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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

OP posts:
Franxi · 23/09/2026 20:20

We always offer people tea/coffee/water. Either it’s in the room if the interviews are back to back, or in the kitchen area and we make polite small talk whilst making it. I prefer the latter, it’s good to see and speak to the candidates in a less formal way.

tokennamechange · 23/09/2026 20:20

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 20:12

I wouldn't want you if you were so judgemental.

it's hardly judgemental to not want to hire someone with neither critical thinking skills, nor any initiative (seriously, why not just google it if you honestly didn't know?) whom you'd have to walk through and spoon feed every single task.

If you can't work out that an iced coffee is a coffee with ice in it, (and, worse, feel comfortable telling people you don't know that) how would you possibly cope in the workplace if asked to get the 'Smith file,' or the 'annual accounts' or the 'headed paper,' etc.?

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 20:20

Backedoffhackedoff · 23/09/2026 20:02

im Really struggling to think of a role where it would make any difference to the decision to hire the right person unless it’s the sort of role anyone could do

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

OP posts:
FiveEightNine · 23/09/2026 20:19

I don't see the problem. (Forties, IT consulting, not HR, but I sat more interviews as the interviewer than interviewee side)

Calling it "unprofessional" sounds like some imaginary, made up rules to me.
If it makes the candidate feel better or more relaxed, more able to proof what they can do, who cares?

MyEasterBonnet · 23/09/2026 20:19

What’s unprofessional about a drink??

Whaleandsnail6 · 23/09/2026 20:19

Newmeagain · 23/09/2026 20:14

Completely unprofessional and lacks insight. Of course it’s fine once you get the job. I work in a senior professional role and have my breakfast at my desk every morning! But an interview is different

But why is it unprofessional and lacking in insight?

Is taking a bottle of water unprofessional?

What if they offer you a hot drink? Is that a trick question and if you accept you lack insight?

I think as long as the drink isn't distracting and just quiet, discreet sips whilst listening to the question, I don't understand the concern.

I've interviewed numerous candidates for jobs and someone bringing a drink in wouldn't concern me.

Ive also sipped water in interviews myself, helps with dry mouth due to nerves (wouldn't accept coffee for fear of needing a wee!)

DirtyBird · 23/09/2026 20:19

I would never do it, but it's always welcomed when I'm offered water as interviews make me nervous and my throat always gets dry.

letterboxes · 23/09/2026 20:19

DoloresDelEriba · 23/09/2026 20:16

You wouldn’t notice? How could you not?

I nearly wrote "I wouldn't notice" in my answer. I genuinely almost wouldn't notice. It would be a non event.

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 20:18

Short skirts? No
Jeans? No
Dirty finger nails? No
Being unprepared? No
Bringing in an iced coffee? Why not?

I'm definitely in another world or of a certain age.

letterboxes · 23/09/2026 20:17

Wow this is interesting. I work in tech and interview a lot and I don't think I would even blink an eye if a candidate did this. Have definitely had people show up with takeaway coffee cups before. Our office is really near a super nice coffee place. Good to know not everyone thinks this is normal though ... will make sure I don't do this in any interviews in the future 😂

C4tintherug · 23/09/2026 20:17

EveryoneUsingOutro · 23/09/2026 20:13

You seriously have never heard of support workers? Confused

I think it’s a massive lack of judgement to be so aggressive asking about what a support worker is.
The kinds of jobs they might do- take people to the toilet, push people around in wheelchairs, support people with going out and about, help people to get dressed, help fill in forms.
How have you never heard of a support worker who are literally the backbone of society yet care so much about someone drinking iced coffee?

tokennamechange · 23/09/2026 20:17

ColdAsAWitches · 23/09/2026 20:05

Everybody drinks coffee all the time in every company I've ever worked. Coffee is available for free in all our dining areas. Having a coffee at a meeting is perfectly normal, and done by about 75% of people in a meeting. Eating a Big Mac in a meeting isn't, so that's different.

but an interview isn't the workplace!

It's pretty standard that you present yourself differently in an interview compared to when you're actually working somewhere. You speak differently, dress more formally, usually don't make jokes, use different body language and generally try to present the absolute best version of yourself you can.

For me it's one of those cost/benefit scenarios.

The possible benefit to you is you drink an iced coffee slightly earlier than you would if you waited until after the interview to drink it.
Possible negatives are if you accidentally spill it you look clumsy and unprofessional, or even if your interviewer happens to be one of the many people who just think it's inappropriate - it could cost you the job.

So the potential negatives seem to vastly outweigh the positives. It seems a silly thing to stake a job on when you could just wait half an hour and have the coffee then.

ilovepixie · 23/09/2026 20:16

No very unprofessional. Doesn’t matter what the job is for. First impressions count a lot.

DoloresDelEriba · 23/09/2026 20:16

ColdAsAWitches · 23/09/2026 19:59

I'm a manager and regularly interview. I don't think I'd even notice if someone brought in a coffee. It would have no bearing in whether they can do the job, so why would it matter?

You wouldn’t notice? How could you not?

EveryoneUsingOutro · 23/09/2026 20:15

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:54

I work in the creative industries. In fact, we work with some of the biggest iced coffee brands in the world. Very casual work culture re: dress codes etc.

And if someone came for interview carrying an iced coffee I would think they completely lacked judgement. Why do they need to bring a drink in with them? Why not bring it a snack?

Maybe they had done their research on who your biggest customers were and wanted to show solidarity

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 20:15

MeowDoku · 23/09/2026 20:14

We always provide water for candidates, but sometimes I have a coffee, I could be doing 7 hour long interviews back to back and score during my lunchbreak, a candidate is there for an hour

Yes, there should have been water provided.

CheeseyNacho · 23/09/2026 20:14

I heard a story once from an old colleague - could be BS, but knowing them I suspect it was true.

They were the hiring manager for a grad scheme at a big company in London. Being a decent company, and a grad scheme they paid for train fare too and from London for all the candidates. Someone phoned to say they were running late due to an issue with the trains. not a huge issue, these things happen and at least they called.

The interviewee showed up two hours late, carrying some Harrods bags. Turns out, they had never been to London before, and combined the interview and free train with some shopping and sightseeing and thought they could cross London a lot quicker than than they actually could

MeowDoku · 23/09/2026 20:14

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 20:00

I was being interviewed where both interviewers brought a coffee in and didn't ask if I wanted anything. That should have set the scene for what cunts they were to work for.

We always provide water for candidates, but sometimes I have a coffee, I could be doing 7 hour long interviews back to back and score during my lunchbreak, a candidate is there for an hour

Melarus · 23/09/2026 20:14

I work in the media and would think nothing of it. In fact, I once had a job interview in a London cafe. Coffee was drunk by both of us if I remember correctly - and I got the job

Newmeagain · 23/09/2026 20:14

Completely unprofessional and lacks insight. Of course it’s fine once you get the job. I work in a senior professional role and have my breakfast at my desk every morning! But an interview is different

Somethinggg · 23/09/2026 20:14

People do get quite weird about takeaway coffees, speaking as a non-imbiber. Mind you some people have attitude about bottles of water too.

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 20:14

EveryoneUsingOutro · 23/09/2026 20:13

A coffee (usually latte style) with ice in it - it’s really not that hard to work out from the description 🤣

Quite, and that's why I questioned it because I still don't see the issue with a cold coffee. This all sounds so wank.

EveryoneUsingOutro · 23/09/2026 20:13

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:48

What's a support worker? Supporting what?

You seriously have never heard of support workers? Confused

EveryoneUsingOutro · 23/09/2026 20:13

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 19:54

Couldn't even tell you what that drink is.

A coffee (usually latte style) with ice in it - it’s really not that hard to work out from the description 🤣

Lemonyyy · 23/09/2026 20:12

I assume the issue with specifically iced coffee is that it seems frivolous/young. I don't tend to buy coffee out and would only be drinking a takeaway iced coffee as a treat, so I certainly wouldn't be wasting my enjoyment taking it to a job interview, I'd have it afterwards!

I am employed at a university and honestly I think the reaction you'd get would vary department to department so I think if you're at all worried about appearing unprofessional then I'd probably skip it!

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