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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

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Thingcanonlygetbetter · 23/09/2026 21:20

UninitendedShark · 23/09/2026 19:48

I recently had a couple of candidates watching TikTok with the sound on whilst waiting to be called in for one to one interviews after a group interview.

Well I hope none of them got employed

pimplebum · 23/09/2026 21:20

I would not think it weird if someone bought a bottle of water to wet a nervous mouth but a take away cup coffee screams casual out shopping with my gal pals type thing

having said that id expect to be offered refreshments at an interview and have sipped the coffee offered to me during an interview

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Commecicommeca26 · 23/09/2026 21:19

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 20:20

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

Are you ok? This really cannot just be about an iced coffee at an interview.

ilovepixie · 23/09/2026 21:18

LuckyHazelFox · 23/09/2026 19:54

Couldn't even tell you what that drink is.

The clue is kind of in the name 🤨🤨

lavendersweetly · 23/09/2026 21:18

I was today years old when I learned that people on MN actually differentiate hot coffee from iced, because apparently iced coffee seems frivolous/infantile...
I don't know about all that but all I can say is that it must be depressing to live in a world where you are so consumed by others perceiving you as infantile for drinking coffee with ice in it 😂I'll just be over here, being frivolous and young, enjoying my iced Chai lattes.

As for OP's question, though I'm not a manager and have never hired anyone, I have personally never seen anyone bring anything other than water into an interview, myself included. I wouldn't consider it unprofessional necessarily but I would question why the coffee couldn't have waited until after, or been consumed prior.

FudgeSundae · 23/09/2026 21:17

I’ve run interviews in (fairly senior) finance for about ten years. I honestly wouldn’t even notice if someone brought a takeaway drink of any sort. But I don’t think I’ve ever taken a drink to an interview either.

MeridianB · 23/09/2026 21:15

MrsLFii · 23/09/2026 19:47

Eating and drinking anything, bar a glass of water, if needed, would be an absolute no from me.

This.

And a cautionary tale… About 18 months ago I was a second interviewer and one of the candidates had a huge takeaway soft drink with a straw (‘Big Gulp’ thing - this was in NY). She slurped on it leisurely throughout the interview, was easily the weakest of the candidates and had no questions at the end other than to ask where my earrings were from.

I rated her a hard no and the drink thing was a major part of that. But her ridiculous boss (who I had also interviewed a year before and rated a no) chose her and she is hopeless. The boss has since been fired for bullying her!

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 21:15

Totaldramallama · 23/09/2026 21:06

Yep. Since evrryone has some form of coffee at their desk I cannot fathom what about an iced coffee causes such an extreme reaction from you OP. I work in HR and don't think I would notice what drink someone had unless it was a glass of wine or something.

Also looked a bit of a tit not knowing what a support worker is then accusing the poster of being coy 😂

I think it's a little bit rude to be bringing your own drink into any new social situation where you are likely to be offered a drink by the host.

I think it feels pretty greedy and needy to have to have a drink with you during the 30-90 minutes of an interview.

I think it's a tiny bit distracting to be sucking on a straw and rattling your ice cubes in a job interview.

Putting all those things together, I think it shows a small to medium lack of judgement when the alternative is very simple - to not bring an iced coffee into an interview.

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Backedoffhackedoff · 23/09/2026 21:15

Goodmorningeveryone26 · 23/09/2026 21:12

It’s like sucking on a baby bottle. Just looks really infantile, like they can’t go an hour without an emotional support dummy

I don’t get this iced coffee / baby stuff. In lots of hot countries all people drink it all summer

anyway, what did make me laugh is thinking about all this hand wringing about falling standards when people used to go into interviews and HAVE A FAG back in the day 🚬

Wingingit73 · 23/09/2026 21:14

Unprofessional but also silly that it matters.

PrideanndPurrjudice · 23/09/2026 21:13

Goodmorningeveryone26 · 23/09/2026 21:12

It’s like sucking on a baby bottle. Just looks really infantile, like they can’t go an hour without an emotional support dummy

Quite. And or they don’t care or know how childish they look.

Goodmorningeveryone26 · 23/09/2026 21:12

It’s like sucking on a baby bottle. Just looks really infantile, like they can’t go an hour without an emotional support dummy

PrideanndPurrjudice · 23/09/2026 21:12

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 23/09/2026 21:09

I’ve done loads of interviews and wouldn’t care less. This would not play any role in whether they get the position or not

Fair enough! Different jobs / areas I guess 🤷‍♀️

SaltLimeSoda · 23/09/2026 21:12

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 20:20

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

Exactly this. Some interviewers won’t care but a lot will, and it shows a lack of judgement and professionalism. Obviously it wouldn’t be the deciding factor but I would definitely notice and mark a candidate down for this. I bring iced coffees to internal team meetings, doesn’t mean I’d do the same if I was called to a meeting with senior management or the CEO. Context is important and candidates who don’t recognise that and adapt their behaviour accordingly are probably not the right fit. I work in a corporate job but equally wouldn’t have done this when interviewing for cafe and bar work back in the day, it’s unprofessional regardless of the job.

XmasCrackPies · 23/09/2026 21:10

I work in a salon. Its mandatory.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 23/09/2026 21:09

PrideanndPurrjudice · 23/09/2026 20:40

They’d not get the job.

I’ve done loads of interviews and wouldn’t care less. This would not play any role in whether they get the position or not

Twokittenchaos · 23/09/2026 21:08

Wouldn’t bat an eyelid, publishing industry, albeit corporate function, central London office, I’m late 40’s. Previously worked in fashion industry, also interviewed people with & without a coffee and it’s never been an indicator of quality of candidate.

BridalFeastofBethChadruharazzeb · 23/09/2026 21:08

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 20:00

You don't think disobeying the rules of etiquette is inherently unprofessional?

Well ive interviewed plenty, and quite frankly I wouldn't care if they brought in a drink with them.

Sandwich? Id judge.

Actually depends if they were using a disposable cup or their own one. Id be more than happy if it was in their own cup.

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 21:07

Scrimblescromble · 23/09/2026 21:01

Which categories do the ones you named fall into in terms of acceptability of ice coffee at an interview?

Well, the original reply said:

"all of my interviews are for support worker jobs where there are no hard rules or dress code."

So I don't really get why it is a crazy question to ask what kind of support worker this is.

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Totaldramallama · 23/09/2026 21:06

ThatLoudCat · 23/09/2026 20:24

"basic rituals of a professional workplace" what a load of wank.

Yep. Since evrryone has some form of coffee at their desk I cannot fathom what about an iced coffee causes such an extreme reaction from you OP. I work in HR and don't think I would notice what drink someone had unless it was a glass of wine or something.

Also looked a bit of a tit not knowing what a support worker is then accusing the poster of being coy 😂

MorganKitten · 23/09/2026 21:06

This is to do with the Gen Z interview pisstake

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 23/09/2026 21:05

I wouldn’t do it myself in a professional interview but wouldn’t think badly of someone if they did.

Mirsine · 23/09/2026 21:04

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Genuinely wouldn’t give a fuck if I interviewed someone who had iced coffee.

Hiyawotcha · 23/09/2026 21:04

Occasional interviewer in a generally unshowy and dress-down environment. Professional though but local gov.
unprofessional at an interview.
early 50s

Scrimblescromble · 23/09/2026 21:01

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 20:55

Yes, I would think so, which is why I asked the question.

Which categories do the ones you named fall into in terms of acceptability of ice coffee at an interview?

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