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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

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MasterBeth · 25/09/2026 11:28

That's actually a neurotypicalist comment.

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AbsurdAllistic · 25/09/2026 10:24

Ffs is this really what neurotypicals GAF about? 🙄 Have I ever felt the need to bring my own drink to an interview, no. Would I have judged someone for bringing one? No. Unless it was a beer or something. There really are more important things going on in the world, get a grip.

Ashhh56 · 25/09/2026 09:46

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:55

Supporting other people with what? Why so coy?

Are you being dense on purpose?

Sallywag134 · 25/09/2026 07:36

I think the only drink acceptable to walk into an interview with is a bottle of water. Anything else makes it seem very casual and like you don’t really want the job.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 25/09/2026 06:44

OneRealPombear · 24/09/2026 23:07

it was proceeded by the rest of her lunch which she sat eating whilst not answering my questions. It was to this day the most bizarre interview I have ever conducted! Had she said sorry, would you mind if I just have this packet of crisps and some apple juice as my blood sugar is rather low I would not have given it a second thought. The way the rest of her interview continued I can assure you she was not well but not a diabetic fugue

Ok well this is a bit different. I would have no problem with someone having an orange juice, wouldn’t really think anything of it but a bag of crisps is very different- completely inappropriate

maxslice · 25/09/2026 04:55

I wouldn’t do it, but if I were hiring people, it wouldn’t bother me. Depending on their personality and how they were dressed, it might project ease, social poise, and confidence. And an ability to think for themselves. I draw the line at gum chewing and eating, though.

DetectiveDouche · 25/09/2026 01:32

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:48

What's a support worker? Supporting what?

People @MasterBeth . Supporting people. A vital care worker role.

OneRealPombear · 24/09/2026 23:07

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 20:24

Maybe there were diabetic and needed it

it was proceeded by the rest of her lunch which she sat eating whilst not answering my questions. It was to this day the most bizarre interview I have ever conducted! Had she said sorry, would you mind if I just have this packet of crisps and some apple juice as my blood sugar is rather low I would not have given it a second thought. The way the rest of her interview continued I can assure you she was not well but not a diabetic fugue

T1Dmama · 24/09/2026 22:58

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 23:17

Yeah, client meetings are normally full of coffees in our industry too. And the majority of interviews start with offering a coffee - sure.

So it's a bit odd to turn up with your own. It suggests you don't understand the norms of the industry.

I think now a days lots of people would rather buy a coffee as they prefer almond milk, oat milk etc… more people have allergies, more people are vegans..
I think it’s a bit short sighted to just assume people are rude to bring their own drink, there are so many circumstances where bringing your own is easier than sounding fussy or having to disclose you are a vegan or lactose intolerant…
I guess it depends on the job too, length of interview, time of day, temperature etc…
during the heatwave I don’t think an iced drink was out of order,
Also possibly someone might need to sip on a milky drink to keep their sugars up if diabetic and nerves make their sugars drop - although usually anxiety would make sugars go high, but everyone’s different - my daughter is type one and has been told that she’ll be allowed food and drink on her during her GCSE exams to help regulate sugars.. and exams are only 60-90 minutes long.
Personally I wouldn’t take a drink into an interview, but it wouldn’t bother me if someone else did.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 24/09/2026 22:27

Late 40s, work in the voluntary sector.

Wouldn't bother me at all, especially during this summer's heatwaves. I was packing my travel mug full of ice to have icy cold drinks in our non air conditioned office.

T1Dmama · 24/09/2026 22:17

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 20:01

Would it matter if they were eating a bag of Haribo or a Big Mac?

Don’t be daft. Taking a sip of a cold drink so you don’t get a dry throat is very different to sitting there eating, chewing actual food. Taking a sip of a drink doesn’t affect your ability to answer questions - obviously chewing would affect your ability to talk!

T1Dmama · 24/09/2026 22:10

Why on Earth shouldn’t someone take a drink into an interview?
it wouldn’t bother me in the slightest if someone brought a bottle of water or a cup of coffee into an interview.
Earring in an interview is a no no, but I don’t see any issue with having a non alcoholic drink’
(approaching 50)

SeraphionLightbringer · 24/09/2026 20:52

I think it’s really unprofessional.

50s- Data analyst in Civil Service.

HRTQueen · 24/09/2026 20:43

Yes it is unprofessional

im in my early 50’s and work in healthcare

we have had a number of people turn up with coffees/cans of coke and Macdonalds milkshake

if you feel you need a drink (which many will) a bottle of water is fine

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 20:24

OneRealPombear · 24/09/2026 20:07

I used to work in recruitment and once had an interview with someone who declined a water/coffee then proceeded to take a carton of juice out her bag, pierce it with a straw then drink from it whilst it remained on the table and holding eye contact with me…..I had to leave the room and get a colleague to take over. I was convinced she was high as surely no one in their right mind would do that.

Maybe there were diabetic and needed it

OneRealPombear · 24/09/2026 20:07

I used to work in recruitment and once had an interview with someone who declined a water/coffee then proceeded to take a carton of juice out her bag, pierce it with a straw then drink from it whilst it remained on the table and holding eye contact with me…..I had to leave the room and get a colleague to take over. I was convinced she was high as surely no one in their right mind would do that.

MasterBeth · 24/09/2026 19:20

ThisUmberSwan · 24/09/2026 18:45

its so bizzare I can go to the coffee shop on the way to an interview and buy a drink I prefer over a drink offered in an interview. Same as if I got the job in an office I’d stop and get a coffee of my own choice on the way in rather than the standard coffees that are potentially provided. I don’t even bloody like coffee but how you’re slating people for having a drink on the way to and in an interview is so so strange. I prefer hot chocolate and often have flavourings I also prefer Starbucks to anywhere else but according to you anyone in a working day should just stick to bog standard coffee that’s offered at work instead of going to spend their money where they choose to.

according to you anyone in a working day should just stick to bog standard coffee that’s offered at work instead of going to spend their money where they choose to

Er, no. We're talking about job interviews. Maybe read the thread?

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ThisUmberSwan · 24/09/2026 18:46

ThisUmberSwan · 24/09/2026 18:45

its so bizzare I can go to the coffee shop on the way to an interview and buy a drink I prefer over a drink offered in an interview. Same as if I got the job in an office I’d stop and get a coffee of my own choice on the way in rather than the standard coffees that are potentially provided. I don’t even bloody like coffee but how you’re slating people for having a drink on the way to and in an interview is so so strange. I prefer hot chocolate and often have flavourings I also prefer Starbucks to anywhere else but according to you anyone in a working day should just stick to bog standard coffee that’s offered at work instead of going to spend their money where they choose to.

I still stand by it though I only turn up to an interview with water if anything at all and in my last interview 3 years ago I turned up with nothing but myself and my documents

ThisUmberSwan · 24/09/2026 18:45

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 23:17

Yeah, client meetings are normally full of coffees in our industry too. And the majority of interviews start with offering a coffee - sure.

So it's a bit odd to turn up with your own. It suggests you don't understand the norms of the industry.

its so bizzare I can go to the coffee shop on the way to an interview and buy a drink I prefer over a drink offered in an interview. Same as if I got the job in an office I’d stop and get a coffee of my own choice on the way in rather than the standard coffees that are potentially provided. I don’t even bloody like coffee but how you’re slating people for having a drink on the way to and in an interview is so so strange. I prefer hot chocolate and often have flavourings I also prefer Starbucks to anywhere else but according to you anyone in a working day should just stick to bog standard coffee that’s offered at work instead of going to spend their money where they choose to.

Pollqueen · 24/09/2026 18:24

Corporate law. I definitely wouldn't do it

MyRubyFox · 24/09/2026 18:13

Yes. I interviewed someone who walked into our (small) office for interview holding a takeaway coffee. Because of this it was an immediate 'no' but I went through the motions (at speed).

Silverfoxette · 24/09/2026 17:57

No, why do people feel the need to constantly be carrying a drink? Unprofessional. Look up Hugh Grants views on this it’s spot on and funny

I’m 53, healthcare admin

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 17:56

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 17:19

Grads can have very good knowledge, insight in to the details and it can also be a great learning opportunity for them.

Not if they haven’t learnt appropriate workplace behavior and are thrown in front of a board it’s not

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 24/09/2026 17:19

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/09/2026 14:34

i think it’s really interesting that these young people were skilled enough to explain the technology though. Couldn’t you find more mature people who could do so or didn’t they have the right skilll set?

because I mean, it’s your company that choose to put a load of inexperienced grads in an important meeting, cereal or no cereal. Seems quite poorly thought out.

Grads can have very good knowledge, insight in to the details and it can also be a great learning opportunity for them.

EveryoneUsingOutro · 24/09/2026 16:33

Fireybricks · 23/09/2026 21:24

Hmm it feels like something a young millennial or Gen Z would do. Probably says they’re more interested in what the company can do for them and they’ll be expecting a good hybrid working pattern or regular work from home.

Hope you stretched before that leap.