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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

OP posts:
EveryoneUsingOutro · 24/09/2026 16:32

Commecicommeca26 · 23/09/2026 21:19

Are you ok? This really cannot just be about an iced coffee at an interview.

Apparently so! OP taking this VERY seriously 😄

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 15:44

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 15:43

It was not 'my company '. I was a employed as a PA. I had no part in the business planning. All I can say is that the technical employees were recruited from all over the UK and beyond and believed to be the best in their field. The company was very successful.

What all this has to do with the topic of this thread I don't know. Clever young people ought to realise without having to be told that it is not professional to take part in important meetings whilst spooning cereals into your mouth.

Very poor social skills.

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 15:43

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:34

i think it’s really interesting that these young people were skilled enough to explain the technology though. Couldn’t you find more mature people who could do so or didn’t they have the right skilll set?

because I mean, it’s your company that choose to put a load of inexperienced grads in an important meeting, cereal or no cereal. Seems quite poorly thought out.

It was not 'my company '. I was a employed as a PA. I had no part in the business planning. All I can say is that the technical employees were recruited from all over the UK and beyond and believed to be the best in their field. The company was very successful.

What all this has to do with the topic of this thread I don't know. Clever young people ought to realise without having to be told that it is not professional to take part in important meetings whilst spooning cereals into your mouth.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 15:42

Mosaic80 · 24/09/2026 14:48

Definitely not professional. Accept a glass of water offered and nothing else imo! We once interviewed a graduate man who had his short sleeves rolled up, leaned back in his chair and swigged constantly from a plastic water bottle - awful! I’m late 40s and worked in publishing for most of my career till recently.

had you offered him water in a glass/have it available for him?

DressOrSkirt · 24/09/2026 15:07

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 12:52

How is it subservient to want the job you are interviewing for?

Who said it was? It's subservient to only drink liquids approved by the interviewer.

Verv · 24/09/2026 14:54

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:55

Supporting other people with what? Why so coy?

Why are you pretending not to know what the job title "support worker" is?

Mosaic80 · 24/09/2026 14:48

Definitely not professional. Accept a glass of water offered and nothing else imo! We once interviewed a graduate man who had his short sleeves rolled up, leaned back in his chair and swigged constantly from a plastic water bottle - awful! I’m late 40s and worked in publishing for most of my career till recently.

Faceonthewrongfoot · 24/09/2026 14:45

TreatedAsOptional · 24/09/2026 14:23

Why though? Why does it matter?!

Well, it matters no more than what you're wearing in terms of your ability to do the job, in the vast majority of cases, and yet few people would turn up to an interview in a vest and shorts. First impressions matter, and when you're there to persuade a company that you are the right person out of the multitude of other candidates they are going to interview that week, why would you do anything that might risk the impression you give if you didn't need to? Nobody needs an ice coffee in an interview. Have one before or after. For a lot of people, it comes across as casual, or even disorganised (in that you didn't give yourself time to have your drink beforehand), and you will have no idea whether your interviewer falls in to the category of people who think that. It just seems odd to me to do something you don't need to do on the principle that it 'doesn't matter' when in fact it might.

Neuronimo · 24/09/2026 14:41

YANBU it seems quite it doesn't seem very professional to bring a coffee.

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:34

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:24

My boss was the Group Finance and Commercial Director, there to handle the business/financial side of the pitch to the directors of the companies we were aiming to sell to. The graduates were the technical side of the project, there to explain how the systems integrated with their existing programs. If that's ok with you?

i think it’s really interesting that these young people were skilled enough to explain the technology though. Couldn’t you find more mature people who could do so or didn’t they have the right skilll set?

because I mean, it’s your company that choose to put a load of inexperienced grads in an important meeting, cereal or no cereal. Seems quite poorly thought out.

NSRN · 24/09/2026 14:27

FiveEightNine · 23/09/2026 21:27

I think it is a a little bit rude
It feels pretty greedy and needy
I think it is a tiny bit distracting
I think it shows a small to medium lack of...

Wow. Can you hear yourself?
Letting your feelings and personal opinions about something super small to influence your evaluation of a candidate? It sounds so self-important and judgmental.

Unless you are hiring a coach of mid-level corporate etiquette, try to not get distracted so easily and don't focus on a made up nonsense.

Meanwhile, your rebuttal was ALL feelings, lol. Not a single logical reason as to why they were wrong.
Also, it's an interview - you're being assessed on even the smalls things about yourself.

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:24

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:12

Yes but what were they doing with the board?! In a decade of working closely with boards its standard that you don’t have every Tom dick and Harry in a meeting with them.

My boss was the Group Finance and Commercial Director, there to handle the business/financial side of the pitch to the directors of the companies we were aiming to sell to. The graduates were the technical side of the project, there to explain how the systems integrated with their existing programs. If that's ok with you?

TreatedAsOptional · 24/09/2026 14:23

Why though? Why does it matter?!

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 14:21

As much as I say I wouldn’t mind, they would need to find a way to still shake hands etc so if both hands were full as a result and they couldn’t juggle it , then it wouldn’t be a great first impression. Although if rest of the interview was good wouldn’t stop me from hiring

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:18

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:16

This really made me
laugh. The pure madness of schools as employers and coffee isn’t good enough for you? 😂

No. It's health and safety. None of those takeaway cups are allowed in corridors or classrooms. We have 1,750 teenagers, many of whom are on the corridors at the same time.
Many spillages, many falls in classrooms and corridors have led to this rule.
If you find it funny, that's your prerogative.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 14:18

TheFishFish · 24/09/2026 12:27

Yes, that is exactly my point.

Obviously, in some professions you need to turn up super formal and present as such.

In other jobs, not so much. If you get it wrong in either direction you show to the interviewer that you have misjudged things.

Turning up to a casual job for a trade in full business attire would be just as weird as turning up for a job at a big 4 in jeans. In some places coming in with a coffee would be fine, in others not.

Well done for getting there.

Edited

i have had candidates turn up for a big 4 interview in jeans. I was not impressed. Find this worse than the iced coffee.

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:16

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:12

I would say "yes" , but that's in the context of schools.

This really made me
laugh. The pure madness of schools as employers and coffee isn’t good enough for you? 😂

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:12

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:07

It was a young tech company. Lots of graduates.

Yes but what were they doing with the board?! In a decade of working closely with boards its standard that you don’t have every Tom dick and Harry in a meeting with them.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:12

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 14:10

Yes I agree. But to the question ‘is it unprofessional?’ I’d say no.

I would say "yes" , but that's in the context of schools.

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 14:10

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:02

You'd think an interviewee would err on the side of caution.

Yes I agree. But to the question ‘is it unprofessional?’ I’d say no.

lavendervibes · 24/09/2026 14:08

this is timely, I was interviewing yesterday, the interviewer, and had a can of Pepsi which I was drinking in the pre meet, but during the interview I put it out of sight as it didn’t seem professional. Water is fine, anything else, no.

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:07

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:05

Seems a bit odd to have graduates at board meetings tbh

It was a young tech company. Lots of graduates.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 14:06

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:04

My boss once had to explain to some graduate employees that it didn't look professional to bring bowls of Shreddies into early morning board level client meetings. Their response was "but I've not had any breakfast". I don't think they would have thought twice about taking drinks to an interview.

Yes, it's about just doing what you want, never mind the situation.

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:05

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:04

My boss once had to explain to some graduate employees that it didn't look professional to bring bowls of Shreddies into early morning board level client meetings. Their response was "but I've not had any breakfast". I don't think they would have thought twice about taking drinks to an interview.

Seems a bit odd to have graduates at board meetings tbh

DoraSpenlow · 24/09/2026 14:04

My boss once had to explain to some graduate employees that it didn't look professional to bring bowls of Shreddies into early morning board level client meetings. Their response was "but I've not had any breakfast". I don't think they would have thought twice about taking drinks to an interview.