 19:59

Don't some contain allergens which would be banned in some workplaces?

Coffee banned at work? I cant imagine a work place that banned coffee.

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:34

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 13:29

Most people wouldn’t swear in a meeting at work, so they wouldn’t swear at a job interview.

Plenty of people swear in work meetings, including client meetings.

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FiveEightNine · 24/09/2026 13:34

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:27

In plenty of normal discussions, people swear.

Do you recommend dropping the c-bomb in a job interview or is it ridiculous to focus on thoughts like ""could someone mighty feel potentially a teeny bit distracted by my cunting?"

Teeny bit distracted was your evaluation of the impact of the coffee. I suppose that heavy swearing would be more than that.

Anyway, you really don't see a difference between a coffee which is pretty normal thing to have at a workplace and swearing, which probably is not?

The whole point is, that using your feelings about very small unimportant things which have nothing to do with the job itself might not be the best way to do your job of selecting the best candidate.

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:32

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 13:21

But why should you have to? Do we really have to maintain ancient etiquette rules that make no sense? You’ve said you employ humans rather than robots, so treat them as humans rather than robots.

A different question to the original.

Maybe we should all agree that it's OK to bring takeaway drinks into interviews

But we haven't.

So it's daft as a candidate to behave as if we have.

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LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 13:30

Faceonthewrongfoot · 24/09/2026 13:28

I watched a video of someone discussing this yesterday, and the point she made, which makes sense, is that you don't need to bring one in with you, so why do something that might impact the interviewer's perception of you? Lots of people might not care, but some will. (Plus the potential for you to knock it over/spill it - do you want their memory of you to be the person that stained their carpet....?)
And ultimately, you are there to sell them something - to convince them to employ you. Would you present a sales pitch while slurping a drink through a straw?

Like a big sippy cup!
Good points.

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 13:29

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:27

In plenty of normal discussions, people swear.

Do you recommend dropping the c-bomb in a job interview or is it ridiculous to focus on thoughts like ""could someone mighty feel potentially a teeny bit distracted by my cunting?"

Most people wouldn’t swear in a meeting at work, so they wouldn’t swear at a job interview.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 13:29

FiveEightNine · 24/09/2026 13:21

Why is me without a drink supposed to be a better version of myself?

Arriving on time and wearing genenerally appropriate clothes are parts of the job.
If it is a kind of jobs when drinks are normal part of meetings, having one at the interview doesn't say anything about ability/inability to do the job.

Using it as part of the assesment just shows that the assesser is clueless.

Nope. It's about taking a situation seriously, you're not invited for a coffee break, or a chat on your way back from town. Plus they'll be sucking it up through a straw with the ice making a noise.
It's possible to defer pleasure. Get one on the way home. Sip water in an interview.

cheezncrackers · 24/09/2026 13:29

Unprofessional IMO, regardless of industry. I'm 52 and work in consultancy.

Faceonthewrongfoot · 24/09/2026 13:28

I watched a video of someone discussing this yesterday, and the point she made, which makes sense, is that you don't need to bring one in with you, so why do something that might impact the interviewer's perception of you? Lots of people might not care, but some will. (Plus the potential for you to knock it over/spill it - do you want their memory of you to be the person that stained their carpet....?)
And ultimately, you are there to sell them something - to convince them to employ you. Would you present a sales pitch while slurping a drink through a straw?

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:27

FiveEightNine · 24/09/2026 13:08

You expect people to cater for your feelings and "sensibilities". Effectively you are saying that the candidate should focus on thoughts like "could someone mighty feel potentially a teeny bit distracted by my coffee?" instead of just normally coming in as an equal to discuss the job and the company.

Don't you see how ridiculous it sounds? Like you have no idea what the actual job is about, so you are focusing on interpreting the personality from tea leaves a coffee cup.

In plenty of normal discussions, people swear.

Do you recommend dropping the c-bomb in a job interview or is it ridiculous to focus on thoughts like ""could someone mighty feel potentially a teeny bit distracted by my cunting?"

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Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 13:27

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 13:21

But why should you have to? Do we really have to maintain ancient etiquette rules that make no sense? You’ve said you employ humans rather than robots, so treat them as humans rather than robots.

Just to clarify, I would advise someone not to bring a coffee to an interview as I know it’s hard enough to get a job anyway and there are probably plenty of old school interviewers with similar opinions to you. But I think it’s the ‘rule’ that’s ridiculous, rather than someone thinking it might be ok to bring a coffee with them. If I was interviewing and someone brought their own drink but otherwise seemed brilliant and knew their stuff then I wouldn’t write them off just because they were sipping on a drink every so often.

FiveEightNine · 24/09/2026 13:21

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 13:15

It's part of a picture, like not arriving on time or wearing inappropriate clothes or chewing gum.
Why not promote the best version of yourself?

Why is me without a drink supposed to be a better version of myself?

Arriving on time and wearing genenerally appropriate clothes are parts of the job.
If it is a kind of jobs when drinks are normal part of meetings, having one at the interview doesn't say anything about ability/inability to do the job.

Using it as part of the assesment just shows that the assesser is clueless.

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 13:21

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:06

It is crazy to miss the job you want because you can't do without a coffee for an hour, no?

But why should you have to? Do we really have to maintain ancient etiquette rules that make no sense? You’ve said you employ humans rather than robots, so treat them as humans rather than robots.

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 13:19

Crushed23 · 24/09/2026 13:10

“subservient” to want a job you’re interviewing for… 🤦‍♀️

What decade/universe are people living in?

As someone who is currently job searching and has friends and colleagues in the same boat, we’re getting an interview for about 1 in 20-30 applications we submit. This is always a first round screening interview, with several more stages to come.

It is 100% an employer’s market out there. That’s why there’s been a surge of companies increasing office attendance (my industry is up to 3-4 days a week, on average).

Only an utter titwank would do anything that would risk giving a bad first impression, for the sake of what? Not going an hour without one’s preferred drink?

You are not, presumably a high court judge though?

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 13:18

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 24/09/2026 13:17

You wouldn’t notice them having to juggle their bag/coat/cup of coffee as you shake their hand and wouldn’t notice the clammy feel of the hand that was clutching the iced latte? Wouldn’t notice the sound of the straw scraping the cup or ice cubes knocking on the side of the cup. Wouldn’t notice the slurp as they take a sip?

Ok…..

You sound very much like you have sensory issues (I would hate to work for someone who did to this extent btw)

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 24/09/2026 13:17

NotARealWookiie · 24/09/2026 13:01

I interview as part of a panel regularly for a city council. I wouldn’t notice or care.

You wouldn’t notice them having to juggle their bag/coat/cup of coffee as you shake their hand and wouldn’t notice the clammy feel of the hand that was clutching the iced latte? Wouldn’t notice the sound of the straw scraping the cup or ice cubes knocking on the side of the cup. Wouldn’t notice the slurp as they take a sip?

Ok…..

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 13:15

FiveEightNine · 24/09/2026 13:14

It just doesn't make much sense from the employer's point of view. Overfocus on something irrelevant. If someone at our hiring process would try to dismiss a candidate because of a coffee, we would have to fire that self-important twat.

Are you sure it is your employer's position, or only your feelings being hurt?

It's part of a picture, like not arriving on time or wearing inappropriate clothes or chewing gum.
Why not promote the best version of yourself?

FiveEightNine · 24/09/2026 13:14

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 13:06

It is crazy to miss the job you want because you can't do without a coffee for an hour, no?

It just doesn't make much sense from the employer's point of view. Overfocus on something irrelevant. If someone at our hiring process would try to dismiss a candidate because of a coffee, we would have to fire that self-important twat.

Are you sure it is your employer's position, or only your feelings being hurt?