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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

OP posts:
Seajaye · 24/09/2026 08:21

Yes I think it's still unprofessional to take own drinks into an interview. Leave it outside the interview room If you must have a drink before hand.

If offered a drink by the interviewer , just choose from what's being offered. Accepting a glass of water is usually the best option.

Semi Retired, glad not to have to worry about modern office etiquette!

GustyGertie · 24/09/2026 08:16

Well an interview is not a coffee break so yes agree with pp it shows a lack of judgement.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 08:12

Besidemyselfwithworry · 24/09/2026 08:12

I know!
but I’m telling you now I wouldn’t be calling them in if that’s what they’re like. First impressions are everything.

Me neither.

Besidemyselfwithworry · 24/09/2026 08:12

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 08:09

That's unbelievable, isn't it!

I know!
but I’m telling you now I wouldn’t be calling them in if that’s what they’re like. First impressions are everything.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 08:09

Besidemyselfwithworry · 24/09/2026 08:07

They wouldn’t be being called in if that was me interviewing! How rude!

That's unbelievable, isn't it!

Besidemyselfwithworry · 24/09/2026 08:07

UninitendedShark · 23/09/2026 19:48

I recently had a couple of candidates watching TikTok with the sound on whilst waiting to be called in for one to one interviews after a group interview.

They wouldn’t be being called in if that was me interviewing! How rude!

Theeyeballsinthesky · 24/09/2026 07:45

Having watched this explode on X over the last few days, it seems very much to be a metaphor for (klaxon - huge sweeping generational generalisation) for Gen Z X posters who don't seem to understand the purpose of job interviews is to interview the ppl you've shortlisted because they akready have the skills fur the job so you're competing with (depending on the job) from anything up to 10-20 ppl and millennial/gen X p who do the interviewing explaining how they coukd probably give the job to anyone of a number of ppl because they all have the same skill set and so it comes down to how they are perceived as potential co workers/team players/possessors of soft skills that enable you to get along with ppl

this concept appears to have both baffled & enraged the Gen Z posters who think having the skills to go the job should just be enough & requiring anything else is unreasonable

it's been must entertaining and enlightening and it's really not about coffee....

YourOliveBalonz · 24/09/2026 07:33

I don’t work in this area, but if someone said ‘support worker’ to me I would think of exactly what google tells me it is, which is also what others have said in this thread.

Back to the question, yes I think bringing in a drink like that is bad etiquette. I’m not sure it counts as unprofessional, because you could do the same in a meeting and that would be fine, but it just doesn’t sit right in an interview. It seems casual, and like you just dropped in to be interviewed as one of your errands in town that day. It doesn’t look great the other side of the table either, although more freedom on that side. I would say all drinking the water provided, or coffee provided, is more egalitarian and removes the ‘well I’ve looked after myself’ element from the room.

Troublein · 24/09/2026 07:29

I see it as unprofessional.

If you can't manage one interview without an adult version of a sippy cup to hand, how are you ever going to stop slurping long enough to do any work?

Same with the people who can't leave the house without a water bottle the size of a backpack.

If it was in the middle of a heatwave I'd understand, but otherwise I'd just think you were not interested in the job.

Job interviews are like dates at the beginning of a relationship.
You are basically showing the best side of yourself and it is likely to be all downhill from there.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 07:27

5128gap · 24/09/2026 07:15

No. Professionalism is the ability to perform a job to the standards expected, in exchange for pay, demonstrating the required skill and expertise to perform it to accepted quality standards. Ie, not amateur.
In a job interview drinking an iced coffee is irrelevant to that. With the possible exceptions of interviewing for a niche role representing the Anti Ice Coffee lobby.
Observing etiquette can form part of professionalism, but typically reserved for universally agreed social norms, like not attending dressed as Coco the clown, or telling the interviewer they remind you of a toad, or similar. Even if they do.

You don't think sucking up a drink through a straw with the ice rattling is unprofessional? A functioning adult should be able to time and space food and drink intake. Have a decent breakfast at home.
Bring a bottle of water. Sip it unobtrusively.
It's not a friendly chat, it's a rigorous system to judge potential employees.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 07:24

Scrimblescromble · 24/09/2026 07:16

I’m glad you’ve said this. I was beginning to wonder if I’d hallucinated the concept of burping

Perhaps you're blessed with a very efficient digestive system!

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 07:23

ShattonerfDaParp · 24/09/2026 07:22

Thanks for that.

My pleasure.

ShattonerfDaParp · 24/09/2026 07:22

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 06:57

MN isn't a hive mind. You're posting on here and you disagree? MN doesn't "think" anything.

Thanks for that.

Beautifulhaiku · 24/09/2026 07:22

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 19:59

Iced coffee because apparently that was the drink first mentioned on TikTok regarding this question.

Is it more unprofessional than taking in a hot coffee to an interview? I think marginally, yes, because it's a bit infantile/there is a straw involved etc.

Both are ridiculous.

Edited

Could you explain why taking your own drink to an interview is ridiculous/unprofessional.

Scrimblescromble · 24/09/2026 07:16

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 06:02

Really? That's strange. Not a judgement on you!

I’m glad you’ve said this. I was beginning to wonder if I’d hallucinated the concept of burping

5128gap · 24/09/2026 07:15

MasterBeth · 23/09/2026 20:00

You don't think disobeying the rules of etiquette is inherently unprofessional?

No. Professionalism is the ability to perform a job to the standards expected, in exchange for pay, demonstrating the required skill and expertise to perform it to accepted quality standards. Ie, not amateur.
In a job interview drinking an iced coffee is irrelevant to that. With the possible exceptions of interviewing for a niche role representing the Anti Ice Coffee lobby.
Observing etiquette can form part of professionalism, but typically reserved for universally agreed social norms, like not attending dressed as Coco the clown, or telling the interviewer they remind you of a toad, or similar. Even if they do.

Sartre · 24/09/2026 07:14

Water is fine and usually offered, anything else is unprofessional.

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 07:12

hellofrommyothername · 24/09/2026 07:10

I’m now concerned about the people who are saying bringing anything is unprofessional! I’ve always taken a bottle of water in with me as my throat dries up when I get nervous (I am pretty terrible at interviews tbh)

Nobody thinks bottled water is unreasonable.

hellofrommyothername · 24/09/2026 07:10

I’m now concerned about the people who are saying bringing anything is unprofessional! I’ve always taken a bottle of water in with me as my throat dries up when I get nervous (I am pretty terrible at interviews tbh)

Scrimblescromble · 24/09/2026 07:09

Pinkissmart · 24/09/2026 06:55

I think they are somehow worse because they sweat

I was thinking maybe it’s the clinky ice and the wet ring on the desk

XStitcher87 · 24/09/2026 07:06

Scrimblescromble · 23/09/2026 22:09

Or maybe a tango ice blast…two flavours. The final boss is one of those caps where you put a can on either side and drink from a straw. They seem to feature less than they did in the 90s. Wearing one of those at an interview AND being offered the job is my new life goal

Looking forward to the MN thread on this 😂

XStitcher87 · 24/09/2026 07:03

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 23/09/2026 22:12

What is wrong with drinking tango on a video call? I have drank cans of pop many times on calls or during meetings , never occurred to me that it would be an issue.

(I wouldn’t take one to an interview)

That’s the thing, I’m not sure why I think it’s unprofessional. I don’t think it’s the can of pop per se as a can of Diet Coke wouldn’t bother me. I think it’s just Tango. Maybe because of the adverts in the 90s?

LeticiaMorales · 24/09/2026 06:57

ShattonerfDaParp · 24/09/2026 06:50

Ditto. Since joining mumsnet it has become abundantly clear that my idea of what being a 'professional' entails is wildly out of whack with the majority, despite me being (on paper at least) the archetypal professional myself. If an interviewee plonked a bottle in Famous Grouse on the table then yeah, I'd mark them down for it (single malts are far superior), but a drink that you'd not bat an eyelid at in an office normally? Couldn't care less, absolutely irrelevant. In fact, if I was interviewing a parade of the type of bland, personality-and-warmth-free automatons that MN seems to think exemplify 'professionalism', bringing a slightly unusual drink in may serve to make them a bit more memorable, in a good way.

MN isn't a hive mind. You're posting on here and you disagree? MN doesn't "think" anything.

Pinkissmart · 24/09/2026 06:55

FourEyesGood · 23/09/2026 19:55

Why specifically iced coffee? Is an iced coffee more unprofessional than a hot coffee? (If so, why?)
I wouldn’t take any drink in with me (as long as there was water on offer) but if I were the interviewer, I wouldn’t think badly of a candidate taking a coffee in with them.

I think they are somehow worse because they sweat

ShattonerfDaParp · 24/09/2026 06:50

TFIThursday · 24/09/2026 06:29

I’m a very senior solicitor and it wouldn’t bother me. But then I do enjoy a drink!

Ditto. Since joining mumsnet it has become abundantly clear that my idea of what being a 'professional' entails is wildly out of whack with the majority, despite me being (on paper at least) the archetypal professional myself. If an interviewee plonked a bottle in Famous Grouse on the table then yeah, I'd mark them down for it (single malts are far superior), but a drink that you'd not bat an eyelid at in an office normally? Couldn't care less, absolutely irrelevant. In fact, if I was interviewing a parade of the type of bland, personality-and-warmth-free automatons that MN seems to think exemplify 'professionalism', bringing a slightly unusual drink in may serve to make them a bit more memorable, in a good way.

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